My girlfriend is cold and violent to me, and I don't know why. How to break the ice?

I think you should have a good talk with your girlfriend, tell her what you think and tell her that you want to ease the relationship between you two. I hope you can tell her calmly and don't get angry.

First, your girlfriend may not like you.

I think the reason why your girlfriend is cold and violent to you is probably that she has lost her freshness to you, and dating you is very tired, tired and uncomfortable. In this process, she may find a more suitable boy and want to break up with you. But she didn't want to hurt you, and she didn't want to be a bad person herself, so she began to force you to break up with cold violence.

If so, I suggest you break up with her directly! She is not worth lingering. Boys and girls should understand that novelty is doing different things with the same person, not doing the same things with different people.

Your girlfriend's cold violence against you shows that she is indifferent. This kind of person is not worthy of love. If you want to find someone to spend your life with, it's definitely not her.

Second, talk to her.

The above is just my guess. You can talk to your girlfriend and tell her that you want to know why she did this to you. You are at a loss, and you hope that your relationship will be eased.

Take a step back, even if you don't want to be together, let her tell you why, let you understand everything, and then bless her and let go. Don't let her think that she owes you anything. Everyone is free, love and not love are free.

Third, don't hurt others.

In fact, many people in life treat their lovers with cold violence. I don't recommend this method. Cold violence is a very hurtful way. You can tell her that you don't like him or love him, choose to be together, and then leave. Instead of always torturing him with this cold violence, let him break up.

Be honest and don't hurt others. Everyone is the baby of the family. You can't hurt others selfishly without knowing it. You can give up a relationship, but you can't hurt someone. Don't hurt the people who love you because of your cowardice.

That's my answer.