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Every time I quarrel with my husband, it's because of my mother-in-law. What should I do?

Many people think that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law should be handled calmly, giving priority to coaxing and giving in first. My answer is to treat it according to the family, the situation and the specific situation. If there is a gentle, kind and considerate mother-in-law who is willing to think of you and put you in an important position, I think you can live a harmonious and beautiful life without doing too much work at all. But if you have an unreasonable, princess-sick, blx, self-centered and selfish mother-in-law, even if you let her go again, she thinks this is what you should do and never studies hard.

I think, for a woman, no one wants to live a hard life unless it is forced. But it seems easy for someone to stand and talk. "What should you do to me?" "What's wrong with you?" After all, the relationship is between two people. How do you treat me? How do I treat you? People are all meat, and you are not good to me. Why should I be nice to you? Now there is a particularly popular joke in Tik Tok, that the mother-in-law doesn't babysit her daughter-in-law, which is not wrong in itself. Daughter-in-law chooses to have children, but when you are old, only your son takes care of you, because there is no kindness to support and no help, and the daughter-in-law has no obligation. In today's society, we should respect the old and love the young, but have you ever thought that we are all the only children born after 1980s and 1990s, who are spoiled by our parents at home and have friends when we go out? Why do daughters-in-law have to listen to what they say when they come to her husband's house? This psychological gap is absolutely unacceptable to anyone.

Everyone says that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good, and most of them are the fault of husband, right and wrong. This is a job full of IQ and EQ. When two people are together, hello, I am good, hello everyone. My mother-in-law and father-in-law are here, and my husband is both a son and a husband. It is of course good that this role can be transformed naturally, but if there is an accident, how can it be saved? If you haven't decided yet, or don't know what attitude to take, don't get married for the time being, so as not to hurt yourself and the innocent. People who can handle it well are not good enough to be happy, but poor, helpless and unloved.

This is marriage. It is not easy for two people to be together, but in the eyes of parents-in-law, it is always the husband who is accommodating you. No one in this world is stupid, no one will blindly pay, and they will definitely choose and sacrifice each other in getting along, so that life can continue. This is all about being immersed in love, so there is no need to embarrass them. But some old people will say, this is your business, I don't care. In fact, it is a common phenomenon for all elderly people to say that they don't care, but they should participate in their thoughts. If they really don't care, they won't watch you fight. No matter what the result, they all think their son is right. When they watch you bully his son, they will silently compete with you, waiting for them to get it back one day.

There is no right or wrong in family issues, just different positions. There is no right or wrong. You think you are right, and she thinks she is right. Don't use your opinion and attitude to teach each other how to do it. After all, no one is necessarily right. It's not that your old man will make you picky, that your young family will make you unreasonable, that you have to keep high-profile, that you can be unscrupulous when you are young, that you have to be understood when you are old, and that you can do whatever you want when you are young.

No matter what happens, a smart family will laugh it off, and a stupid family will think, what should she do if the same thing happens in the future? If you don't want to live a good life, then everyone will put all the questions on the table and make them clear. If you think you are right, let the other person see where you are wrong. If you want to live a good life, everyone should take a step back, don't argue about right and wrong, and fight for high and low. Even if there is victory or defeat, what if the family is not harmonious?