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Tell me about your own healing skills via WeChat, which instantly wakes people up (52 items)

1. Go to work and never be late every day. The boss said early, early, why did you come so early? It's better to go out early so you don't have to squeeze into the bus. Come early, work early, and your salary will be in your hands soon.

2. You have to force yourself to be excellent, and then live a proud life. The rest of your life will be long. Why panic? In the future, you will feel happy for your efforts. Don’t choose at your best age. At ease.

3. Don’t care too much about other people’s feelings. Don’t get nervous when others feel disappointed. Don’t feel soft-hearted when others apologize. Don’t always make others happy and feel aggrieved. Think about it for yourself. Why bother? Let yourself be exhausted and out of breath. You are too sensitive and too kind, and people who are too kind will suffer in the end.

4. Don't blame me for being too cold-blooded. The truth is so cruel - when two people are in love, you are happy to give and he is happy to receive everything. You don't feel it is a sacrifice, and he doesn't feel how painful you are. If love is truly a balance, sincerity and response will naturally be equal when you love each other. When you don't love, no matter how much you give or how painful the sacrifice is, it will just make the lighter ones heavier and the heavier ones heavier. This is true in love, and so should be the case in career and life. No matter whether it is Qiong Yao or papaya, remember: be willing to do it and enjoy it, and don’t use sacrifice as a slogan.

5. Being with you for the rest of my life is called the future; if it were someone else, it is called making do.

6. When someone suddenly disappears from your life, there is no need to ask why. It is just that it is time for him or her to go. You just need to accept it, whether it is a friend or a lover. The so-called maturity is to know that some things are ultimately powerless.

7. Don’t dwell on an awkward thing for too long. If you struggle for a long time, you will be annoyed, in pain, epiglottis, tired, sad, and heartbroken. In fact, in the end, you are not struggling with things, but with yourself. No matter how awkward it is, you have to learn to withdraw.

8. Sometimes you don’t know how much you like a city or a person until you leave and in your memories.

9. There are no friends after love, unless it’s just for fun, or because you don’t love enough. You can go from the role of lover to friend in one step, but that only means that it is not a true relationship. The so-called friendliness is just mercy.

10. Except for yourself, no one will understand how much happiness or sadness there is in your story, because after all, it is only your feeling.

11. Life will get better when it is bad to a certain extent, because it cannot get worse. After working hard, I learned many things. If I persisted, I got through.

12. Either be comfortable or suffer. I'm sorry, I really can't let myself be content with the status quo and stagnate, because I am still the persistent Miss Pumpkin.

13. Over-consideration of other people’s feelings is a kind of disapproval of yourself. When you consider “what others think” in everything you do, you are actually giving up on yourself. People who always live in the eyes of others mean that they have never existed.

14. When we are young, it is easy for us to regard being touched as love, and it is easy for us to regard passers-by as true love.

15. Time can only change things that are not strong enough in the first place. The only thing that can last forever in this world is not time, not love; not life, not hate; not wounds, not pain; not memories, not tears. The only thing that can last forever is the past. Because it happened, it won't change again. When life becomes calmer day by day because of this truth, I finally know that I can no longer pay my deep respect to every distant place I desire.

16. When everyone becomes truly strong, they have to go through a period of time when no one helps or supports them. I do everything by myself, and only I know all my emotions. But as long as you grit your teeth and push through, everything will be different. ——Girl, hold on!

17. Many people have told me to take care of myself, but no one has ever said that I will take care of you in the future.

18. I don’t know what I am obsessed with, but I know that I have been making things difficult for myself.

19. Pour out the garbage in your heart regularly, delete unpleasant people and things from your memory, and format yourself so that you can have space to store happiness. There are no things that cannot be overcome, only feelings that cannot be overcome; if the heart is clear, there will be no rainy days in life. You are the author of your life, why should you make the script miserable?

20. Give yourself some time and forgive yourself for doing many stupid things. Accept yourself and love yourself; everything in the past will pass, and everything that should come is on its way.

21. I can’t stand being perfunctory, but you’ve been perfunctory again and again. I hate waiting, but I’ve been waiting for you for so long. All my pride has been easily crushed by you. broken.

22. If you like someone who doesn't like you, maybe even if you show him your heart, he won't be moved at all.

23. Friends rarely talk about the future, but they are often still together in the future; lovers always talk about the future, but there is often no future.

