Please help me from Tongliao, Inner Mongolia~~~

Just let go when you talk

Be more generous and be nice to your girlfriend

Just dress cleanly

We are in Tongliao People like that kind of atmosphere

Be sure to smile and chat more

Supplementary: When drinking, I suggest that the poster still drinks a little, because drinking is for the face. If Your face will turn red when you've finished drinking. Even the kind of person who doesn't show off his face will still react. Drinking a little wine can also have a great effect on the atmosphere. Parents won't force you if they see that you're in trouble. You are drinking. If you are really too drunk, then take a good rest at her house. It will definitely increase her goodwill, so you should drink a little. If you don't drink at all, it seems very principled, and people will think that you are a dead person. There is a feeling of distrust, you can do this, if your father-in-law has a good drinking capacity, you should let him drink a little bit of you and a little bit. If your father-in-law's drinking capacity is average, you should also remind him to pay attention to his health from time to time. This is how I understand drinking. It's fine if the two of you agree to bring some gifts, and it doesn't matter if you don't have them, because it's mainly about who you are.

Besides, as a man, geographical location is not a problem. People all over China like to be generous and talk elegantly. However, when meeting parents for the first time, everyone is inevitably nervous, a little shy, and a little unable to let others go. People will understand, and I even think I prefer the kind that are a bit shy. Once you get familiar with it, it will be fine. Other soft words, such as how you will be very good to your wife in the future, etc., should not be said, because you think, adults They are all people who have been here before, and both men and women have more experience than us in this matter.

In short, you must remember that you are already their choice, and now all you have to do is reassure them with actions, not empty words

Additional 2:

That’s what I think about the family situation. Actually, I’m not talking about adults in Tongliao. Adults everywhere still care more about their family situation. This is also an issue that will inevitably be mentioned after meeting, but this is definitely not the case. It will hinder the progress of the two of you, because although everyone wants to find a rich man, not everyone dreams of such a sweet dream all day long. Even if you don't have money, it doesn't mean you will never get married. Regarding this point, if the poster has a relatively stable job and income, then it is definitely not a problem, because adults can see your future in this area. If the poster does not have a stable income now, then say it in front of adults. It would be good if their own plan made them feel that they would not suffer in the days after marriage. It would be better if it was a plan of two people. Well, that's all. The poster will try his best to show off his strengths and talents, and he will definitely succeed immediately.

If you have any other questions, please ask them all at once

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