After the death of an international student with lung cancer, he is still questioned about pretending to be ill. What is going on?

Under the glamorous appearance of the self-media industry, it is difficult for us to imagine that there are cancer patients among them and have suffered online violence. Up owner "Kafka Waffle King" is the cancer patient who was bullied online.

At the end of January, she released her first video on Station B to introduce the news of her cancer, and it quickly became popular on the Internet. In the subsequent video, someone said "she has a belly" in the barrage, and was hit back by the up owner himself. This incident became the trigger for her from being "favored" to being bullied by the Internet. In addition, in the subsequent videos of her exercising in the gym like a normal person, many netizens believed that she was fabricating her medical history to gain attention.

Since then, controversy about her has continued. Recently, the official statement from Station B confirmed that she had passed away. After learning the news, the Internet was in an uproar.

Until now, when we search for "Kafka Waffles" on the Internet, we will still see controversy about her. Some people believe that her "death" was fabricated to avoid false news of online violence; others believe that although she has passed away, her previous actions still do not deserve people's forgiveness. This kind of controversy did not stop because Station B made an official statement, but instead tended to intensify.

In fact, as Station B said in its statement, we should first have compassion for people who claim to be sick, whether true or false. This is the duty of being a human being. So, some people may ask, what if it is a liar? Do we have to be willing to be deceived? This is obviously not the case.

The controversy about "Kafka Muffin Lady" is nothing more than whether she is really sick and whether she "fits her character". This exactly reflects our stereotypes about cancer patients. impression.

We always seem to think that cancer patients should lie in the hospital bed, dying, or even receiving chemotherapy. But "Kafka Waffle Lady" is exactly the opposite of our inherent impression. She is lively and cheerful, and even seems a bit "grumpy" - "confronting" the Internet trolls who scolded her. Because of this, many people began to question her medical history.

But in fact, most netizens are not doctors and do not understand, or even know anything about, cancer patients. Our impressions of these patients often come from their portrayal in movies and television dramas. But in real life, there are infinite possibilities. After being infected with COVID-19, some people die from it, while others are "asymptomatic infections." It is obvious that we cannot judge what kind of person "Kafka Waffles" is just by the way she looks in the video. Even though her life was very short, it was far from being fully covered by a few videos.

However, there are indeed many people who want to benefit from their special status. This is the case for another up owner "The Second Half of Huzi's Life".

Relying on his status as an "anti-cancer blogger", he made a lot of profits in a short period of time. Later, it was revealed that he owned luxury cars and real estate. It was not as miserable as shown in the video. Does such an up owner deserve our sympathy?

In fact, although "The Second Half of Huzi's Life" is suspected of "making money", he is also a real patient. Even if we cannot continue to sympathize with him because we have been deceived, we cannot use cyber violence against him because of this. This is not because "I am weak and I am justified", but because we must keep our bottom line as a human being and cannot bully or abuse others at will. Life and death are uncertain, and we must respect life.

Now, these two anti-cancer bloggers have passed away. "Kafka Waffle King" is only 25 years old, and "Huzi's second half of life" finally stayed at 41 years old. The deceased has passed away, and all we can do is regret. After Bilibili confirmed the death of the two Up owners, they pointed out in a statement that the decision to set up memorial accounts for all deceased Up owners with the consent of their families was also out of the most basic compassion of the humanitarian spirit.

We must respect "the second half of Huzi's life".

At the same time, we should also thank "Kafka Waffle Lady" for showing us a side of cancer patients that is completely different from the stereotype. While fighting against the disease, she showed people her love for life and positive and optimistic attitude, which is undoubtedly worth learning from.