The truth of a 50-year-old man: Without these two things in a woman, the relationship between husband and wife will become weaker and weaker. What are these two?

For a man, a beautiful woman will make him move, but he wants their marriage to be happy, happy and long-lasting. A gentle, kind, considerate, considerate and self-reliant woman may make your husband infatuated with you for life.

Therefore, the truth of a 50-year-old man is that if a woman does not have understanding and consideration for a man and an enterprising heart, the relationship between husband and wife will become weaker and weaker.

For a woman, her beautiful face and graceful figure will be lost with the passage of time, but her good character, character and talent will become more and more mellow and attractive to her husband with the passage of time. Men can't help being attracted to this kind of woman. Even after decades of marriage, he will still be infatuated with his wife like his first love.

If a woman only has a beautiful appearance, but has great defects in her personality, such as being suspicious, irritable, lazy and sloppy, you can't let a man's heart stay on you forever, and their feelings will only fade away, which may lead to problems in marriage and even end the marriage relationship.

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1, understand and be considerate of men

Lao Liu and his wife are both 50 years old, and their only daughter is about to graduate from college. It stands to reason that they should live a comfortable life, but Lao Liu always wants to escape the supervision of this family and his wife.

To outsiders, Lao Liu is simply a winner in life. The wife is beautiful, the daughter is obedient and studies well, and her career is thriving. But only she knows the pain in her heart, because she has a beautiful but extremely unconfident wife. This 20-odd-year married life has been spent every day in his wife's suspicion, incomprehension and consideration.

When he was young, Lao Liu was an honest office worker. Every day after work, he comes home on time to help his wife do housework and take care of the children. The two of them are very comfortable. Liu has been getting busier and busier since he came out to work alone. When he needed care and understanding most, his wife made trouble without reason and quarreled again and again, which made Liu swear again and again that he had wanted to end this marriage, but he couldn't bear to look at his young daughter.

Now that my daughter has grown up, she is going to work soon, and Lao Liu is almost 50 years old. He made a final effort to give his wife a long-awaited and expensive gift, hoping that she would understand and tolerate him and spend the rest of her life together. What Lao Liu didn't expect was that the act of giving gifts made his wife more suspicious of him, saying that he deliberately bought noodles to please her.

This quarrel made Lao Liu express his repressed emotions for more than 20 years at one time, and resolutely divorced his wife regardless of family opposition.

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In fact, the most important thing for two people to be together is understanding and tolerance. In marriage, two people form a family, but a man is an independent person while being your husband. He has his independent personality and dignity. In family life, women can't make men pay blindly, and always set too high requirements and standards for their husbands, deliberately making things difficult for them or embarrassing them. Don't always cling to a small shortcoming of your husband and refuse to let go.

Understand and tolerate him, let him have face in front of colleagues and friends, let him eat a meal you cooked at home, and let him really feel your concern, understanding and tolerance.

2. Women should be self-motivated.

Xiaoli has been married 10 years and has been a full-time mother for 6 years. Recently, she found that her husband is increasingly reluctant to talk to himself and loves to go home late. She knows that this is because she has not gone out to work for several years, and has left society and has nothing to say to her husband. Now that the child is 6 years old and in primary school, she decided to go out to work again to improve herself.

Fortunately, Xiaoli didn't go to work for several years, but she didn't lose her professional knowledge at all. Her former colleague now works alone. Knowing that Xiaoli was coming out to work, she immediately arranged a job for her. Soon, a few months later, Xiaoli regained her confidence and was able to talk to her husband at home and at work. Most importantly, with income, you can make your appearance more beautiful and your heart more confident.

My husband has slowly changed, and he is willing to take the initiative to participate in housework and children's study every day. He told Xiaoli that the working wife who fascinated him was back.

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Both men and women are independent individuals and need their own life circles. There are too many women who abandon themselves after marriage and turn around their husbands and children every day and become housewives. When the children grow up and the husband's career is stable, women seem to be redundant.

Therefore, for women, it is necessary to constantly improve themselves, so that they can become more status in the family and be able to control their own lives. For a family, a wife who constantly improves herself will attract her husband more and make him feel a sense of crisis, so that he will appreciate you more and love you more.

Conclusion: A woman who knows tolerance and understanding will definitely not suffer. But while understanding, we must constantly improve ourselves in order to keep up with our husbands. I believe that such an attractive woman will definitely get her husband's love.