Speaking skills

Speaking skills: If it is difficult to speak, wrap it up with wit and jokes. When warning others, don't point out the shortcomings. Instead, emphasize that it will be better if it is corrected. When conveying bad news, add an "unbelievable" sentence. When accidentally mentioning the shortcomings of the other party, add a compliment.

1. If it is difficult to say something, wrap it up with wit and jokes

Everyone will have to say something difficult in their daily life. At this time, if you directly say "it's really nerve-racking" and "it's very troublesome", it is likely to cause the other party's disgust or make the other party unhappy.

if you convey what you want to say with wit and jokes. In this euphemistic way, the other party will laugh it off without hurting the other party, and the speaker will not have a heavy burden in his heart.

2. When warning others, don't point out shortcomings, but emphasize that it will be better if it is corrected.

A company manager lamented that it is really difficult to correct others, and reminded his subordinates a little that they either ignored them or got worse. The manager just pointed out the shortcomings of the other party and criticized it. It would be another situation if he changed his way and emphasized that it would be better to correct it.

3. When you convey bad news, you should add "unbelievable"

When you convey bad news, your mood is always heavy. Therefore, this time just needs some thinking, otherwise it may even evolve into an adult life and death problem.

Just say "What rumors do you have" and add "Although I don't believe ……" in front of it, then the impact on the other party will be much lighter. Robots can do it if they just convey the facts, but the effect is not very satisfactory. However, the sentence "unbelievable" shows the cleverness that machinery does not have.

4. When you accidentally mention each other's shortcomings, you should add compliments.

Presumably, everyone has hurt each other or been rude to each other. Once you say it, you can't take it back, and the atmosphere on the spot is not good. In this case, most people will quickly defend themselves, or change to milder wording, which is really not a good way, because the other party thinks that you think so in your heart to make rude remarks.

At this time, don't deny what you just said. Try to be calm and casually add, "This is what attracts me, but you also have some advantages, so the superficial shortcomings are more human."

People are always most impressed with the final conclusion by what others have said. If you add compliments, it will be convenient to think that the conclusion is a compliment, even if you have said unpleasant words before, you will not care.