What is the smile comfort method?

In real life, there are many people who need comfort, such as: family members of the deceased, losers, patients and their families, etc. In many cases, you have to smile to appease these people so that you do not stand out from the crowd.

Compassion is something everyone has, even the most ruthless people.

How to use sympathy is another important link in the art of communication. In this world, it is precisely because of people’s mutual encouragement and comfort, and their spiritual consideration for each other that human beings have developed to what they are today. level.

Carnegie often said to his relatives and friends:

"Take good care of yourself, and you will be able to walk out of the hospital in good health before long!"

" Work hard, and with your intelligence, you will be able to accomplish something!"

"As long as you persist, the road to success is at your feet!"

Carnegie's friends often gain confidence and courage under the encouragement of such words.

Carnegie never hesitated to smile to anyone.

One evening at dusk, Carnegie was still working in his office. Miss Molly suddenly hurried up from downstairs, looking panicked.

"Don't worry, Molly, tell me something slowly?"

After resting for a while, Molly said:

"More Mr. Xi came to me and said that your friend Cassia is sick and lives in the Fifth State Hospital!"

"Yes, thank you, Molly!"

Ka Thea was Carnegie's hometown. She had given him a lot of help when he was in Manhattan earlier, so Carnegie decided not to delay for a moment and went to see her at dusk.

It was already dusk outside. Carnegie bought a bouquet of flowers and rushed to the Fifth State Hospital.

He knocked lightly on the door and heard a faint voice coming from inside: "Please come in."

Carnegie then gently opened the door and came in holding flowers. To Cassia's bedside. At this time, Cassia's spirit immediately became happy, and she happily said to Carnegie:

"Thank you, my old friend!"

Carnegie then asked with concern:

"Are you feeling better now?"

"Much better!"

"You are so lucky, you don't know how much I want to have a baby at the moment If you have a minor illness, you can work less and rest more."

When Cassia heard this, she was happy and said:

"If you really want to be sick, then come. Take my place!"

Carnegie always had a smile on his face:

"I hope so. In Maryville, whenever I felt a little uncomfortable, my mother would Immediately put your hands on the Bible and pray for me, asking God to bless me!”

“My family is the same!”

The two of them talked about their hometown like this... During this visit, Carnegie fully demonstrated his comforting smile method, which not only made the other person feel happy, but also deepened their friendship.

But to achieve this kind of smiling comfort, you need to master some skills.

For example, if your friend is broken up in love, he or she must be in pain now. If you want to comfort him or her, you must also know certain strategies.

At this time, if you say "Forget him (her)!" or "I will introduce you to a good one tomorrow!", the other party may be tired of hearing these words. So what do you do? You can ask the person to go for a walk in the countryside, tell him or her some interesting jokes, and let him or her know that life is colorful and that bumps on one road does not mean that all roads are impassable. Let him (her) regain the courage to live, and then say something broad to him (her), such as "happiness is music and beer" and so on.

Also remember, when you smile back, don't express your pity too much, as this will easily make the other person hate you.

The comfort of a smile is a good way to win new friends and strengthen friendships.