When people say to you, "You are a joke!" What is the next step?

A colleague thinks he is very close. Once I was drunk and I went to help him, but he said this to me in front of others. At that time, I smiled and said that I could make others laugh, which showed that I had made a little contribution to society. After that, I reflected for a long time, and now my personality seems to be much calmer, and I have no interest in people and things. It seems that they haven't seen each other for two years.

If someone calls me "a joke when you were alive", I will laugh for a while, leaving him at a loss, and then say, yes, I want to laugh as soon as I see you, and I love talking to you, because I think we are on the same side, I am a joke, and you are a dirty joke. Isn't it great that we can make others happy every day together?

Life is when you smile at others and are laughed at by others. Caring about other people's comments shows that you are immature.

Don't be angry with yourself because of what others say. We can't control other people's mouths, but we can control our own moods.

If someone says, "It's a joke that you're alive." You just need a calm reply, thank you for your evaluation, and it is estimated that the other party will be angry with you in turn. Because people who usually say this sentence, their purpose is to make you angry, make you lose, and make you angry. She is too complacent. So, you don't care, but thank her. She must be surprised and ashamed. Only if you are not cultivated enough, arrogant people will want to show off by laughing at others.

This type of person is very common in life. In the company, people often talk behind their backs. In the community, there are often gossips about other people's affairs every day. Even between sisters-in-law, there will be snobs who look down on others.

Psychologically speaking, the more people like to ridicule others, the more they feel inferior. They are afraid of being denied, so they choose to deny others first to prove their strength. Only by constantly attacking and belittling others can we highlight our self-confidence.

For such people, you don't have to pay attention at all. Destiny is always in your own hands, and no one can deny your value except your own acceptance and denial.

As long as we live a transparent and wise life, love the people, things and things we love and live a good life, those who are outspoken and don't know how to respect others don't have to pay attention to or care too much about those words that hurt themselves.

In a word, I won't exchange money with you, beg or borrow money from you. I am self-sufficient and can support myself, so I am not kidding. Jokes are not jokes, it's not up to you, you are not qualified to judge people. In short, whoever laughs is not necessarily. Don't jump to conclusions You can either refute it in this way or ignore it. In air pollution control, we should not reason with such unreasonable, arrogant and self-respecting people, so as not to ask for trouble.

Speaking of this question, oh no, it should be a joke. We will respond to each other with a loud smile: "You too, I am in the same boat with you." "The other party must be confused about, what is the reason? You said, "Then you are a tragedy. How can a joke rhyme with a tragedy?"! "Ha ha ha, take your time. For such an arrogant person, your attitude is not tough enough to overwhelm the other person and make others fear you! )