Shu Qi: What's it to you that I'm single and not married? Why do you discriminate against me!

In the movie Winner is King, the heroine Sheng Ruxi, played by Shu Qi, is an older single woman with a successful career.

Her mother forced her to take off the bill on a blind date, and they quarreled in the car. Finally, she was angered by her mother's sarcastic remarks.

What a heartfelt word!

In fact, being single is not terrible. What is terrible is the incomprehension and discrimination from the crowd.

The statistical bulletin on the development of civil affairs in 20 18 shows that in the whole year of 20 18, there were10/39,000 marriages registered in China according to law.

The marriage rate was 7.3‰, and the marriage rate reached a new low of nearly 10 year. According to the statistics of the Ministry of Civil Affairs, there are more than 77 million adults living alone in the world.

Nowadays, many young people don't want to get married more and more. There are many reasons for not wanting to get married.

Some people will get used to being alone for a long time, like living alone, bear all the ups and downs of life alone, and dispel all emotions alone.

Faye Yu, a 47-year-old actor, was interviewed in the first episode of 20 16 "threesome".

The host Tao asked a very direct question: Why are you always single?

Faye Yu said directly, "I don't think this is a problem. For me, I am in the most comfortable stage, and it is not a difficult choice to get married. "

This is a good point. How to choose between being single and getting married is actually the best as long as you are loyal to your most comfortable state.

Then Wendu Tao and Feng Tang asked similar questions: Do you think it will be a problem or boring to be alone?

This time, Faye Yu's answer is more beautiful: "As long as a person's spirit is rich, there is no need to express and communicate through chat."

Who says a single woman in her forties and fifties will be sad?

I have been to this world, loved, experienced and struggled. What if I don't get married?

My best friend Xiaoya has been married for two years. Her husband is three years older than her and runs a small department store.

Her husband especially likes playing mobile games. After getting married, her husband proposed to put two computers in the shop.

The reason is that there are many advanced games in his computer, and he doesn't want others to touch his computer.

Xiaoya has no choice but to buy another computer. Not bad at first, because Xiaoya can also play some hand games.

The two sometimes play a few rounds and have a good time.

But how can an "amateur" mobile game beat a "professional" mobile game? After a long time, the two "played" less than one piece.

After marriage, Xiaoya is responsible for three meals a day. Because she doesn't often cook before marriage, cooking is naturally not delicious.

After a long time, my husband became disgusted and began to criticize …

As the days passed, Xiaoya's face became more and more haggard.

Later, she accidentally discovered that "her husband cheated on another mobile game master" and she decisively divorced.

I met her by chance when I went to my friend's house some time ago. She has been single for six years now because she has no children.

After the divorce, I lived a chic life, living alone, eating alone and shopping alone.

I travel to two places every year and live a poetic rhythm in the distance. Now the whole person is radiant.

But no one knows that the night she found out that her husband was cheating, it was deep winter, and it was bitterly cold that day. After they quarreled.

She was so angry that she wanted to leave the home where they once lived, and her husband didn't come out to chase her.

She is afraid to go back to her parents' house. The long night, she sat alone in the cold street, crying, figured it out and was chilling. ...

Finally, after a painful experience, I made up my mind to leave this marriage.

Love is like this sometimes. Even if you are considerate and considerate, some people push their luck and don't care about your feelings at all.

Who said that leaving your partner who doesn't love you is not the beginning of loving yourself?

I've been hurt, I've cried, I've been helpless, I've tried, and if I don't love, I'll say goodbye and forgive. Let's be happy!

I saw an interesting video in Tik Tok before.

Dialogue between married a and single b:

Why don't you get married?

Who cooks for you?

I like

Who does housework in your family?

I like

B: So did you get married to find a man to applaud you by your side?

Someone said, "How many women who entered marriage with good expectations found that men only wanted to find a nanny after marriage?

How many men promised to be considerate and diligent, but after marriage, they became giant babies who were not diligent in limbs and did not care about the whole grain. "

Rough as it is, it makes sense.

It is said that marriage is a woman's second life. If you marry the right person, you can be a little girl all your life. If you marry the wrong person, you will be a nanny all your life.

Indeed, the world will treat you as you treat yourself.

Many people talk too much about love, and gradually understand that not everyone is suitable for growing old with you.

You like sweets, he likes spicy food, you like sports, she likes house, you like excitement, and he likes quiet. ...

You can run in if you don't want to.

Sometimes I envy those who are alive and confused, because such people are easy to be happy. On the contrary, sober people are prone to anxiety.

Love is like this. When he loves you, you are the world. When he doesn't love you, you are nothing.

There is a hot topic in Weibo: Why do many people prefer being single to falling in love now?

There are so many highly praised answers.

Netizen Guo said slowly: "I would rather be bored by a person to brush Weibo than wait for a person to reply with a mobile phone."

World-class straight man said: "I only have one life, and I can't give it generously to people I don't love."

Daniel Wu, the butcher, said, "I'm afraid I'm deeply disappointed. I'm afraid I'm sorry for others for a pretence."

"Low-quality love is not as good as high-quality solitude," said the deputy chief physician of urban neurology.

I am not Lulu, I am six walnuts, saying, "Actually, loneliness is better than happiness!" "

Look at these "reasons for being single" summarized in life.

I realized that everyone who would rather be single than fall in love has an unknown story behind it.

There are many reasons for being single. I believe that single people may have had the experience of being forced into marriage by their mothers like Sheng Ruxi.

But she has a father who loves him. What his father said moved me very much: "She shouldn't marry her parents.

She shouldn't listen to gossip outside. She wants to get married if she listens too much.

He should think about marrying the person he likes, and look forward to it as if he has won.

One day, he suddenly appeared in front of me with that man, pointed at him and said to me, Dad, look, I found this man, and I must not marry him!

I think I can imagine that scene. She showed me to her mother with a gesture of victory. What a proud expression!

Then tell her mother that I can find it. You see, I can really think of it, so I have no reason to wait for her to realize it.

I don't know when that day will come, but I will stand with her, because I am her father, and she can only be happy with me, and nothing else! "

However, not everyone has a father who loves him so much.

We don't want to be against our parents, but sometimes I'm single because I really don't want to be single.

But my only life, I can't give generously to people I don't love.

I'm just waiting for the right person ...