Divorced woman says she can only be friends with opposite sex

Divorced women say they can only be friends to the opposite sex

Divorced women say they can only be friends to the opposite sex. As a man, after your wife divorced you, she still said to you that she is still friends. Being friends, this shows that your wife has never loved you, so she will not feel pain or pain after divorce. See below for a divorced woman telling the opposite sex that she can only be friends. A divorced woman tells the opposite sex that she can only be friends 1

This woman is testing your attitude. The method she used was to retreat in order to advance. She said that she thought you just regarded her as a friend. If you denied it, then you would give her an explanation, which was exactly the answer she wanted. She won't be embarrassed if you admit it.

Many men are always afraid of many things when marrying a divorced woman and dare not marry. In fact, a divorced woman is not scary. As long as you understand these three aspects of her, you can basically determine whether you can marry her.

1. Reasons for divorce

This is actually the most important and important issue. There are many reasons for divorce, such as not loving each other anymore, quarreling anymore, hating each other, cheating, neglecting the family, etc.

If this woman is having an affair with another man, or is having an affair, or is a woman who neglects her family, is playful, insults and beats her parents-in-law, which leads to divorce, then this woman is probably not allowed to marry, Jiangshan What is easy to change is hard to change. If the divorce is due to problems with her ex-husband, such as domestic violence, cheating, etc., then you can consider it.

2. Whether a woman can accept a new relationship

If this woman cannot accept a new relationship, then forget it, she has no feelings. Marriage is said to have small graves, and a marriage without emotion is like the eighteenth level of hell. Even if the two sides are together once, it will only increase the sorrow.

3. Whether to sever ties with your ex-husband

Marriage does not allow the penetration of a third party. If a woman is still disconnected from her ex-husband and still has an old relationship with her ex-husband or goes out on dates and things like that, then forget it. Because a woman can't let go of her ex-husband, and she is a very emotional animal. If her ex-husband says a few sweet words, the woman may run away, and then she will be in the Hulunbuir Prairie. Divorced women say they can only be friends with the opposite sex 2

1. It shows that your wife has never really loved you

True love is hard to let go. If you really fall in love with someone, The other person is everything in life and the only one in the world; when you truly love someone, you will think about staying with the other person for the rest of your life; because being able to accompany the person you truly love for the rest of your life is the happiest thing in life. One thing; if you can stay with the person you truly love throughout your life, you will have no regrets in this life; but if you don’t truly love someone, it doesn’t matter when you are together, but when you break up, you will be generous; because you never I have truly loved you, so I don’t care about anything.

After you and your wife divorced, your wife said that she would still be friends with you; this can show that in the eyes of your wife, you are worthless and nothing; she has never been a friend from the beginning. If she has really loved you, she has never really cared about you; if she has really loved you, she will not be willing to divorce you; if she has really loved you,

Even if she is divorced, she will never want to see you ; Because you hurt her, she and you cannot be lovers, but can only be strangers and enemies; but she is so pregnant, which means that she has never loved you in her heart; so Even if I can’t be your lover, I can still be your friend.

2. In the heart of your wife, he will not care about anything about you

On the road of love, if a person has truly loved another person in his heart, then for Everything about the other person will be special. When two people are together, they will regard each other as everything in their lives and the only one in the world. If for some reasons,

When two people become strangers and passers-by, they don’t want to see everything about the other person; because when they see the other person, their hearts will hurt; but if you don’t love someone, it doesn’t matter to you what the other person does; Even if you see what the other person is like and what his situation is, you won't take it lightly or take it to heart.

Your wife divorced you, but she said she is still friends with you; this means that you have no status in your wife’s heart; because she divorced you, she saw your Everything, knowing everything about you, will not produce any feeling in her heart; this is the truest expression of you in her heart,

You can’t splash a drop of waves; no matter how well you live, Good or bad, it doesn't matter to her; that's why she can be friends with you, not lovers; if she cares about everything about you, she will never be friends with you, because she sees Every little bit of you will cause pain in her heart.

3. Your wife is giving herself a way out, thinking of getting back together with you one day

In this world, there are many times, Because you don’t love someone in your heart, you don’t want to be with that person; but because you are with the other person, you also feel that the other person is a good person; so in marriage, some people will give themselves up when they get divorced. Leave a way out; that is, you want to maintain a certain relationship with your lover; when you are in a sea of ??people, if you can't find a better person, you can turn back and be with your lover; Or when your lover becomes prosperous, you can come back and enjoy the blessings.

A man who is still friends with you after your wife divorced you; this may be your wife. After she divorced you, she is not sure whether she can find someone better than you. People can find a happier life; and in her heart, she also feels that you are not a good-for-nothing man; so when she can't find a better man, she can still go back to you. Come back and be with you; so she has left a way out for herself. If one day she wants to get back together with you, she will have the opportunity to start over again; of course, if she finds a better man, she will definitely never do it again. Ignore you.

