It's too early to say goodbye.

? I remember that the fourth brother left at the end of June, and it was not until one night at the end of July that I went back to my dormitory after studying by myself that I suddenly realized that the light in his dormitory had not been on for a long time. In fact, I never thought that someone so close would leave without saying goodbye. When he told me to leave, I thought there would be a formal farewell ceremony between us so that I could say goodbye. But the reality is that my brother quietly booked a ticket in the early morning, without telling anyone the departure time or mentioning the destination to anyone. So we never met again.

? That night, I called my brother for the longest time since I knew him, but I didn't dare to say goodbye from beginning to end. Until the end, I said to my brother in tears, "Tell me another joke." My brother paused for two or three seconds and smiled and replied, "I have told you all the jokes I know." Yes, we have known each other for two years, and it's time to tell more jokes. My elder brother said he was afraid to leave. I think telling a joke every time we meet is his way of saying goodbye in advance, but I am too slow. I always feel that meeting is not easy, and getting to know each other is even more valuable. Why do I always want to leave?

? After that phone call, I felt sorry and sad. Scrambled eggs with fungus eaten together in Sichuan restaurant still taste the same, except that there is a stranger sitting opposite me. Last year's birthday was still written on the wishing wall of the tea shop, but no one played childish checkers with me anymore; Grandma said to invite my brother home during the summer vacation, but I haven't had time to invite him yet. It seems that we haven't been together since then. I think it will take me many years to understand my brother's sentence: "Remember, I love you more than most people, but I just don't know how to express it." Of course, it will take me longer to learn to say goodbye calmly. Probably all kinds of life are very sad when they are rolled over, and suddenly I understand the sentence: "Just say goodbye as soon as possible, because it is really impossible to say goodbye at the last minute."

? I think everyone will appreciate meeting, but in fact, the greatest person can grasp parting. Many times, we always think that life is a long party, so we always have the courage to waste our time together and don't mind arguing with each other through unnecessary trifles. Who knows what is waiting for us next second is a sad separation. It is precisely because we can't grasp the unknown that it is particularly important to say goodbye early so as not to be caught off guard. Spend all the arguments and cold war time hugging and loving each other. After all, there is still a glimmer of hope for reunion in life. If you die, it will be a lifelong regret.

? But sadly, even though we know this, we are still firmly practicing a strange formula: unless the specific separation time is determined, all goodbye is unnecessary. Therefore, for those who have an accident or say goodbye suddenly, or died of illness, most of us can only beat our chests and feet and regret for life. Just imagine, if we enlarge our deep feelings as a solemn farewell way early, then the "too late" in some regrets in life will be doubled, and there will be not so many regrets and sad things.

? People often joke, "You are the loudest when you really leave, and you will never be ready." Moreover, I also admit that such a parting will not really happen until you accept it. Therefore, since we know that we can't grasp the last affectionate goodbye, let's treat every time together as the last time. People who don't see each other should hug and say goodbye every time and then fulfill those hidden words: peck their parents on the cheek like chickens and tell them how grateful they are for their upbringing over the years; Solemnly hold the hand of your lover and say with deep affection how much you love each other; Put away the banter of mutual pity and seriously praise the understanding of friends. Don't hesitate to confess when you have time, and say goodbye seriously when you come. Since the end of long-term separation has been doomed, it is worthwhile to try to make the process smooth. In retrospect, it takes a long time.

? We will meet countless people in this life. Some people are in a hurry and have settled down in the world before they get to know each other, but some people will leave a deep impression on each other's lives and then say goodbye. Whether it is the former or the latter, their appearance and departure are unpredictable. Although they will all leave, we will go forward alone, but walking alone is not the meaning of life, but the normal state of life, so we should know better than anyone that it is not easy to meet and grasp the opportunity of farewell. Only in this way will life not regret a lot.