Should parents hate them if they don't help buy a house and a car?

I don't blame them, but I envy people whose parents help them buy cars and houses.

How much effort did your parents make to help you? I believe many young people are embarrassed to say, yes, yes, my parents have helped me a lot. It was my parents' efforts and contributions that bought me a house and a car and gave me Tianjin. You said that if your parents didn't have the conditions, or he had some conditions, but he didn't try his best for you, then as a friend, did you ever complain that your parents didn't buy you a house or a car and didn't give you so much help? I believe many friends will say, well, you can't complain, you can't complain, so you can rely on yourself. Well, the old man really looks down on me, and he is doing well, quite well, and can't bear it. Why do you say that? Ah, because we China people have a traditional saying in our bones that sons don't think their mothers are ugly and dogs don't think their families are poor. Your parents gave you such a big life. If you dare to say so, if you dare to complain about your parents, then you are unfilial and you are a bad person. Wrong, maybe many people think you are not human? So you dare not say so, you dare not complain, right? If you want to complain, you are not alone. Do you think you can complain? Ah, but if you don't complain, what can you say? Oh, I'm fine without them. You see, I have everything now. I look down on old age, but I can only rely on myself, right? Lao Song also tasted this sentence, which is actually good. Most of the time, it's just sour grapes. If you want to enjoy your parents' help, you have to have parents, right? I want to ask such friends, are you really not surprised, complaining or envious at all? Let's have a chat. Take a look. You see, with the help of their parents, these people can pursue their ideals, hobbies, themselves and how to live when they are young. They have a saying that people should live a wonderful life, and it is impossible to be bound by this little thing around them, right? And you and I can't. Why? Your ideal and hobby is making money. Nothing else. You can only make a living, because otherwise, you may not be able to eat or drink, right? The house, car and family that people can easily get after graduation may require your lifelong efforts and efforts. Then when you sit with others, you can proudly say that I also have a house, a car and a family, and I am no worse than you. But how did you get here all these years? Your youth is here. Where is your life? Nothing can be done. Yes, you can't blame your parents, and you can't blame your parents, Danny, but are there really no barriers in your heart? Ah, relying on our own efforts, relying on our own efforts to chase soaring housing prices, we know how tired and hard we are. Is it the first time to lie in bed silently at this time, dare you say that there is no gap in your heart, and you don't complain or lie at all? Second, some people will say, oh, say what you think about Europe and America. Europe and America 18 years old and 20 years old, you don't care. You must grow up by yourself, but you must be independent. This is what we are used to. This is true in Europe and America, but a country has its own national conditions. Europe and America don't pay attention to filial piety. This national condition is different. Why is it no different? For example, there is a famous basketball player in America. Well, he used to be famous, but now he's gone. He once sued his parents for something, didn't he? If it happens in China, you can imagine what celebrities will do. If public opinion attacks you to death, you won't be able to do publicity in the future, and no one will dare to use endorsements. Who dares to finish, you are scum in the eyes of the country, you are finished, completely finished. You don't even have a chance to turn over. Don't you dare sue your parents in court, they are quarreling. Think about it. Right? But abroad, it doesn't matter. A normal thing that everyone can accept. It doesn't matter. It doesn't matter that you are a celebrity. Who is right and who is right, you won't judge a person for this. Isn't it? This is because the national conditions are different, not domestic, so this aspect cannot be done. This is a question of social values, which will not change for a while. You say when it will change, when you don't need garage money to measure everything, when you get married, when you don't want an old car, when you don't want a house, when you don't want money, when you have a holiday, you don't say, Oh, how about the car, how about the house, how much do you earn now? Let's talk about the second and third points first. You said that the young couple and their parents didn't help or couldn't help, so they worked hard to make money through their own efforts. Then you said that some people were very kind to me, and I earned 100 million yuan in two years. Then don't say that ordinary people didn't struggle for a few years and finally saved a down payment. Alas, they bought a house of their own, and they are very happy. During this period, you dare not waste money, dare not have a second child, and dare not enroll your child in any cram school or interest class. It happens every day. You work hard every day. The most important thing is that you have no time to take care of the elderly. You must win all your energy. If you don't make money, you can't afford the mortgage. Even if the old man is sick and disabled, you can't be filial before going to bed, and then you will be accused of unfilial. Ah, you are not filial, you have to give up something, you have to take care of your parents, what about you, what about this person, there will be countless people standing on the moral high ground accusing you. Tell me, are you pathetic? Do you have any complaints in your heart? Will it be in your heart? At that time, my parents wanted to give me a suite like everyone else. What about me now? I have so much money in my hand now. I can take care of my parents now. I can do whatever I want, but I don't have it. My requirements are not high. I just want to be the same as others, even worse than others. Why can't I reach them, can I? Don't you want to? Well, well, besides, when you grow up, have children and get married, you will deeply remember how much you have suffered, how much you are tired and how much you are worse than others in these years. At this time, you will go all out to continue your struggle. Why give children a stable life? You want to give him the same thing as others. You can't say how rich and expensive you are and how powerful you are. So you will redouble your efforts. At this time, when you can do this one day and give it to your children, will you silently blame your parents for not working hard enough? Would you? Why don't you work as hard as I do? If you work harder, don't you? It will be better. Yes, saying this goes against some of our propaganda, some morals and some values since ancient times, so few people will say it. But my friend patted his chest and asked himself, if you are such a person, have you really never thought about it when your parents can't help you or when you struggle on your own? Really don't blame me? Really? Never complain. All right.