After the divorce, my wife said that we are still friends; first of all, it means that your wife has never really loved you; in your wife's heart, you have never made a splash from the beginning to the end; in your In your wife's heart, you have never had any status, that's why she behaves so coquettishly that she can no longer be a lover, but can still be friends with you. Secondly,

In your wife’s heart, she doesn’t care about anything about you; so being your friend and looking at everything about you, she won’t feel anything in her heart. In the end, your wife is giving herself a way out, thinking about getting back together with you one day; because she is afraid that she can’t find anyone better than you, so by then, she can start over with you; such a woman, such There are many, many cases. A divorced woman told the opposite sex that she could only be friends 3

Only after the divorce did she realize that the so-called "pure" friendship with the opposite sex was all a lie

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Is there any pure friendship between men and women? Everyone may have their own answer to this question. In fact, there are only two results. One is that the man and woman do not like each other and can only be friends. The other is that the so-called pure friendship will change in the end. quality. Regarding this question, a divorced woman gave her own answer.

Huang Xi thinks that what makes her different from other women is that sometimes she does not regard herself as a woman, especially when facing her male best friend Jun Tao. She always thinks that there is no difference between men and women. How come there is no pure friendship between us, then those who fall off the track while having fun are all impure at heart.

She was not pure from the beginning, and the relationship between her and her best friend Juntao would never be able to overcome that barrier in her life. She enjoyed the friendship between herself and Juntao while sneering. Those who are too worldly.

One of the people Huang Xi sneered at was her husband Yingming. Before Yingming married Huang Xi, he knew that Huang Xi had such a male best friend. At that time, Yingming didn't pay much attention to it because he knew. Huang Xi and Juntao have been studying together since elementary school. They went through junior high school, high school and university together. If there was feelings between them, he would not exist. How could Juntao treat such an outstanding person like Huang Xi? Give yourself a woman.

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But since they got married, Yingming gradually discovered that Huang Xi and Juntao were like a family, and they talked about everything, Juntao She is truly a male best friend. At the beginning of the period, Ying Ming only thought that the so-called male best friend was just a good friend in his eyes. However, Jun Tao's meticulousness, consideration and concern for Huang Xi even reached the point where he was jealous. Ying Ming talked with Huang Xi Live your own feelings.

Huang Xi always said that they have been friends since childhood. Each other’s families treat each other as their own children. Of course, their relationship is not generally good, and they will not cope with it. Separated by anyone's disapproval or misunderstanding, Huang Xi told Yingming not to be so secular like others, and he had to understand the friendship between her and Juntao.

Although Yingming was a little unhappy, he also knew that he really shouldn't be too jealous. He felt that Huang Xi was right. If there was anything between the two of them, he would not give other men a chance. Marry Huang Xi.

Huang Xi just takes it for granted that her husband Yingming takes care of her and her best friend Juntao treats her with unlimited kindness.

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However, sometimes, some things always happen so inexplicably. Once Huang Xi and her husband Juntao had a quarrel because of some trivial matters. She slammed the door angrily and walked out. Every time something unpleasant happened, her first thought was always Juntao. This time it was the same process again. She drove to Juntao's house without hesitation, but Yingming seemed to have already I'm used to her doing this.

Every time after she slammed the door and left, he knew that his wife had gone to another man's house. It seemed that that man's house was where Huang Xi should live, and every time he thought so Sometimes, he is always conflicted. He wonders if he is really too narrow-minded to tolerate the existence of his wife's male best friend. Sometimes he is also very distressed, whether he should be more confused or more serious.

Yingming knows that as a man, in order to save the relationship between him and his wife, he cannot let his wife go to another man's house to complain or vent her emotions every time they quarrel. After all, he made a vow when he married her. He had to take good care of her, but he was always so indifferent every time he felt emotional. He knew that if he tolerated her more, there wouldn't be so many conflicts between them.

Yingming was different this time. He drove to Juntao's house, but when he opened the door of Yingming's house, he was dumbfounded. He saw his wife Huang Xi and Juntao hugging each other tightly. Hugging each other, their clothes were disheveled and their hair was messy. No matter how much Yingming wanted to control his emotions or think rationally, he couldn't do it at this moment.

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He begged his wife to come home with the purpose of retreating to a brighter future, but what he saw was this scene. At this time, Huang Xi and Jun Tao, who were paralyzed by alcohol, It seemed that they suddenly woke up. They knew that they had done something wrong, but unfortunately, they were bumped into by Jun Tao. The so-called pure friendship they had vowed to talk about before was nothing more than a big mistake in front of Ying Ming. It's a joke, whether it's a misunderstanding this time or an ambiguity that happened before.

In short, from now on, the so-called friendship between Huang Xi and Juntao has disappeared, and Yingming finally understands that the conjectures and suspicions he had before were not groundless, and men sometimes have them too. The sixth sense, in emotional matters, this premonition is no less than that of women.

Huang Xi knew that she was wrong. She knew that she loved her husband Yingming in her heart, but she did something wrong in a moment of confusion. She knew that perhaps in Juntao's eyes, No matter how much she treats him as a friend or bestie, as a man, Juntao always regards Huang Xi as a woman. Nothing has happened before, maybe it is just a matter of timing.

There may be other reasons. In short, Huang Xi knows that she has suffered heavy losses this time. She has lost her husband and the innocent friendship that she was once proud of.