Are rules the most indispensable thing now?

We often say that there is no rule without rules. It can be said that the establishment of a company requires rules, the maintenance of a family also requires rules, and a school also needs rules; it is because of these rules that companies and families need to have rules. , schools can maintain well. If there are no rules, then the enterprise will not be like a business, the family will not be like a home, and the school will not be like a school, and it may even be contaminated by social atmosphere! Take the family as an example. If you don’t have rules in the family, then you won’t have any sense of propriety between the elders and the younger generations!

Then what will other people think of you, such as father-in-law, mother-in-law, daughter and son-in-law? If the son-in-law has no rules and calls his father-in-law brothers, wouldn't this make outsiders laugh at you? Even laughed out loud! I remember my friend’s brother-in-law made a joke like this. His father was drinking outside and he happened to meet his brother-in-law. His father said that you should drink some wine and eat some food here, and you can go get busy later! The brother-in-law agreed, but the more he drank, the more he got into trouble. He didn't know what to say anymore, and he actually started calling his father-in-law brothers. The father-in-law was furious!

When I came back, I told my friend that for just two hundred and fifty-one, no matter where I met him in the future, he would not be allowed to have dinner at the same table with me. It was so embarrassing! My friend's sister also thought that if he drank too much, his father-in-law would tell her that you are just a typical person because he is good. Even if others laugh at him, you still think he is good! In fact, this is because there are no rules in my brother-in-law's home, so they still have no rules in their friends' homes!

Actually, my sister is like this too. Her parents have taught her well since she was a child, but she is not as good at learning as her sister. After marrying her brother-in-law, she always behaves like an outsider in our family, whether she is an outsider or not. She started scolding my brother-in-law and her daughter. My father was very anxious when he heard it and said to her, "You have been scolding me and you are still here. You have to go back to your house and scold her!" My sister also said that her father picked her. In fact, it doesn't matter how much you scold your husband or children at home. But outside, scolding people like this does not show how capable you are. It can only make people think that you are a 250-year-old! Therefore, rules must be learned, and they are also the most indispensable thing!