A 12-year-old girl writes a petition for divorce on behalf of her mother. Your children will know whether your marriage is good or not!

I saw an article in Moments - "A 9-year-old girl from Suining went to court to write a complaint for her mother." It was also a case of family discord, but what this child did surprised everyone.

Three months ago, Judge Kuang Guojun of the Sanfeng Court in Pengxi County, Suining came to have a "special" consultant.

Fangfang, a 12-year-old girl who was less than 150cm tall, stood in front of the judge neither humble nor overbearing, and asked how to get a divorce.

Judge Kuang's surprise was palpable. After careful questioning, he learned that it was Fangfang's mother who wanted a divorce, and the latter was still hesitating in the court hall.

"Mom, come here quickly!"

After hearing her daughter's cry, Fangfang's mother raised her head and walked slowly into the judge's office.

Having handled many divorce cases, Judge Kuang soon discovered the differences in the divorce case in front of him.

The mother was hesitating and evasive, but the daughter was generous and answered all questions.

After inquiry, we learned that at around 9 pm on January 31 this year, Fangfang’s father came home drunk and made a big fuss. As soon as her mother responded with a few words, her father started to take action. Fangfang's mother couldn't bear the beating and shouted, "If you do this again, I will go to the court to file for divorce!"

Fangfang, who had fallen asleep, was awakened by the noise. She looked at her mother who was being beaten by her father, and remembered that she had seen the same situation many times. She immediately said to her mother, "Mom, let's go, don't do this." Dad, go to court for divorce. Then he took her mother and wanted to take her away from home.

That night, Fangfang’s mother packed up her ID card, household registration book, etc., left home with her daughter, and stayed at a relative’s house that night.

Early the next morning, Fangfang took her mother to catch the bus and went to Sanfeng Court to ask for a divorce.

On the morning of May 2, Fangfang told reporters that for many years, whenever her father got drunk, he would quarrel with her mother and even beat her. She has always felt sorry for her mother and was very angry at her father's behavior. "But my mother has always been hesitant. She didn't dare to see the judge after entering the court, so I went to see the judge first."

Looking at Fangfang's mother, who was still a little scared, the judge began to ask.

"Is the divorce what you want?"

"It's what I want. He always loses his temper and hits people, and I'm scared too."

" My father became very violent when he drank, throwing things and hitting my mother, so I told her to get divorced," Fangfang added after hearing what her mother said.

After the decision was made, it was time to fill in the complaint, but Fangfang’s mother, who was not well educated, could only write her own name. 12-year-old Fangfang volunteered to fill in the complaint for her mother.

After scribbling and revising, Fangfang finally wrote her mother’s divorce complaint for the third time.

In the complaint, Fangfang wrote: "The defendant committed domestic violence when he was drunk. He had a bad temper. After drinking, he often beat and scolded the plaintiff for no reason. He was too lazy to do anything and threw things. He does whatever he wants and does as he pleases. He fails to fulfill his responsibilities as a husband and father. None of his three children likes their father. The couple's relationship has completely broken down. They are asking the court to dissolve the marriage. "

Looking at the complaint written by the little girl, which was full of typos, Judge Kuang asked, "Aren't you afraid that your father will beat you when you get home when you drag your mother to divorce?"

"Don't be afraid. Dad is not allowed to beat me, and we are not allowed to go back. My mother and I will go to Chengdu to find my eldest sister." After saying that, he took his mother and left the court.

Judge Kuang lamented that in the past, parents did not want their children to participate in divorce. This is the first time that a child drags his mother to the court and writes a petition for divorce on her mother’s behalf. Why can’t such a sensible little girl not What about owning a complete home?

Fortunately, the outcome of the incident is relatively good.

With the efforts and persuasion of all parties, Fangfang’s mother finally chose to withdraw the lawsuit.

During the May Day holiday that just passed, Fangfang’s father just bought a mobile phone for Fangfang’s mother, and gave Fangfang 200 yuan for school living expenses.

In the past three months, Fangfang’s father has never lost his temper and hit anyone. He goes home after work every day. Occasionally, when friends gather for dinner, he will ask for leave in advance and report to Fangfang’s mother. Very rarely Even when I was drunk, I would go home and fall asleep. I would discuss going shopping with my mother, and I would pay more attention to my mother.

Faced with her father’s change, Fangfang smiles on her lips and feels sweet in her heart.

Fangfang said, I hope to have a complete family. But if my father beats my mother for a long time and their relationship is not good, I would rather not have such a family. I don’t want my mother to be hurt more. I want a harmonious family.

Now that my father’s temper has changed a lot, I have forgiven him a long time ago. From now on, I will study hard, find a good job, and be filial to my parents.

I will continue to stand by my mother. My mother is timid. I think she is still young and should try her best. If something happens, she should speak out loud and not keep it in her heart.

I am very pleased that this 12-year-old girl, with her bravery and hard work, is getting closer to the warm home in her heart.

We have heard too many parents say:

The child is still young, and for the sake of the child, I cannot divorce!

Let’s wait until the child is older!

I don’t know anything, how can I make a living if I’m divorced!

I have also heard other people’s advice to people who are not in good marriages:

What will you do with your children after a divorce?

Just bear with it, the child is still young, how can we live without quarreling!

If you quarrel at the head of the bed or end it at the end of the bed, your divorce will make others laugh!

But this 12-year-old girl has taught everyone a lesson. Rather than having a family who wants to be submissive, she is more willing to use her young shoulders to hold up a world for her beloved mother. Tell mom not to be afraid to walk away, she is still here.

At any time, what children need is a complete warm and loving home, not a "family" that seems to be inseparable.

What you endure is not real family life.

A child’s heart is clear and sensitive. No matter how well the parents hide it, everything that happens every day, the embarrassing and stiff atmosphere, is floating in the air, making the child understand what happened and what the parents’ feelings are. Covering up makes it even more difficult for children to speak out. Over time, the slightest disturbance will make the child's heart feel like it is hanging on a tightrope, and it will be shattered if not careful.

You know, your children really know everything about whether your married life is going well or not!

Do you still remember the 10-year-old boy who jumped off a building due to a quarrel between his parents some time ago, causing countless people to sigh?

However, the same thing still happens in some corner of every city.

Thanks to the bravery of the little girl Fangfang, she saved a home with her own meager strength.

Marriage is like shoes, only you know whether they are good or not.

I also want to tell all parents, stop talking about it for the sake of the children. Your marriage is not for the sake of the children. If you really can't continue, please get together and break up, and tell your children seriously that divorce is not because of You are not good, but your parents are no longer suitable to be together, but no matter whether your parents are together or not, their love for you will never change!

Children will really understand!

I also hope that all parents can understand and love each other, reduce unnecessary quarrels, and nourish a caring family with heart!