I like the girl sitting in front of me in class, but I think she is sometimes warm to me, sometimes cold to me, or sometimes when I ask her something. ...

One: Most girls like excellent and capable boys, and learning from excellent boys is very attractive to girls. Girls like to be protected, so you should study hard, let her see your ambition, let her know that you have lofty ideals and you work hard for your dreams. This is why men with rich experience and successful careers are particularly attractive.

Number two: You'll never guess what a girl thinks. If she has feelings for you, it can be reflected in her eyes, which will be related to your study and care about everything about you. For example, she will always play and chat with a boy. I am both happy and unhappy to tell you about her. Maybe she wrote the person she likes in her diary and didn't know anything. It's not surprising.

Three: Girl pride: She is with you, and the pressure is much greater than yours. It may affect learning, it may be that teachers are afraid of their parents, and it may be that they are afraid of classmates' words.

Suggestion:

One: Speak out when you love someone, let her know that someone likes her and is willing to make efforts to change for her, but the timing of confession should be grasped according to the situation, and don't regret it in the future. The most important thing is to think of her and remember not to affect her study. The college entrance examination is the most important.

Second: Maybe you can say it as a joke. If she doesn't want you to tell it as a joke,

Three: discuss learning problems with her. This can enhance feelings and is conducive to learning. You can also show some of your analytical and logical abilities.

Four: Remember not to do what she doesn't like and say what she doesn't like. Tell her jokes. Humor is very attractive to girls, and she can relax her study.

Let me share my story with you, hoping to share it with you, so as to encourage students with similar problems.

I fell in love with her at first sight when I was a freshman. At that time, I didn't know that she was a sophomore and had the same surname as her. She is one year older than me. At that time, I always slept in class and my academic performance was very poor. I started the new semester in my second year of high school. When she was in her third year of high school, I saw her name on the dragon and tiger list in my third year of high school. I was very excited. At the same time, I feel that I am not worthy of her, because she is not as good as herself. I've been thinking all night. Where did I start studying? I secretly said to myself, "I want to be the first in my grade." My name will appear on the dragon and tiger list. Then I'll tell her that I like her. "

I often go for a walk on the basketball court because I know she likes watching basketball games and playing table tennis. Every time I see her, even the back. I am very happy, too. Whenever I want to give up studying, I will think of her. I am motivated to study when I think of her. Next semester, she is a senior. I know that she studies well and is a girl with ideals. At that time, I liked her faint smile, light yellow hair and careless personality. I wrote her a letter saying that I would study hard and I like you, but I won't hinder your college entrance examination. I just want you to give me a picture of you. Haha, this is my first love letter. Of course, my classmate's phone number was left on it.

Girls will be happy to be appreciated by boys, and she is no exception. I thought she wouldn't contact me, but by a miracle, she sent me a text message. I felt that I was the happiest person in the world that day, and that feeling was the feeling of love. That's how I got her phone number. I send her short messages every Sunday, which is very inspiring for the college entrance examination. At that time, my grades began to rise slowly. But I still dare not talk to her, because I am afraid it will distract her from her study, and I am a very shy boy. She blushes when she talks to girls, so she has never seen me. I just asked her, so I went to her classroom corridor and stole a look at her. Whenever I see her studying hard, I deeply understand that she likes excellent boys. So I have to work hard. I was called the most diligent classmate by my classmates at that time. When I was a freshman in high school, I slept in class, and the teacher didn't want to take care of me. The taste of unrequited love was great. )

Suddenly one day, she sent me a text message saying that you should study hard and don't think about anything else, so I asked her about your ideal university. She sent a text message saying "Come on, Shen Da", so I wrote those words on my desk to motivate myself.

At the beginning of the second semester of Senior Two, I waited for her at the entrance of the dining hall in the afternoon (note: I often pay attention to her, so I know something about her learning and eating regularly), so I struck up a conversation. Haha, my face turned red at first, and she laughed at me. In fact, I don't coax girls, so I just said a lot about what I like about her and asked her how to study to get good grades. I have never said love, but I just like it, because I think love needs responsibility, ability and economic foundation. At that time, I couldn't make money, give her happiness and dare not say love, but I just wanted to let her know that there was someone who liked her and was willing to change for her.

