Don't joke.

Five years ago, men and women had a hard time. Men and women carefully arrange the use of every penny. Although life is hard, men and women have a good relationship.

Go to work every day and men and women go out together. If it rains, they will share an umbrella. Women always hold a man's waist tightly in one hand and hold an umbrella in the other. When a man is much taller than a woman, he bends down and the woman holds an umbrella for him.

The man said sadly, "You are very tired with an umbrella. Let me play. " . Rainy days are really bad and make you feel so bad. "

The woman said softly, "I like rainy days and the feeling of walking with you on rainy days." I feel very safe with you by my side. "

The man smiled happily. When passers-by saw it, they all said enviously, "Look at this couple, so affectionate, like young people who just fell in love." In fact, men and women have been married for several years.

At work, the woman put away her umbrella, and the man found that half of the woman's body was wet by the rain and still dripping, while the man's whole body was dry. The man was distressed and said angrily, "Look at how you open an umbrella, you will get sick."

It's sweet that women don't answer.

Seeing that the unit efficiency has not improved, the man quickly resigned and started a business at home. First, I opened a small tobacco hotel. Because of good business, a year later, the tobacco hotel became a small supermarket. Later, the man owned his own company and bought a car. They have the best building in the city center, and men let women stay at home and be full-time wives.

When a man goes out, he stays in the car. Men spend less and less time at home, and then gradually become a few days without coming back. Several times, women want men to have a good rest at home, and men have shirked it on the grounds of being busy.

Finally one day, the man came back. The first sentence of the man said, "Let's get a divorce and I'll give you 200,000 yuan." The woman listened to the man and didn't speak for a long time. In fact, women have long known that there will be today, but they didn't expect it to be so soon. Women are a little sad, but they don't embarrass men. She just said calmly, "All right, I'll go through the formalities with you."

It is raining outside. The woman took out an umbrella from the room and whispered, "I only have one request."

What requirements? Go ahead, I promise you. "

It's close to the Civil Affairs Bureau. I just want you to go through the formalities with my umbrella instead of taking your car. "The woman looked at the man and said.

The man nodded his head.

A woman holds an umbrella for a man. It's raining outside, and the wind blows from time to time, blowing in the man's face. A chill came, and the man shivered and stuffed his clothes in. The woman saw it and moved the umbrella to the man.

Here we are, both of us stop. When the woman put away her umbrella, the man found that half of the woman was wet by the rain and kept dripping, while the man's body was dry and refreshing. The man asked inexplicably, "Why did you do this?"

As before, the woman casually said, "You have stomach trouble, as soon as you catch a cold. I won't be around you in the future, so you should learn to take care of yourself.

The man didn't speak for a long time. He suddenly turned around and hugged the woman: "I'm sorry, I'm really sorry, let's go home ..." The man murmured: "I want you to accompany me through the rain all my life, okay?"

The woman's eyes overflowed with two lines of clear tears.

Recently, a newly married couple in Kuwait got married in a flash and left at the speed of setting the shortest marriage record in history.

This marriage, from the marriage formalities to the dissolution of the engagement, is only 3 minutes.

Here's the thing.

The couple went to the local court to register for marriage, and after all the formalities were completed, they were sweetly ready to leave.

At this time, the bride accidentally fell in front of her husband.

The groom's first reaction was not to help the bride, but to smile and not forget to scold "idiot!" " "

Unexpectedly, this behavior of the groom instantly ignited the bride's anger, so she shouted a sentence that shocked everyone in court: "Divorce! ! "

Before the groom could react, the bride had gone to the judge to dissolve her engagement.

I couldn't help laughing after watching the news.

Among the highly praised comments at the bottom, one said, "Details are better than marriage."

I'm impressed.

In "Naked Marriage", Liu Yiyang said a classic saying, details triumph over love.

As we all know, the same is true in marriage.

Some people may think that familiarity between partners is informal.

The bride fell, and the groom's ridicule was harmless and understandable. There is no need to divorce because of such a trivial matter.

However, in the bride's mind, this man and himself have just received the certificate, and they are people who want to join hands with themselves for life.

When she lost face in wrestling, he not only refused to help, but also laughed mercilessly. This detail shows that he doesn't care about his feelings.

What girl doesn't want to marry a person who knows the cold and the hot?

