After nine years of divorce, I finally succeeded. Should I thank my ex-wife for abandoning me?

After nine years of divorce, I finally succeeded. Thanks to my ex-wife for abandoning me!

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Sometimes, we have to admit the greatness of feelings, whether good or bad. Believe it or not, good feelings will make people happy and satisfied. Although bad feelings will make you sad and disappointed, it is these sad and disappointed that make you a better self later.

A person's growth is a bitter and long process, and how many eyes and disdain will he suffer along the way. However, you should thank them when you succeed.

How much injustice you can endure, how strong you will be in the future!

Behind every successful man, there is a great woman. However, what kind of man a woman marries determines what kind of life she will live for the rest of her life, and what kind of woman a man marries determines what height and level he can reach in this life.

However, the woman behind a successful man is not necessarily a woman who is willing to accompany him through thick and thin, but also a woman who has hurt him mercilessly.

My friend jokingly asked me why many successful men are divorced. If I get divorced, will I succeed?

I rolled my eyes and gave a big disdain. Success in a friend's mouth is nothing more than having money and status, and being envied by others wherever you go. Everyone wants to succeed, but not everyone can stand the loneliness on the road to success.

Sometimes we only see the best side of a person, but we don't see the loneliness and helplessness behind him. Maybe he must have had a hard time!

A happy marriage may become a motivation for men, but an unfortunate marriage will certainly become a stimulus for men. Every man wants to prove himself, not really, but with someone.

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A Shuo brought a new Mercedes, and the whole car landed almost 500 thousand. Before Ashuo picked up the car, a friend who knew the root of the matter advised him not to buy such a good one, so why put so much pressure on himself. After all, you just bought a house. But Ashuo was unmoved and said firmly, "I need it, because I have been waiting for this day for nine years."

How can I put it? Some people think it is unnecessary, others think it is necessary, and everyone's experience is different, so everyone's thoughts on one thing are doomed to be different.

In fact, as we all know, Ashuo just wants to prove it to his ex-wife!

Ashuo divorced for nine years and never remarried. During these nine years, he was only busy with one thing, that is, making money. Fortunately, he succeeded, but in order to succeed, he also paid a lot and sacrificed a lot. It seems that some people only saw his success, but they didn't see his persistence for nine years.

Also, in these nine years, Shuo has never started to fall in love, not at all. Because that's the oath he made when he divorced, when he got rich, and when he remarried!

In the evening, A Shuo invited a guest to dinner. As expected, he was as drunk as mud, but that night he kept repeating a sentence: "After nine years of divorce, I finally succeeded. I really thank her for abandoning me! " Do you understand that feeling? You know, the kind of thing that you dream of and then finally realize.

Of course, if you think that Shuo can only show off and be proud, then you are wrong! On the contrary, he is neither proud nor proud, only lost. When he finally got what he wanted and achieved his goal, the confusion of nine years ago invaded his mind again.

No one knows what he is confused about or what he is suffering from.

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His ex-wife and Ashok filed for divorce. In fact, Ashuo had long anticipated this day, but he still wanted to make a last-ditch effort. So he knelt down to his ex-wife, but unfortunately failed to keep his ex-wife's heart, and not long after the divorce, his ex-wife remarried with a man with a good family.

Before the divorce, Ashuo often quarreled with his ex-wife, just for one word, money.

His ex-wife disliked that Ashuo couldn't give him the life he wanted, and he didn't want to fight together. When Ashuo borrowed money to open a breakfast shop, even though he was so busy, his ex-wife was too lazy to get up early. Later, the conditions were a little better, but his ex-wife was still dissatisfied, saying that Ashuo could not accompany her and take care of her every day.

At the time of divorce, his ex-wife disdainfully told Ashuo: "In your life, the most you can do is earn some hard money by selling physical strength."

A word from his ex-wife deeply stimulated Ashuo, like a needle, reminding him all the time and inspiring him.

Divorce is not an emotional ending that all men are willing to face, but if they can't escape, they can only accept it. In life, women often hear all kinds of complaints, not that their marriage is really unfortunate, but that at the beginning, they placed too many expectations on the word marriage.

Once they find that there is a gap between marriage and their imagination, or that their marriage life has not developed according to their predetermined trajectory, it becomes a complaining gesture.

No one doesn't want to live a perfect life, but even perfection is still the most extravagant pursuit in real life.

We are all eager to get the most sincere feelings, but many times, because of the daily necessities, we suddenly feel that the feelings in marriage are actually not that important. Of course, it doesn't mean that feelings are really unimportant, but in the face of reality, we are all inadvertently covered.

Women long for love, men long for warmth. Especially in his most difficult time, he needs a woman who can help him behind his back, encourage him, comfort him and accompany him through thick and thin.

Success is not a divorced married man, but a woman who didn't insist on accompanying him to the end. In those darkest days, he could only force himself to adapt to loneliness and injustice slowly, because he knew that there was no one behind him to follow and no one to rely on.