24. The people who know you best are not your friends, but your enemies. ---"Evil in the East and Poison in the West"

25. Be a person with a sunny heart. Not sad, not impatient. Be strong, upward, close to the sunshine, and become a better version of yourself. You don’t need too much praise from others, because you know how good you are. Inner strength is always better than outer glitz.

26. The harder you try to hold on to some things, the more harm you will suffer. It is better to let go of your hands in time and let it go.

27. Always live for yourself, and have a bright smile. Don’t care about other people’s opinions. Be yourself, let those who look down on you be unable to reach you, and let people who look down on you be able to look up to you. people like you more.

28. Sometimes I feel like a lunatic, bothering myself and disturbing others. Sometimes I accidentally know something, only to realize that the things I care about are so ridiculous, and people are It is said that you only know how to cherish after losing. In fact, the loss after cherishing is more painful than anything else.

29. Come to the place where you live and look for the footprints of your life. It turns out that I don’t know since when, you have gradually become my belief, accompanying and supporting me until now.

Thirty. If you can endure it, you will be outstanding. If you cannot endure it, you will be eliminated. I believe that after the bad days are over, what is left is good luck.

31. Don’t talk nonsense when you don’t understand. When you understand, don’t talk too much. When you are upset, speak slowly. If you have nothing to say, don't say it.

32. Companion does not have to go to the end. The laughter that the other party brings to you on a certain section of the road is enough. ---"Hello, Old Time"

Thirty-three, maybe, you will not understand until a long time later, how much courage does a stubborn person like me have to muster to ask you to leave? Leave me behind, and how much energy must I hold in to drive you out of my life completely?

Thirty-four. In the end, I was too hot-tempered, so I got you to be unscrupulous.

35. Life is your own, don’t live in other people’s eyes and saliva. Not all comments need to be understood by others, and not all choices need to be supported by others.

Thirty-six. There is always one person whose departure makes you feel like you have nothing in an instant.

37. I only love people who love me, because I don’t know how to love someone who doesn’t love me, and I don’t know where to start. It's easy for him to love you. He will touch you. If he doesn't love you, how much do you do? Trying to move him is in vain. I can't afford to love someone who doesn't love me, and neither can I in my youth. My smile, my tears, my affection, my young days were spent only for the person I loved and loved me.

38. No matter what kind of tears I experienced last night, when I woke up in the morning, the city was still busy with traffic.

Happy or unhappy, the city has no time to wait. You can only remember or forget that stop of the journey that you loved or hated, and that period of time when you worked hard but could not feel hope. It will all pass.

Thirty-nine. Don’t let other people’s words, expressions, or actions affect your mood. I hope that every day you wake up, your mood will be full of sunshine and live a good life. Only when you work hard can you encounter beautiful things.

Forty. May the years be kind to you. I once passed you with my heart.

41. All life that seems effortless actually requires a lot of effort behind the scenes.

42. What should come will naturally come, and what will go cannot be retained. Don't go against your will, don't be deliberate, don't care too much, let go of your obsessions and just let things happen is the best life.

43. I feel that no matter what a person does, if he lacks that infatuation and love, it will be difficult to achieve. And this "obsession", if you don't stick to it from the beginning, will fade over time. Only in the constant pursuit - the pursuit of "never giving up a step", can people see the possible palace that they can enter after years of hard work. --- Sanmao "You are the dream I am not as good as"

44. Love affairs between men and women are like war. They do not attack or defend, only give in, and naturally everything will be lost. Maybe some women will say, if you lose, just lose. Anyway, you are willing to give him your youth, money, and heart, and take whatever he wants. He thought he was great enough in love, but he didn't know that love is easy to lose when he talks about it. The concessions made him understand everything - he obeyed his words and waved them away, like a cheap umbrella, thrown away when the weather was sunny. Put it aside, use it to cover the sky when it is cloudy, throw it away without feeling the pain, and have it without feeling that it is precious. This kind of woman deserves to be bullied and teased by him.

45. Even if you lie down and let others walk on you, others will still complain that you are not comfortable enough. So instead of trying to make everyone happy, live your life.

46. Throw away things you don’t like, block people you hate, take a nap when you’re unhappy, delete photos you’re tired of looking at, confess your feelings to someone you like when you meet them. , go eat when you are hungry, life is so short that there is no time for you to hesitate.