It's better to get a divorce as soon as possible than to spend a lifetime with someone who doesn't care about himself.

A married woman wanted to help her four-year-old daughter take a bath at night, but her daughter refused.

The family asked why, and the daughter said, "Because my mother's stomach is too scary."

She had a caesarean section, and the wound was not healed when she recovered. The scar is a bit conspicuous.

She doesn't care if the child talks nonsense.

But the husband held the child in his arms and casually said, "Did you hear that? Even my daughter thinks you are ugly. "

She lit a fire and asked, "What do you mean?"

The husband said, "I'm not interested."

Do you think the scar on my stomach is ugly? "

I didn't say it. My daughter said it. I'm just kidding. What's there to be angry about? "

The two men quarreled. The daughter cried in fear and said, "Mom is a crazy bitch", and said that this was what Dad said.

She also cried, so wronged that she even wanted a divorce. She feels that she is working, taking care of her family and devoted to her family. How did she become an "ugly crazy woman"?

My daughter is still young, and I don't understand her efforts. I don't understand, the ugly scar on her stomach is the trace of walking around the gate of hell when giving birth to a child.

As a husband, at this time, if you can explain to your daughter the cause of the scar on her mother and let her learn to love her mother, her wife will be very pleased.

But he sarcastically said that even his daughter thought you were ugly.

Whether it's a joke or not, it's just worse in his wife's heart.

French writer Voltaire once said, "It is not the distant mountains that make people tired, but a grain of sand in their shoes."

On the road of life, it is often not the "mountains" that really crush us, but the tiny "grains of sand" in the shoes.

In marriage, some trivial details are enough to crush a marriage.

I read a story in a short book and I can't forget it for a long time.

When she was 12 years old, mom and dad divorced. Just because my father flicked ash and threw cigarette butts into my mother's blue flowerpot, it was useless to dissuade him many times.

My relatives and friends came to persuade me, and my mother only said, "He is very nice, but he just can't get along."

Even grandma scolded her angrily. In grandma's eyes, the son-in-law is tall and handsome, making money and filial to his family. His daughter is willful and selfish, regardless of the feelings of children and parents.

It is also difficult for her to understand her daughter's painful complaints about her husband, such as not taking a shower, throwing clothes and socks around, wolfing down meals, having no time to accompany her, and not remembering her birthday and anniversary. ...

I hope you can understand mom, life is too long. "

When she was 0/6 years old, her mother married another man.

Stepfather is not tall and plain, but clean and fresh, with a gentle smile.

He will change his mother's flowers and plants into beautiful flowerpots;

Give mom a new light green plaid tablecloth with new plates and chopsticks on it;

He will hold her hand and go for a walk by the river to watch the sunset and sunrise;

Mother loves to study recipes, and her stepfather is her most loyal gourmet, who is full of praise for her cooking.

Her father is not wrong. He is a good husband in the eyes of outsiders. But my mother still resolutely divorced him.

Their marriage was defeated by details.

Pope John gotman said that the key to the success of a relationship lies not in candlelight dinners or romantic beaches, but in caring for your partner and the little moments in life.

That's what stepfathers do.

Every detail of his gestures shows his consideration and respect for his wife and his full love.

Life is too long. It is not difficult to live with people who love you.

Zhang Xiaoxian once said: What a man hurts a woman is not necessarily that he falls in love with someone else, but that he lets her down when she has expectations, fails to support her when she is weak, and even envies her when she is successful.

Women are naturally more delicate and sensitive than men. They can feel "not concerned" from the tiny details, and of course they can also capture love from them.

In the collection of a topic, a girl told the other half what she was moved by.

He always holds my hand tightly when crossing the road, and he will always walk on the outside of the road. "

I wonder why it's so quiet when I talk to him on the phone at night. Later, I learned that he always put his hand over the microphone for fear that I would wake up when I was sleeping. "

I remember that when it was very cold in winter, I put the quilt back after going to the toilet. He pulled me into his arms and hugged me tightly in his sleep. "

After that, he will gently kiss my forehead and say "good night, baby". It hasn't changed for so many years. "

It is not difficult to find that only the details impress women.

Marriage is complicated. One word and one action can tear it apart.

But marriage is also very simple. A little care and warmth you give can make the other half feel sweet and happy.

