Why does the truth always surface in a joke?

How much truth is told in the joke and how much truth is expressed in the joke. When we tell our thoughts as jokes, people who don't want to understand won't understand anything. However, many times, there are many words you want to express sincerely, but you can't say them for various reasons.

How much truth is told in the joke and how much truth is expressed in the joke. When we tell our thoughts as jokes, people who don't want to understand won't understand anything. However, many times, there are many words you want to express sincerely, but you can't say them for various reasons.

I like a person very much, but I am afraid to tell her (him) my inner monologue, and I can't get the response I want from him. I'm afraid being friends is a good thing. Some things are easy to say once they are said, but it is impossible to be friends. How embarrassing it is to meet. However, there is a faint unwillingness in my heart. Some people don't want to be friends here. Maybe telling her (him) will have another result. With this mentality, many people choose to show their hearts to him/her on April Fool's Day. If rejected, they can also smile and say: I was joking with you, but you actually took it seriously. Then turn around and leave lost.

Are you one of those people? In front of the person you like, you always say something against your will, hurt him, praise him, and deliberately play the devil's advocate with the other person, so as not to let him know what he really thinks. However, those sweet words always can't find the right opportunity to express themselves, but they can't say what they care about. I'm afraid I won't get a response after I say it, but it will destroy the other party's previous good impression. Therefore, many truths are said in a joking tone, while expecting his response and laughing mercilessly. I am joking with you to cover up my loss.

I am a cheerful and frank girl. I like being lively and joking with others. There is never a shortage of good male buddies around me. He is one of them. I can't remember when I began to have feelings for him. When I realized it, I found myself in love. I played all kinds of jokes because I was very close. I once said, if you can't find someone you love, just make do with it. It is also said that future boyfriends should be found according to his standards, sunny and handsome, considerate and caring, and humorous. Maybe from that time on, I felt more affection for him than my friends.

Later, I still maintained the previous relationship, eating and drinking together, and playing all kinds of jokes together, but I knew that I liked him, and that feeling could not deceive me. I pay more attention to his every move, and I can't help looking at him more, caring about his words and deeds and what I say. When a girl accosts him, he can't help feeling it. I would also like to find a suitable opportunity to express my thoughts, but I can't muster up the courage. Because I am too familiar with it, I always know what kind of girl he likes, and I also know that it is not his type. I'm afraid that my confession will make the distance between us far away and never return to the beginning.

People can control their emotions when they are awake, but they can't control them when they are drunk. It was my birthday, and then I invited a large group of friends to celebrate my birthday. I only remember drinking a lot and talking a lot that day, and then it broke. I didn't know what I had been afraid to say until I heard it from my friend the next day. I said it when I was drunk the other day. But they think you're just talking nonsense when you're drunk When I got up the courage and decided to have a complete showdown, I said, what if what I said is true? They all agree that you are not fully awake and are joking. See, people who are used to joking, the only time you are serious, will be considered joking. Then, in the noise, quietly leave.

I am such a person, used to disguise my emotions and pretend to be indifferent; I can speak a lot of WeChat words, but I never admit my weakness. The surface is as cold as an iceberg, but I don't want to show my sadness outside and let people know my sadness. I'd rather deceive myself and pretend not to care. I really like him. So I have a soft spot for alcohol, because drinking will make me feel that I can not think about him for a while, because only when I am drunk can I tell him the secret in my heart, express it unconsciously and give myself room to recover. Even if you fail, you can cover it up with drunken nonsense; That's why I added a sentence after what I said many times: haha, you are serious, I am joking. Only in this way can we retain the last bit of dignity and not be defeated.

But only you know the truth behind those jokes. Many times you blurt out a lot of words: for example, you don't like it, for example, you don't miss it, but these words that can be easily said are the most against your will. We always do. We are not good at expressing the softest parts of emotions, but we can easily express the hard parts. I often wonder, if we can all be less duplicitous and more honest, will our life be simpler? In fact, we have been looking for someone who understands you all our lives. He can see through all your duplicity and read the expression behind your jokes. Understand your silence and take care of your childishness.

Not only myself, but also around me, in TV dramas, novels ... those words spoken in a joking tone are so sincere.

If you are unmarried and I am unmarried at the age of 30, can I marry you?

They are good friends, from high school, then to college, then to graduation, then to work, they have always been good friends.

Until she said she was going to get married, he was very sad and thought it was time to give up love and be good friends for life, but she was lovelorn because her boyfriend cheated. He was overwhelmed with joy and jumped up and down like a child.

He went to comfort her, take care of her, and let her get out of the shadow of lovelorn. Then, he said, "If you are unmarried and I am unmarried at the age of 30, can I marry you?" . She thought it was just to comfort her and make a joke, but she didn't take it seriously.

It was not until half a year later that she came out of the shadow of lovelorn. When he left, she found that she had fallen in love with him, but she didn't know his mind.

So, the day before she turned 30, she threatened him with that sentence that she didn't know whether it was true or not. No matter what he thinks, she is serious anyway. She stopped being his good friend and wanted to be his girlfriend.

They ended well and finally got together, because he has always liked her since high school.

Who wants a woman like you? Why don't I kill you for the people!

She is a very strong woman, a woman, karate, careless and sometimes confused. She has never been in love and has been single.

He and she have always been good friends. Because of her confusion, he is not sure what she thinks, and he doesn't know how to speak.

Finally, he found an opportunity at a friend's party. He drank a little wine. With the strength of wine, he said to her, "Who wants a woman like you? Why don't I treat you as a people! " . She laughed and said that he was drunk, thinking it was just a joke. Then she said mercilessly that she didn't want a man like him, and even she couldn't beat him.

In fact, he is not drunk, but he would rather be drunk, so that he won't remember her answer and won't hear the sound of heartbreak when he is drunk.

In the end, they didn't get together and became good friends for life. It was not until many years later that they were old that they recalled the past.

She took what he said when he was drunk as a joke, and he told her that I was not drunk that day, which was true. Then, there were tears in her eyes, so they missed each other.

Many jokes are made with sincerity, and because they are afraid of losing, they are carefully tested in this way, but this way is often misleading.

Therefore, sometimes, joking is not just a joke, you should feel it with your heart, and you should know that most of what you say in a joking tone is sincere.

Whether love comes or not needs you to find out for yourself. If you don't find out, even if love comes, you won't stay where you are. If you find love coming, try to catch it and don't let it slip away inadvertently.

In the rest of my life, I hope we can all meet the person in our hearts, let us shed our disguise and truly express our inner feelings, and don't let miss become miss and regret become regret.