47. If you go the wrong way, you must remember to look back; if you love the wrong person, you must know how to let go. People's hearts are relative, exchange truth for truth; feelings are mutual, heart-warming. It's just a journey we've taken together, why make the memory last longer than the passing.

48. Commitment is the reassurance that a man gives a woman. After taking Anxin, although the medicinal properties of this reassuring pill need to be verified, women all hope to take it first. ---"I Really Want to Fall in Love"

49. Don't pay too much attention to what people say about you behind your back, because those who are better than you don't bother to mention you at all. Defamation is itself a kind of looking up to others.

50. There are some things that give you a headache if you think about them too much, and feel bad if you think about them. So, sleep when you need to, and play when you need to play. There is no need to regret, if it is good, it is called wonderful, if it is bad, it is called experience. Only by laughing at gains and losses can the sea and sky be brighter, and only by having a transparent heart can spring flowers bloom.

51. When you are sad, there are thousands of words to say, but in the end they all become "It's okay".

52. I believe that life will not treat you badly. The hardships you endure, the fatigue you suffer, the pits you fall into, and the wrong paths you take will all make you unique, mature, strong and grateful. 20 sad and healing WeChat comments

1. I feel very happy when I am with you: even if we don’t speak, looking at each other is a kind of happiness; even if we don’t get together, missing you is a kind of happiness; even if we are at odds, , quarreling is also a kind of happiness; even if you don't understand, giving in is also a kind of happiness. It was you who poured every bit of my happiness into me, allowing me to immerse myself in love and enjoy its splendor. It made me feel that there is someone who will always accompany me in this life. This feeling of happiness is so good.

2. The truth is actually very close to us, but we make ourselves complicated in the process of searching for the truth. Making simple things complicated is useless, but making complicated things simple is our ability! The Tao is Tao, very Tao! Life is about who is closer to reality and who can use the energy of the universe better. Ordinary people pursue happiness, masters pursue happiness. Ordinary people pursue happiness, masters pursue happiness! The biggest mistake women make is to restrict men to death. Finally, he complained that men are worthless!

3. The three killers of time: procrastination, indecision, and unclear goals.

4. Everyone has a day to retire, but not everyone can have the security after retirement. Life does not depend on how long or short you live, but on how early or late you are enlightened. Success or failure in life often depends on a single thought, but most of it is a difference of one thought. Youth is capital, but it is worthless without hard work. The most beautiful things in the sky are the stars, and the most beautiful things in the world are true feelings. Give up to the limit and win the infinite.

5. We are too close to memories and too far from freedom. Sometimes I miss you and just fall in love with the memories. One hesitation, one betrayal, one accident is enough for it to wither. Break away from everything and disappear into thin air. What makes women never forget is feelings, what makes men never forget is feelings. Emotions settle over time, and feelings disappear over time. After all, they are different things, so - who can understand whose deep love, who can understand whose departure.

6. The bed is very comfortable but it is difficult to get up, so put down your phone and go to bed early. There are so many books piled up that I don’t know which one to read, so pick up the most classic one. If you can’t make up your mind about taking a quick trip, then learn to appreciate the beautiful scenery around you first. If you never start, you will never arrive.

7. I hope you can forgive yourself for being anxious about success at the age of twenty. What you want will come to you if you pay for it. It’s just that time will give you a test, and this test is a process of waiting for harvest.

8. Maturity may be that for the first second, you turn your back and want to curse someone, then turn around and immediately smile and look cheerful.

9. The world is fair. If you want the best, it will definitely give you the most pain. If you can make it through, you are the winner. If you can't make it, just retreat and be an ordinary person.

10. If you don’t understand, just say it. If you understand, don’t say it, just smile. When he says, "Let's just chill for a while, okay?" say yes calmly and then hang up. Don't beg, he's not here to ask for your opinion. Life is like a road, you have to go through the most desolate journey to get out of the most prosperous scenery.

11. I am used to waiting, so in the cycle of reincarnation, I cannot resist standing back to the origin of waiting. I don’t know how long I have to wait to see an answer; I don’t know how long I can wait for a result? Missing is very powerless, that's because I can't see the result of missing. Perhaps, longing does not require results, it just proves that someone has existed in my heart. Is it possible to give missing a certificate to prove that it once existed?