Let her know if you like someone, or you will regret it later. Remember not to hurt her, don't just think about yourself, think more about her.

In this way, I only talked to her face to face several times before the college entrance examination. That year, she took the college entrance examination and I was still a sophomore. The day after the college entrance examination, I called her to ask her out. I said, will you wait for me for a year? She said directly that she didn't wait for me, and she didn't want to do anything without results. In the end, I only left one of her notebooks. That night, I looked at the beautiful handwriting in her notebook. I cried,,,,, that was the first time I cried for a girl.

Because of my efforts, I entered the key class of senior three. At that time, there were 62 students in my class, only 12 boys. I never thought I would be one of them. I still can't forget her. I miss her very much.

Until the end of the second semester of senior three, I looked for the phone in the notebook she gave me. Anyway, I dialed it and it turned out to be her father's. In this way, I contacted her again (persistence is victory, as long as you don't give up, you won't fail), that was when she was a freshman in Guangqing.

I call her every Sunday evening, and the content is that my study has made progress again. I look forward to Sunday every day, and calling her is my happiest thing.

The senior three teacher asked us to write the university we want to take the exam on the wall, so I naturally wrote it, which was deep, big and eye-catching. The teacher also praised me, saying that I am confident and worth learning from my classmates. But who knows, how much I miss her, how much I want to take a look at her, even in the back,,,,

The night before the college entrance examination, I called her and asked her to sing a song for me. Hehe, listen carefully,,,, I said that after I became the boss, I would let you be my secretary. At that time, her major was secretarial, and she smiled faintly on the other end of the phone. Maybe she thought I was joking, but I took it seriously.

I haven't contacted her since the college entrance examination because I know she doesn't like me. She just thinks of me as her brother. She has the same surname as me and is one year older than me. ) She texted me and answered my phone just to inspire me. But I know I have tried to forget, but I can't. I think I will be deeply moved by her in the exam.

I'm sorry that I didn't pass the exam. On the day when the college entrance examination was released, she sent me a text message asking me how I did in the exam. At that time, she texted me for the first and last time. I think she should be disappointed. I didn't keep my promise, and I haven't contacted her since. I put her in my heart, in my heart, not looking for her. I deleted the text messages she sent me before and her phone number. However, whenever I see a couple holding hands in the street, I will still think of her inadvertently, remembering the scene I have fantasized about countless times in my mind: I am holding her hand and walking on the campus of Shenzhen University. I have no taste.

Later, freshman came to Guangzhou. At that time, she was a sophomore. I was a senior in her former high school. I found her QQ and added her. I lied. I pretended to be a net friend and chatted with her. Suddenly one day, she said not to contact me in the future. I know who you are. In this way, she blacked me out, and later I could only learn something about her through her friends.

Our place is mountainous. My alma mater is in Maoming Xinyi No.3 Middle School. I didn't have a mobile phone until the college entrance examination was over. My uncle gave it to me, and then I got QQ. I used to borrow my classmate's mobile phone to send her a message and buy an IC card to make a phone call.

Last year was 10, 20 1 1. In the second month of my new semester (September), I knew she had a boyfriend. ,,,, I forgot about her again.

Now, in the second semester of freshman year, it takes four years to graduate; She is now a sophomore and will graduate in three years.

Every time I see a couple holding hands, I still think of my dream: I hold her hand and walk on the deep road,,,

Many nights, I will think that my shy secret love has turned into a secret love, and finally into memories,,,,

I still remember my promise to her: to be admitted to Shenzhen University; The boss asked her to be my secretary.

Life goes on and dreams are still beautiful. Although you are not with me, I am glad that you have found happiness. Loving you means looking at you and smiling. Loving you means making your life happy, even if I don't give it to you.

After the college entrance examination 100 swearing-in meeting, I sent her a short message:

Choose a distant place because of dreams; Because of persistence, it is hard; Never give up because of a promise; Because of you, you choose Shen Da,,,,,

Come on, college entrance examination students!