It takes a hundred years to help each other in the same boat, and a thousand years to share a bed. It is not easy to fall in love and get married.

If we really love each other, please be a caring person in life and let every detail we get along with add points to our marriage.

I watched a video yesterday, just a few tens of seconds, but it was very unpleasant.

The girl chased the car to keep the man who was leaving. She patted the window and shouted:

"I beg you, I'm serious, I will do anything for you. I can wash your clothes, I can cook for you, I can do anything for you, I can do anything for you! "

"I beg you, won't you go?"

But such humble begging didn't work, and the car didn't mean to stop at all. The girl shouted at the top of her voice, "I beg you, don't go!" " What should I do after you leave? "

The people in the car didn't seem to hear it. The car drove faster and faster, leaving the crying girl and galloping away.

I love this girl very much. I love a person very much, very humble, but I am still ignored and hurt.

Try your best to love him, and you will only break your heart in the end. People who don't love you don't feel bad at all.

Not all efforts can bring good results, and your treasure cannot be given to the wrong person.

People who really care about you can't bear to make you humble; Those who need you to keep them had better let them go.

The girl had a fever, went to buy medicine and milk tea for her boyfriend, and trotted downstairs to his house.

In the cold wind, she waited for half an hour and didn't see her boyfriend. She didn't know he was playing games until she asked his roommate.

He never went downstairs. Wechat told the girl, "I didn't let you buy it." Let the girl throw away the milk tea, and don't let him lose his temper.

The authorities are confused, and the bystanders are clear. At the bottom of the story, most of them are the comments of distressed girls.

Two people together should be equal and respect each other. If they love you very little, they will only cherish you harder.

You can care about your health with the energy of sending milk tea to your boyfriend.

You must love yourself so that someone will love you.

What is needed in love is proper tolerance, not infinite tolerance.

The meaning of two people together is to make themselves happier, not to lose themselves.

Good love is mutual, cherish and respect each other.

Take care of each other in daily life and face problems together, rather than one person paying unilaterally.

Jordan chan will inform Cherrie Ying of all her work arrangements in advance, so as not to let her worry and worry, and will come back to take care of her and her children as soon as she has time.

He didn't understand romance at first, but also learned to prepare surprises for his wife on birthdays and anniversaries.

I also wrote a love letter to her: "Dear wife, I am very happy today, because I can share my bit by bit with you. The so-called bit by bit is ... I love you, just as the sky cannot be separated from the stars, the sun and the moon. "

Cherrie Ying publicly wrote five words in Weibo's introduction: Jordan chan's wife.

At the concert in Jordan chan, she cheered for her husband like a crazy girl.

No one wronged themselves and catered to each other. They love each other and regard each other as the only one.

No one looks up to anyone, and no one needs to bend over. Two people give, cherish and take care of each other. This is beautiful love.

The other party said, "I don't love you anymore."

You are in a hurry, blurt out, "It doesn't matter! We can still be together! "

Then you suddenly cried, not because you were sad that the other person didn't love you.

But because of this moment, you suddenly realize that you have become a beggar of love.

I think that if I am good enough to a person, I can win his love. Finally, I found that I had lost myself and I didn't know it.

If he always lets you wronged yourself, so be it. No one in this world can live without anyone.

You should take good care of it, just like the father's expectation in "The Leftover is King". "If she wants to grow old with the person she likes, get married, hold her head high, be particularly hard-hearted, and look forward to it, as if she won."

Girl, you are the most beautiful with confidence and self-love.

Don't bend over for love, the crown will fall, just bravely let the heroes of the world take care of you.

/kloc-On the night of August, a beautiful 22-year-old girl was cut to death in a shopping mall in Cixi, Ningbo, Zhejiang.

The girl surnamed Chen is a dance teacher and a member of Cixi Dancers Association. Because of her sweet appearance and exquisite dance, she has 395,000 fans in Tik Tok.

The killer of the girl is a white and handsome man named Wu.

According to news reports, before the incident, Miss Chen and Miss Chen had been in love.

Miss Chen's family conditions are good, and she has won the favor of her parents since she was a child. Wujiali is relatively poor.

Miss Chen's parents, considering family, personality, personality and many other factors, explicitly oppose her daughter's association with Wumen.