12. What do the poor lack: lack of funds on the surface, lack of ambition in essence, lack of ideas in the brain, lack of understanding of opportunities, lack of courage in the bones, lack of action in change, and lack of perseverance in career. The smartest people in the world use other people's experiences of breaking their heads and bleeding as their own experience. The stupidest people in the world have to use their own experiences of breaking their heads and bleeding. Don’t hold on to the past and reject new ideas and challenges.

13. In fact, being alone is quite good. I believe that what is supposed to come will definitely come. Love yourself well before the right one comes. Embrace loneliness, if he is the final outcome, it doesn't matter if it comes later.

14. In fact, people who always laugh really need someone to care for them.

15. I think everyone has his or her existence. You make me believe that everything I encounter does not hinder my progress, but makes me more determined. Thank you for letting me understand that if you can't give up easily on something you like, then you have to work harder to let others see your existence. I have been flying in the direction of others, this time, I want to fly in my direction.

16. Sometimes it’s not that I don’t understand, I just pretend not to understand. If we were to show our childhood again, we would definitely laugh first, then burst into tears, and finally fall asleep with tears in our eyes and a smile. Sometimes I am silent, not because I am unhappy, but because I want to empty my heart.

17. Remember that you are a girl. Hard work is your symbol, self-confidence is your capital, and smile is your symbol. What you have to fight for is not to compromise in front of a man and let him see you. Work hard, but work hard and wait for the man who gets down on one knee and puts a ring on your ring finger in a few years. If you want others to love you, you must first love yourself.

18. When you are lonely late at night, you will feel a touch of warmth when you post a new Weibo post.

19. The biggest killer of mankind is hypocrisy and pretending! The more you pretend, the more you pretend, the more you pretend, the more you end up being a very real fake person; the truth is unrealistic, the reality is unreal, delete all illusions and illusions, enter the root and essence, and be liberated in the moment. Those who are not afraid of death are more real than those who are afraid of death! Being proactive in everything is more real than being passive! The joy is more real than the pain! Those who have experience are more real than those who have no experience! Living in the present is more real than the future and the past! The heart is more real than the brain!

20. Whenever you encounter troubles, you are used to writing on Weibo to vent. To be honest, it can only prove to others how bad your life is. Other people’s comfort and Warning, it will never mend the scars in your heart, but will make those who don't like you laugh at the joke. In the past, my tears had to be wiped by others, but later I stopped crying easily. What I was afraid of before, I was relieved later. The best cure for the illness in my heart is myself. Talk about my confused mood (52 items)

1. I always expect a result. I read a book expecting to become profound, run for two days expecting to lose weight, send text messages expecting to be answered, I treat others well and expect others to treat me the same way. If it comes true, breathe a sigh of relief; if it doesn’t, feel sorry for yourself. But it was the same me when I was a child. I spent an afternoon watching ants move and stones blossom. When I was a child, I didn’t expect the results. When I was a child, I couldn’t help but laugh and cry.

2. More and more people want to flirt with you, but they can never meet someone who is shy and blushing when talking to you

3. There are so many things that you are not good at that in the end I don’t know what I’m good at. The life I want is futile. Things I don’t want come one after another. I’m irritated. I don’t have a sense of humor. I don’t have the patience. I don’t know what I should appreciate. After all, life as it is is rough and sharp

4. After walking all the way, I suddenly looked back and found that the people or things I walked with could not be found. I seemed to have lost them. I tried to look for it, but I really couldn’t find any trace, and I didn’t even know when it disappeared

5. There are fewer and fewer true friends, and more and more false friendships. This is a face-seeking thing. In this era, who cares about how good you are? Only when you lose weight will you look beautiful. A good-looking skin is better than anything else.

6. It is difficult to communicate with others, and it is difficult to make new friends. I keep everything in my heart and do not talk about it, so I rarely have happy times

7. I hate myself now. I know I can’t do it if I don’t work hard, but I don’t want to work hard, so I have to pretend that I am working hard and show myself to others that I will be tired.

8. I don’t have any true friends. I force myself to smile at boring topics every day.

9. I have fewer and fewer real friends. I seem to be able to do anything by myself and eat alone. , one takes the subway alone, sleeps alone, gets off work alone, is in a daze alone, spends everything alone.

