"Bullying children can't read!" My son brought home a certificate of commendation. After my mother read the words clearly, why didn't she call?

Every child shoulders the expectations of his parents, and parents hope that their children can become talents. The first step for a child to become a talent is reading. It is said that reading is a "stepping stone" and there will be more ways to read a good book in the future. In order to let children read good books, parents also spent a lot of time.

Today's children say that happiness is also happiness, and that bitterness is also bitterness. Happiness is because the living standard has improved now, and parents can satisfy whatever their children want. Suffering is because of reading. Now, children are under great pressure to study. They study at school during the day and do their homework until they come home late at night. Finally, they waited until the weekend, and their parents enrolled them in various cram schools and interest classes. Children have little time for themselves.

Parents will give their children some material encouragement, such as buying toys for their children or taking them to eat delicious food. In school, teachers will issue certificates to children as their studies progress. I believe that many people's homes are full of awards when they were young. This is a way for parents to show off to their relatives and friends! But now the teacher seems to be a little distracted when awarding the certificate, which leads to some jokes and makes parents feel embarrassed.

"Bullying children can't read!" My son brought home a certificate of commendation, and my mother couldn't laugh after reading the words clearly.

Ms. Wu's son is 4 years old and happens to be in kindergarten. Usually, her son is very naughty. Ms. Wu is worried that her son will make trouble at school. However, after her son arrived in kindergarten, Ms. Wu found her worry unnecessary because the teacher said her son was very clever and obedient. After hearing what the teacher said, Ms. Wu was relieved.

Later, my son brought back a certificate of commendation. My son began to say to her: Mom, the teacher praised my good performance and awarded me a "good boy" certificate. When Ms. Wu was so happy, she immediately photographed the certificate and prepared to send it to a circle of friends. But when she carefully read the contents of the certificate, Ms. Wu couldn't laugh and said angrily, "Bullying children can't read!" Because there was a typo on the certificate, the good boy was printed as a "good son", which made Ms. Wu very angry. This is the first certificate in her son's life. I didn't expect the teacher to make such a low-level mistake!

Ms. Wu angrily contacted the kindergarten teacher, who apologized after learning the situation and said that she would give her son another certificate. I have to say that this mistake really shouldn't be made. Fortunately, Ms. Wu found it in time, otherwise it would be a joke to send it to a circle of friends.

In fact, it is not unreasonable for Ms. Wu to value the certificate so much. The certificate seems to be just a piece of paper, but it is the result of children's efforts and the driving force for children's progress. So, as parents, how should we treat the matter of children winning prizes?

First of all, be sure that children

Some parents watch their children go home with awards for fear that they will be too proud to praise and affirm them. In fact, children are rewarded not only to make themselves happy, but to make their parents proud of them. If parents are not sure about their children at this time, it is equivalent to pouring cold water on their children, and their hearts will inevitably be lost. In the long run, children will lose the motivation to struggle.

Second, don't show off the awards.

Parents are very happy when their children come home with prizes. In order to let others know how excellent their children are, some parents will show off their awards everywhere, such as making friends or posting them on the wall. There seems to be nothing wrong with this way of showing off, but parents should ask their children's opinions before doing so, because not all children like their parents to show off themselves like this.

Third, love it.

Every award is the result of children's efforts and is of great significance to them. If parents realize this, they should know how to keep the reward for their children. They can put them in the box. When children grow up, this is not only their memories, but also the process of their efforts.

I don't know what parents think of the matter that children go home with prizes. Might as well share it.