Etiquette and speech on the wine table?

When it comes to drinking, almost everyone has experienced it personally, and "wine culture" is also an ancient and fresh topic. Modern people find the function of wine more and more in the process of communication. Indeed, wine, as a media, plays a unique role in welcoming guests, meeting friends, communicating and passing on friendship. Therefore, exploring the "mystery" on the wine table will help you seek the success of communication. 1, everyone is happy together, don't whisper. Most banquets have a large number of guests, so try to talk about topics that most people can participate in and get the approval of most people. Because of different personal hobbies and knowledge, the topic should not be too biased as far as possible, so as not to be dominated by one family, far apart, and talk endlessly, leading to digression and ignoring everyone. Tips-Party adventures, especially trying not to whisper to others and giving others a sense of mystery, often lead to jealousy of "just the two of you" and affect the effect of drinking. 2, aim at the guest and the host, grasp the overall situation Most banquets have a theme, which is the purpose of drinking. When you go to eat, you should first look at the expressions around you and prioritize. Don't drink for the sake of drinking, and you lose a good chance to make friends, let alone let some grandstanding drinkers disturb the host's meaning. 3, the language is decent, and humor sprinkled on the dining table can show a person's talent, common sense, cultivation and communication etiquette. Sometimes a humorous language will leave a deep impression on the guests and make people feel good about you invisibly. Therefore, it is very important to know when to say something, to use appropriate language, and to be humorous. 4, moderately persuade wine, do not forcibly persuade the phenomenon on the wine table, some people always like to regard the wine field as a battlefield, trying to persuade others to drink more, thinking that it is unrealistic to drink enough. "Talk about heroes with wine" is ok for people who drink a lot, but it is difficult for people who drink less. Sometimes, excessive persuasion will completely destroy the feelings of the original friends. 5, toasting in an orderly manner, distinguishing between primary and secondary toasting is also a science. Generally speaking, a toast should be made in the order of age, position and the status of the guest and the host. Before toasting, we must fully consider the order of toasting and distinguish between primary and secondary. In order to drink with people you don't know, you should first find out your identity, or pay attention to what others call you, so as not to be embarrassed or hurt your feelings. When toasting, you must grasp the order of toasting. If you want to have a guest at the dinner table, you should be respectful to him, but you should pay attention to the fact that if someone with higher status or older people is present, you should not only be respectful to those who can help you, but also propose a toast to the respected elders first, otherwise everyone will be embarrassed. 6, observe words and observe colors, understand people's hearts If you want to get everyone's appreciation on the wine table, you must learn to observe words and observe colors. Because when dealing with people, we must understand people's hearts, so that we can play a good role on the wine table. 7. The sharpness is gradually revealed. Sit firmly at the Taishan banquet, seize the opportunity, correctly evaluate your own strength, don't be too impulsive, try to keep some alcohol and talk, don't let others underestimate yourself, don't show yourself too much, choose the right time, and gradually radiate your own sharpness. Only in this way can you sit firmly on Taishan, don't give others the idea of "this ability", and let everyone dare not underestimate their own strength. Praise the Lord's name before meals, and praise the Lord for not being picky about food after meals. Fasting guests can be praised for not fasting and eating nearby. People who don't know the etiquette of eating are forbidden to feed dates and other things into their mouths continuously unless their companions eat from the edge of the plate. They can't eat in the middle They can't eat with three fingers. It is better to sit down and drink water than to stand and watch. It will be stressful to be proposed and toasted without preparation. The best solution at this time is to say how you feel. Toast never takes long. If you are asked to make a toast unprepared, you can say something simple to get out of trouble, such as "I say hello to Ken, and God bless you." Or "Say hello to our good friend and boss Greta", but if you want to be more elegant and eloquent, you will want to add some memories, compliments and related stories or jokes. However, a toast should be appropriate to the occasion. A sense of humor rarely seems out of place, but the toast at the wedding should focus on emotion, the toast to retired employees should focus on nostalgia, and so on. At dinner parties, toasting is usually the priority of the host or hostess. If there is no toast, the guest can toast the host. If one of the hosts makes a toast first, the guest can make a toast in the second place. There is usually a hostess when a ceremony is held. If there is no hostess, the chairman of the organizing Committee will make the necessary toast after the meal and before the speech. On less formal occasions, you can propose a toast after wine and champagne are served. The toaster doesn't have to drink the wine in the cup. One sip at a time is enough. You can't touch any alcoholic drinks, including wine, even when toasting. When handing wine, of course you can refuse, and raise the goblet with soda water when toasting. In the past, there was no toast unless it was an alcoholic drink, but today all kinds of drinks can be used to toast. In any case, you should stand up and join this activity, at least you should not sit in your seat with great disrespect.