Some people say that my speech is too straightforward and makes people unhappy. I want to change, but what should I do?

If someone gives feedback on the way you speak and makes them feel uncomfortable or unhappy, then you may need to consider some ways to change it. Here are some suggestions that may be useful:

Listen to each other's thoughts and feelings: When you communicate with others, try to listen to their thoughts and feelings first and understand their positions and opinions. This will help you better understand their positions and feelings and provide you with a better way to respond.

Use more polite and friendly words: Try to use polite and friendly words to reduce the pressure and discomfort your language brings to others. For example, you can use "I think" instead of "you are wrong" to express your opinion, which can reduce language conflicts and contradictions.

Control your emotions: When communicating with others, try to control your emotions and avoid being overly excited or emotional. This helps to stay calm and rational and avoid verbal attacks or injuries to others.

Practice empathy: When you communicate with others, try to imagine your feelings and thoughts from their perspective. This will help you better understand their views and emotions and provide you with a better way to respond.

Seek feedback: Try to seek feedback from friends or colleagues to find out their opinions and suggestions on your way of speaking. This will help you understand other people's views and reactions to your words and deeds, and provide you with a better direction for improvement.

The above suggestions may help you change your way of speaking and make it more friendly and effective. However, it should be noted that change takes time and effort. Don't expect it to happen overnight. Keep trying and practicing.