Do you regret your original choice?

At the class reunion, someone talked about the couples who used to show off their affection to death, but now they are no longer together.

Everyone knows this psychology. Listening to other people's stories, especially stories that are more miserable than one's own, is a very pleasant thing.

The protagonists in the story have been in love together since middle school, and they have ten thousand ways of abusing dogs, and the tricks are never repeated;

They are still tired of being together in college, you and me. ; Two years after graduation and living together, their long love affair ended.

I heard that the reason is nothing more than the different family backgrounds and financial foundations of both parties. The parents came out to obstruct the children for the best, and finally beat the couple.

It stands to reason that both parties have harvested a very beautiful first love. From now on, everyone can cherish it and live a good life.

But the economically disadvantaged party (in order to avoid raising the issue to the level of antagonism between men and women, I won’t say who it is), decided that the other party disliked the poor and loved the rich, and cruelly abandoned themselves. Regardless of the fact that the two of them lived together for two miserable years after graduation.

So the party who considered itself the victim started a crazy revenge mode by making himself a rich man. A few years later, the daring revenger drove a luxury car, dressed himself up in a high-end and classy style, appeared in front of the other party, and flirted...

I succeeded. , and then use money to hit people in the face, telling this guy who originally disliked his poverty to stay away from death. By the way, I didn’t forget to pick up the money in the end, it wasn’t for you.

Oh, this is a cliché, it is definitely a bloody plot only found in TV series. I scoffed, it must be made up.

When I told Da Ya about this joke, she nudged me with her elbow and said how normal it was.

A few days ago, the factory loser who once pursued her but failed, now drove over to invite her to tea and told her that he was now a boss and had bought several houses.

This is definitely not to linger on the old relationship, but to make Daya feel regretful. I heard that you and your wife are still working part-time, right? Look how cool and cool I am now, do you regret rejecting me in the first place?

I asked Da Ya, do you regret it?

Da Ya pursed her lips and smiled, and I regretted going to drink tea with him.

No matter how rich some people are, the things that were annoying to them at first are still annoying now, and they will never become lovable just because they are rich.

Moreover, the person you thought regretted not choosing you is still living a colorful life. Are you blind?

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How about working hard, buying a car or a house to prove to your parents how wrong they were in favoring boys over girls or girls over boys...

So many feelings Years ago, my efforts are just for this moment of showing off my power. If I master enough materials, I will naturally be full of confidence and pride...

Wake up, other people's lives will not be because of you. It would be better if you were in dire straits, but you won’t be unable to live just because you have enough food and clothing. To be honest, whether you are living well or not has nothing to do with others!

There is a female classmate who got my contact information out of nowhere and went through all kinds of troubles just to tell me that she is very happy now and did not do what I warned her about: we talked in middle school. Falling in love or even dropping out of school will not end well.

I really want to break my head and can’t remember this thing. Isn’t it great to have a successful relationship with my puppy love and have cute and healthy children? Even if I did say such words at that time, it just means that I had no eyesight at that time and saw it wrong.

This is like using money to prove that the people who looked down on you at the beginning are mistaken. It is really a psychology.

If your reason for wanting revenge or proving the other person wrong is no longer valid, and they don’t remember it at all, is the wealth or happiness you have gained still solid?

If you are down-to-earth, then live your life well and there is no need to show off in front of others. If you are not down-to-earth, then you are really unfortunate, and I still want to sympathize with you.

Because such superficial pride is vulnerable to a blow, it is really despising.

On the road to growth, no one has it smooth sailing. It is normal for you to be looked down upon by others or to look down upon someone in the past. If all the hard work you have to do is to let people who look down on you know that they were wrong in the first place, it will be very boring.

Because there are people in higher places who look down on you. The person standing at the foot of the mountain is just as insignificant in the eyes of the other person as the person on the top of the mountain.

The lack of recognition at that moment may inspire your fighting spirit to be a better version of yourself than you are now. When you really become better than before, you may not care about the injustice you suffered at the beginning, let alone get recognition and pleasure from those who have wronged you.

Because, how can people who are still controlled by those in the past to be happy be considered better?

On the contrary, when you become a better person, you will remember the people who helped you along the way. Those people never expect you to pay them back in large amounts one day.

Similarly, if you open your eyes and look at those friends around you who treat you sincerely, are they willing to get acquainted with you and value you from the bottom of their hearts because you are rich now?

The real revenge is to forget them and live your life well every day.