10. Because you think more and more, fewer and fewer people care about you, fewer and fewer people can rely on you, and more and more people force you, but you Still a person who easily thinks too much.

11. My friends around me are either going to get married or have kids soon. I’m still single and there may be no one to play with me in the future.

12. Just like that line in the movie That generally means that I thought that growing up would solve all problems, but later I discovered that growing up is the beginning of all problems

13. For me, maybe it’s because I have fewer and fewer friends and more and more regrets. , and finally realized soberly and alone that growing up is really a process of constant separation, and there is nothing I can do about it.

14. There is no way to express my true inner feelings anymore. I am completely different in front of others and behind others.

15. It becomes increasingly unclear what I really like.

16. It seems that no matter what big things happened when I was a child, it was easy to accept it because someone would consider it for you and bear it for you. Now that you have grown up, you have to be on your own. Even adults will feel pain and be at a loss

17. When I was a child, adults always asked: Are you tired from working or studying? I never knew how to answer. Until I met a group of people unloading goods. They wiped their sweat, talked and laughed, and kept moving and organizing. I suddenly understood the answer: Unhappiness is the most tiring thing.

18. There are more and more people you know, but fewer and fewer people can get into your heart.

19. The more desires we have when we grow up, the greater the pressure. We can only hide many things in our hearts, and we have to do many things that we are unwilling to do and even feel very aggrieved

20. When I was a child, I never understood why my parents could get up so early. When I grew up, I realized that it was not the alarm clock that woke them up, but life and responsibilities. As we grow older, we are forced to live a more peaceful life, and we are no longer so pure and happy

21. When I was young, I thought I could be free when I grew up, but now I have discovered what freedom is.

22. Do you think rich people are happy? I tell you that rich people are happier than you can imagine

23. It’s like you like more and more things but don’t really need much

24. Graduation Later, I discovered that the job I was engaged in was too different from what I had imagined. It turns out that there are really many people who would ask you to do all kinds of things that no one is willing to do on the grounds that "Young people have more experience, I am doing it for you."

25. I find that it is getting harder and harder to stick to the things I liked before. After leaving the previous circle of friends, I gradually find that the people around me are really outstanding now. Nothing can compare with their appearance, talent, parents, and the key is I feel miserable because I don't work hard enough. I used to feel like I had a bright future, but now I feel like I'm just the kind of person who just waits to die. I always can't work hard even though I should.

Twenty-six, being urged to marry. Even the people closest to you feel that if you are not married when you are older, the older you are, the more valuable you will be. In the future, you may only find a divorced person. You are too picky and you should not pursue the so-called right person. You should marry the right person. I feel really sad. You can ignore me as an outsider, but you are a close relative

27. My colleagues around me are too hypocritical. After graduation, my good friends also have their own circles. I feel like I haven’t laughed in a long time.

28. Life is either like this or that. In short, it won’t be what you want.

29. It’s nothing, it’s just that the older you get, the more you protect yourself and close yourself down. In my heart, I don’t want people to come in. You like someone but you can't love them, and you press on and defend them step by step. I have become a sunshine to everyone, and only I know what I am like

Thirty. I am too insecure. I always feel that my friends don’t pay attention to me, and they break up as soon as I walk, so I socialize In this regard, I don’t feel like I have a good relationship with everyone like others

31. Because I am too lonely. No one can tell my sorrow, no one can resolve it; no one can share my joy, no one can enjoy it. I'm so lonely.

32. I can neither tolerate the current situation nor have the ability to change it.

Thirty-three. There are too many beautiful girls and too few kind girls

Thirty-four. Because of my personality, I will not take the initiative to contact my friends and speak too directly. I am afraid that if I tell the truth, I will not recruit people. I like it so I just stopped talking

Thirty-five. In fact, I am not aloof and cold. I am very approachable. In your opinion, I never look at you, which shows my cowardice. I will think What if you don’t like me? It’s okay for me to be sentimental. I’m just afraid that my liking will cause trouble to you

Thirty-six. I don’t know what I’m busy with every day. I’m just busy and miserable

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Thirty-seven. One is poverty, and the other is that as I grow older, I find that I am the most common among millions of people. Those unique points that I thought only I had at the beginning, have grown up. Suddenly I found that there are too many people like you

Thirty-eight, it is not easy to get familiar with each other, it is slow to warm up, you must be a very familiar friend to laugh and laugh with them all day long

Three 19. When I was a child, when I heard someone say something bad about me, I would go over to argue with that person and criticize me. When I grow up, when I hear someone say something bad about me, I will just shake my head and say it’s okay

40. Pick something online today My eyes hurt when it came to clothes, and I couldn’t pick out the right ones. It wasn’t because I didn’t have the smallest size.