After falling in love with Wu Man, Miss Chen found that her boyfriend, who looked like her, was paranoid, petty and gloomy, and they often quarreled over trifles.

On the day of the incident, Wu Nan, wearing a mask, came to the shopping mall with a murder weapon and found Miss Chen, who was happily grabbing the doll in front of the doll machine, and stabbed her into her throat.

Like dancing, One Piece, Miss Chen who beat the glory of the king fell in a pool of blood and never woke up.

Besides, my parents are crying.

It turns out that if you can't have a good relationship, it will really kill you.

It seems that people who are opposed by their parents should really be careful.

Miss Chen's unfortunate experience reminds me of the "beautiful graduate student was forced to commit suicide" incident that spread all over the Internet these two days-

Miss Pan in the incident is a graduate student studying medicine in Jiaxing, Zhejiang.

Her ex-husband Bo is her college classmate. Like Wu, Bo Xilai was born in a poor family, thin and beautiful, and very romantic.

When chasing Miss Pan, he put a big heart-shaped candle on the playground to propose marriage. She was moved by Miss Pan, a person with good face value, good family and good study, and willingly married him, a poor boy with no car, no house and no money.

Ever since Miss Pan took Bo home for the first time, Pan's parents have opposed their relationship, and Pan's father even threatened to break up with his daughter.

But Miss Pan would rather endure the scolding of her parents than take a bride price and marry her classmate Bo.

Shortly after the marriage, Bo encouraged Miss Pan: We want to buy a house. Go home and ask your parents for money.

Miss Pan had the cheek to go home and was scolded by her father. She took out a loan of 654.38 million yuan and bought a suite with a down payment.

Soon, Miss Pan got pregnant and gave birth to a daughter. Miss Bo said, we have to buy a car. Go home and ask your parents for money.

Miss Pan went home again to ask for money, and her father gave another 80,000 yuan for her granddaughter's sake.

Bo said disdainfully, "It's only 80 thousand yuan, and hundreds of thousands of cars can't move." People drive 300,000 cars. " .

Miss Pan borrowed another 40,000 cars from relatives.

After buying a car, Bo said, "Who still goes to work these days? They all start their own businesses. After selling our house, I want to start a business. " .

After careful consideration, Miss Pan decided to support a man's ambition and sell the house.

Two months after starting a business, Mr. Bo met a girl born in 1995 on a business trip. Like chasing Miss Pan, she launched a passionate and crazy love offensive and visited the girl's parents as a future son-in-law.

Miss Pan found out that her husband was cheating and wanted a divorce.

Bo promised to go back to her mother's house and let Ms. Pan borrow 6,543,800 yuan on the grounds that the capital turnover could not be opened.

A month later, Bo, who still lost contact with her sister, filed for divorce with Miss Pan on the grounds that spending money to find it would make her grow old after giving birth.

Only then did Miss Pan know that when she was cooking with her baby at home and saving money, her husband and sister often went to five-star hotels and spent thousands of dollars at every turn.

Despite her parents' opposition to marriage, Miss Pan, who sold a house and raised her husband after marriage, couldn't stand such insults and blows, suffered from depression and committed suicide by burning charcoal.

In the suicide incident, Miss Pan fell into the fire, 80% of her body was burned and she lost an ear.

Thin students who took wedding photos with their sister after 1995 and didn't divorce, when they heard about this, the first sentence turned out to be "dead".

It turns out that the persistence of infatuated people is in exchange for the disappointment of thin lovers again and again.

It seems that parents are not too poor to love rich people, but have long seen through love rat's true colors.

Yang li Ping, a beautiful female teacher, insisted on marrying Wu Xiaodong despite her parents' opposition.

As a result, after many quarrels, Wu Xiaodong strangled Yang li Ping, put him in his refrigerator, overdrawn his dead wife's credit card by 654.38 million yuan, made a trip, and got a room for sex.

It was not until more than three months later that Yang li Ping's parents wanted to see their daughter that they received the bad news that her daughter had passed away.

Around us, such examples are not uncommon.

I have a relative who grew up in a good family. He's handsome, too. He looks good. At the age of 24, he fell in love with a man who ran a barber shop like Nicholas Tse.

Parents disagree for three reasons.

First of all, no matter how hard the boy studies, he is not at ease when he has been away from home for more than ten years.

