What is the best state of love?

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Today, a classmate said in a fan group that I want to write my own emotional history.

To tell the truth, my heart refused. Because there are thousands of people in love, some people are infinitely addicted to love, and some people forget to eat and sleep in love.

I told you my love story, and you took it as a story and a joke at best. There is no resonance in itself.

Instead of this, let's talk about what love should look like. What should it look like?

Do you love her? He loves you? Maybe. But is the word love that easy?

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No, it's not just a word. How much does it contain?

Do you still need the paper you handed me when you wiped your tears? When you need comfort, lean on your shoulder? You hear more laughter when you laugh wildly? Is it? Yes, but something is missing.

You miss him, when you miss him, happy, sad, bored, or anytime, anywhere, regardless of the occasion.

Are you sure you don't think because you are lonely?

Are you sure you love him rather than need him? You need him to help you pass the time, fill your emptiness and help you get rid of all the boring, flustered and lonely times.

What love should look like. I think this kind of love can be equated with the love of parents.

They can even be equal. Like his parents, he will consciously bring you steamed bread when eating. When you take the bus, you will naturally go first, and you will be asked to drink water many times before going to bed at night. If you make a noise at night, he will wake up and ask you. Did you have a fever without saying a word? I will wake up many times when I am sick and touch my forehead.

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What is the best state of love?

You have forgotten that you are in love. Simply put, you are not tired, not hard, not deliberate, not pondering, not entangled, and content with the status quo.

As the saying goes, just like an old couple, they do their own things, don't bother each other, and don't care about each other. Just living a simple life, a lovely wife and a hardworking husband.

Don't admit it when you're wrong, and snicker. He said, "I was wrong, I was wrong." And tickle your ribs to please you.

That's it, you don't have to worry about your situation, because as long as he is here, he doesn't worry about anything. You lost your mobile phone, and he was more anxious than you, fearing that he wouldn't find you.

When you are alone at home, he can go home with all his strength. He can run again and again, trying to run fast, just because he is afraid that you are in a hurry and that you miss him for too long, so he is tired. As long as you are happy, he is happy.

You are everything in his life. When he sees a beautiful dress, he will think it is beautiful and want to buy it for you.

For example, the best love has never been Marisol-style gorgeous, nor is it Liang Shanbo-style Zhu Yingtai-style sad beauty.

Or the trivial things accumulated little by little in life. Just thinking about this, I have already burst into tears.

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What if such a person suddenly disappears from my life?

I don't know. All I know is that this man has given you almost all the happiness in your life. Such a person will shed his skin even if he dies when he is gone.

Since it is love, don't be vigorous, as long as the water flows forever.

In front of each other, they are the truest themselves, and they happen to be infatuated with each other. Their feelings are already soul mates.

This is the truest but most rare love.