There are three things to advise you not to do, which will only make you bored.

A person's fate has its ups and downs, and it can't always be smooth sailing, nor can it always be low. Everyone has a chance to reshuffle, and the key is how we look at the trough of life. If you come out, you will have new hope. If you can't get out, you can only be tortured.

When people are unlucky, it is easy to lose their minds and take detours. Therefore, the old man often says: if people are poor, they will enter the public, and if they speak lightly, they will persuade others. If we are at a low ebb, we should keep a low profile and not be too ostentatious and conspicuous. Besides, there are three things to advise you not to do, otherwise it will only be boring.

As the saying goes, "the poorer, the worse", which means that when you are unlucky, everything will go wrong. In fact, this is not a trick of fate, but a result of one's own making.

At low tide, I feel that drinking water is easy to choke, I will fall when I walk, and I will bite my tongue when I eat. In a word, all the unpleasant things followed, and I seemed to be the most unlucky one.

However, everything happens for a reason. If we calm down and think about it, we can find a solution.

Imagine that when we are in the trough, it is easy to have a misunderstanding, that is, to find someone worse than us to compare, so as to comfort ourselves.

For example, in school, when we failed in the exam, we didn't reflect on why we didn't do well in the exam, but compared with the students who did worse in the exam, we were glad that we were not the last one.

At work, the performance of the month was not enough. It's not the first time to improve my ability, but to comfort myself: it's not the first time to get only the basic salary 1800. If you can't do it this month, you will rush the performance next month.

In other words, when we are poor, most people will compare with people who are worse than themselves, so as to comfort themselves and gain a sense of superiority. However, how can this promote our progress?

As the saying goes, people who are close to Zhu Zhechi are close to Mexico. If you associate with people who are worse than you, they will complain, complain and comfort themselves when they are together. Two people with too small structure and too narrow vision will reduce each other's motivation to move forward, and in the end they will only muddle along and live a very decadent life.

If you are at a low point, I suggest that you don't associate with people who are worse than you and absorb negative energy from each other, which is not good for you at all.

When we are down and out, try not to squeeze into the circle of rich people and not to express our views easily, which is easy to be laughed at. Some people are keen to get close to the rich. Although it is different from the level and circle of the rich, they will try their best to brush their sense of existence.

I remember a relative who worked as a cleaning aunt in an institution at the age of 35. Eight years later, she still works in this institution. Relatives are smooth, talkative and flexible. Every time an important official comes to a meeting, she will always seize the opportunity to brush her sense of existence.

For example, when she sees dust on an official's shoes, she will immediately hand him a paper towel to wipe it. Important guests didn't bring an umbrella, and she always warmly held an umbrella to pick them up and so on. These behaviors are beyond the scope of cleaning aunt's work, but she still enjoys it.

In the circle of friends of relatives, everything is related to leaders and units, which makes people feel that relatives and officials are very familiar and have rich network resources. Later, when my daughter was about to graduate, she begged the leader to give her a chance to enter the company, but it was not easy to enter the government, and all her relatives and daughters were brushed off in the exam.

In fact, people of different levels can't sing * * *. People from different circles cannot be completely integrated. When your position is inferior to others, no one will even care what you say, so don't lose your personality and compromise because of comparing with others. No matter how good you are, others will not take you seriously.

When you are not that important, others will not look at you twice, nor will they pay attention to your thoughts. Therefore, don't expose your ideals too much at this time, otherwise you won't get the respect of others and you will make others laugh.

When we are at a low point, only by working hard and constantly striving for self-improvement can we save ourselves. However, although we have goals, ideals and determination to change ourselves, we should not be too ostentatious at this time and not reveal our goals to others. People who don't know you will only treat you as a joke and laugh at your daydreams, which will hurt your self-confidence and self-esteem. If you don't have enough concentration, you will be easily defeated and never recover.

Action is the only criterion for testing truth. Do more and talk less. Until you really become another person and stand in front of the public again, others will feel your change and will look at you with new eyes.

Before you change yourself, remember to keep a low profile, be cautious, focus and move towards your goal. At this time, the world will make way for you.

It doesn't matter if people are poor, it's enough not to be poor. As long as you try to change, there will always be a transformation day. "When people are poor, don't speak out of turn and don't persuade others." The above three things advise you not to do, which will only make you bored. Keep moving forward, and the goal will get closer and closer to you.