Secondly, whether the boy has money or not, he says that the people he contacts every day are different from my family.

Finally, a boy with a sweet mouth will attract you and others, fearing that you will suffer by marrying him.

But the girl disagreed, broke up with her parents with noise, threatened to commit suicide many times, and even stayed in her boyfriend's shop.

After pregnancy, parents had no choice but to spend money to arrange a wedding for the two. No one came to the man's house at the wedding.

After marriage, men have been dragging their feet without getting a marriage certificate, and they are often ambiguous with the girl who has a haircut in the shop. When something happened, they started hitting girls.

People who had to marry themselves at the beginning will live no matter how hard they are now.

With such a mentality, the girl was greatly wronged and did not tell her family. It was not until the fourth month of pregnancy that the parents knew the truth and decisively reported the police.

This alarm revealed that love rat, who was cheating and had a domestic violence, was a thief who pursued the murder on the Internet, and even his identity card was fake.

It turns out that after breaking up with my family, I still have to love the only thrill, and I may even be a criminal.

It seems that what parents object to is not who you married, but that you accidentally married a thief.

Why are many marriage tragedies opposed by parents from the beginning?

The problem of children's marriage and love is essentially a problem of parents' tutoring.

"This person can't!"

"I must marry him!"

This dialogue has been played on all children who want to break up with their parents and marry someone.

This just exposes a family's long-term latent and incurable parent-child problem:

Either, parents are used to control and children resist; Either parents do everything, and children are stupid and blind; Either, parents don't compromise and children are desperate; Either parents hate each other and kill each other, and their children get married hastily. ...

How many parents, after their children were killed by love, suddenly realized:

Children who are desperate to love are just looking forward to building a new family to heal the wounds of years of stagnation.

Unfortunately, after meeting the scum, the old wounds have not healed and new ones have been added. Until the end, self-harm or injury.

How many people are unhappy is giving up on themselves.

"If you marry this man, don't come back to recognize me!"

"Don't come back if you don't!"

This conversation is the last advice that many parents can't stop their children from jumping into the fire pit when they decide to fulfill it.

Children who break up with their families are rarely willing to tell their families about their misfortunes after they are married (or married). If they are unhappy, betrayed or beaten, they are rarely willing to ask their families for help.

The spouse who did the harm saw this clearly and continued to hurt until the tragedy happened and it was irreparable.

How can a murdered child forget:

There are indeed vicious parents in this world, but more parents care about their children even if they say more angry words.

Therefore, whenever and wherever you are hurt and wronged, you should first ask your parents for help.

The so-called door is right, that is, the three views are consistent.

"He is not right with our family!"

"You are feudal!"

This conversation represents the position of many parents who have differences with their children because of marriage and love.

People with different backgrounds have different experiences, different personalities, different understandings, different cognitions, different cores and different souls.

Not afraid of being born in poverty, not afraid of ups and downs, afraid of not knowing how to grow up, afraid of being sinister. I'm not afraid of being spoiled since I was a child. I'm afraid I don't know the stop loss and I'm stubborn.

Tragedy after tragedy proves:

It was not the parents' opposition that caused the bloody case and the murder case, but two people with different views. After living together in real life, there are many contradictions because of the collision of views.

So, young man, what is more deadly than going to bed without knowing is that you don't know whether the person you want to love after breaking up with your parents is good-looking or a murderer.

Faster than meeting a jackal is staying away from scum.

"Who but you will marry a scum like him?"

"Maybe if he gets married, he will get better."

This conversation is the biggest joke I have ever heard.

Scum is not difficult to distinguish:

Gambling, drug abuse, domestic violence, meet any one of the same people, no matter how high the face value, no matter how good the family is, no matter how romantic words are, we must break up, give up and leave.

Never take risks.

There are indeed prodigals in this world who never change money, but what confidence do you have to bet your only life and the happiness of your life on one in ten thousand possibilities?

Haggle over every ounce, narrow-minded, vengeful, addicted to the old, used to eating soft rice ... such people, no matter how harmless they seem, can never love deeply.

It was this man who put arsenic in his wife's milk and tetramine in her husband's food.

One of the reasons why there are so many tragedies in this world is that good people always want to influence bad people, but bad people don't get better, but good people lose their lives.