How to get along with unreasonable mother-in-law

The best way to meet a disrespectful mother-in-law is not to share common sense with her. First of all, she is old and you are young. If you care about her, others will not laugh at her, but only at you, a mistress. So I won't get angry with her on the spot.

I have been married for 30 years and have been living with my mother-in-law. During this period, I really endured a lot of grievances and helplessness, but I swallowed all the grievances and suffered everything by myself. I have never lost my temper with each other on the spot.

First, out of respect for the elders. Because when you have a conflict with your elders, even if it is justified, you are still a junior. We must first respect our elders, which is the first. Because they are old and even a little confused, their thinking is not as sensitive as that of young people. Sometimes it's right or wrong, but there's no way to dispute with them. If they really quarrel about this matter, even if the younger generation is right, it is also wrong.

Second, for the protection of family privacy, there will be no quarrel. Because every family has a difficult experience, it is said that every family has a difficult experience. When a family member lives together, it is impossible to be particularly harmonious everywhere. There are bound to be contradictions of one kind or another. Conflicts should be handled calmly. Noisy can't solve any problems, but it hurts the harmony between the two sides. In addition, if there is a real quarrel, neighbors know that there are contradictions at home, and it is not easy to talk about it.

Third, you really can't argue with each other. Because my mother-in-law is a persistent person, if she has anything unhappy or thinks you have done something, she will never stop nagging. Sometimes you can nag for a long time. You reason with him, but he doesn't listen at all, so he believes in his own reason. Unreasonable, she will also importune. Being suspicious all day, always suspecting this and that, makes you feel at a loss. At this time, the best way is to ignore him. She can nag whenever she likes. When she had enough nagging and scolding, she stopped.

This is how my mother-in-law really felt when she was together all these years. Never get angry with each other, never quarrel with each other, because this will not help solve the contradiction and will only make you angrier. So the best way is to stay away from them and don't quarrel with them.