41. I am so sensitive that I am afraid. I can understand the other person’s attitude or mood with a look in his eyes or a slight pause in his speech. Observing words and emotions may not be a weakness, but I live a very tired life.

42. All the things that I thought would get better when I grow up have not gotten better

43. I have lost my goal and I don’t know when I wake up every day. What are you going to do? Just finish the day and then welcome another day.

44. 90% of the problems in the world can be solved with money, and the remaining 10% is because you are not rich enough

45. No money, but I still want to buy Albums, going to concerts, buying beautiful clothes, buying hats, buying shoes, buying small bags, there are many things I want, but...

46. I don’t know what I will eat in the morning. What to eat for lunch and what to eat for dinner

47. Inferior self-esteem. I feel like everyone is talking about me and laughing at me when I whisper.

48. The biggest misunderstanding of adults when I was a child is that I think adults know what I want

49. When your sincerity is betrayed time and time again, give every effort with trembling fear. Asking myself whether it is worth it at all makes me become more and more unhappy

50. Personally, I feel that the reason for unhappiness is that we are becoming more and more numb to life and get less and less stimulation of happiness. , and the threshold for feeling happiness is getting higher and higher

51. Do you think that as long as you are beautiful, boys will like you? Do you think that as long as you have money, pretty girls will stick to you? Do you think you can find a good job if you are a top student? Let me tell you, these are all true! When you feel that you are ugly, poor, and worthless, don't despair, because at least your judgment is still right.

Fifty-two, poor! It’s no joke. When you grow up, you will realize that because of money, you will make a lot of compromises that you don’t want to make and endure the grievances! You know how to work because of money, and work allows you to get to know many people, things, and friends. Society is a big dyeing vat! Happiness in childhood is simple, and simplicity makes people happy when they grow up. But the world will never be simple when you grow up. A message to myself about the inspirational life healing system.

1. Tears are when you can’t explain your heartbreak with your words, use your eyes. The only way to express your emotions.

2. If you don’t have the ability to take care of other people’s future, don’t disturb other people’s present.

3. Good love is always the effort of two people, rather than the compromise of one person.

4. For a moment, because of one person's words, it was like being splashed with cold water. Suddenly, I was cold from head to toe. Language is the most important thing when expressing love. So weak, yet so sharp when expressing hurt.

5. Please believe that there are really people in this world living the life you want. I hope you and I can both work from nine to five and travel around the world.

6. You must work harder to become excellent, so that when you meet the right person one day, you will not be embarrassed and unprepared.

7. Don’t expect, don’t imagine, don’t force, just let nature take its course. If it is destined, it will definitely happen. Peace of mind is the best state of life.

8. Be confident but not arrogant. If you have your own persistence, you don’t need others to be the same as you. If we work together, we'll move forward together; if we don't work together, we'll wish each other the best and go our separate ways.

9. When you see something that makes sense: if someone listens to your heartfelt words, it means warmth; if someone understands the depressing things, it means happiness.

10. If you want to see the facts clearly, you need some pain. You must understand that you can't keep people who want to leave, you can't wake up people who pretend to be asleep, and you can't move people who don't love you.

11. Sometimes, when you do it right, no one will remember it, and when you do it wrong, even your breathing is wrong.

12. Some things are a great grievance to hide in the heart, but when the words are spoken, they feel insignificant and not worth mentioning.

13. If you need others to enlighten you, stare at, watch, coax, encourage, and advise you not to work even to make money, then you should be poor! This is not chicken soup, this is reality.

14. Don’t live like a victim and rush to tell everyone about your misfortune. One day you will find that you have to taste the ups and downs by yourself, and you have to live the long life by yourself. What you have experienced is just a story in the eyes of others. Don't tell others everything from your heart. Growing up is inherently an isolated process. In the process, you have to work hard to become stronger and then take charge of yourself.