Girls always treat my shortcomings as jokes. What should I do?

People are not perfect, and there are bound to be all kinds of shortcomings. These shortcomings are usually not mentioned, and I don't feel anything, but some girls are "stubborn" and always make fun of you with your shortcomings. At this time, if you are angry, she will think that you are stingy and can't afford to joke.

In view of this situation, men with average emotional intelligence may quarrel, or show themselves unconfidently to show that they are not bad.

In fact, this is all the wrong way. What should you do when a girl laughs at your shortcomings?

This situation is very common, and it is normal for people to have some shortcomings more or less.

However, some girls are "hard-mouthed" and their words are particularly ugly. They also like to say that other men are good, excellent and so on in front of men.

In fact, these are all girls' waste tests to test whether you are confident enough.

When encountering this kind of problem, many brothers may quarrel or show themselves unconfidently to prove that they are actually good.

It doesn't really need to be like this.

The more you do this, the more energetic she will be. In fact, to deal with a woman's mouth, you need to learn to play Tai Chi. Let her feel that her fist is beating cotton, and if she doesn't, she will naturally be cut off.

From a psychological point of view, when a woman meets something, whether you respond positively or negatively, she will be allowed to continue the topic.

At this time, you don't need direct confrontation, just turn your focus to her, just like playing tennis, hit your opponent hard and simply relay back!

For example:

She said, who is really handsome?

At this time, you don't have to feel inferior and nervous at all. You can say: Look at you, like a sex maniac, your mouth is watering. Stay away from me when you see a handsome guy, lest people know that I know you.

If she doesn't feel your psychological ups and downs, she will naturally ask for trouble and won't make trouble with you like this again.

In fact, when others suppress you, you don't need to struggle or deny it. You will actually let the other person continue this topic. Then walk away, laugh at yourself a little, or simply entertain yourself.

Being able to do this is actually a strong self-confidence from the heart and accepting your own shortcomings.

Think about it, you like a person, do you still care about her shortcomings?

You want a man who likes you to accept himself first. Of course, women don't like men who feel inferior.

My girlfriend still thinks I'm ugly and short. I said I was a guide dog, and she said why. I said you were blind!

These are very simple, and the most important thing is to have strong self-confidence.

Know how to make full use of your own strength, know how to entertain yourself, and never argue with her for reasons, so you won't get any benefits and you will look very inferior.

Believe that no girl likes a man with inferiority complex?

So, be confident!