Why do I say I won't get married just because I don't want to find someone to mess with each other, but I'm laughed at?

For most people's cognition, getting married and having children is a very important thing in a person's life, and it is also a thing that must be experienced. When these people know that you don't want to get married and you don't want to find someone to mess with each other, they will think that your ideas are a little beyond their cognition, so you will feel laughed at. In fact, it's just that people have different ideas about marriage. Because they can't understand your thoughts any more than you can understand theirs.

First of all, for many people now, not getting married is a very good choice, especially those who are withdrawn and like to be alone. Living alone will make them feel happier. If you find someone you don't particularly like, it will make your life a mess. For such people, not getting married will make them better off.

Of course, from another perspective, many people choose not to get married because they have not met the person they really like. The essence of love is this. When you don't meet the right person, you will feel that others are very disdainful and prefer your life. But if you really meet a lover who makes you willing to pay for him, your view of marriage will take a 180 turn in an instant. This is also the reason why many people choose not to get married at first and finally go to the marriage hall.

In addition, there is a very realistic problem, that is, people actually need a partner all their lives. No matter how strong and capable a person is, he needs a helper. This is true in business and in life. When you are still at a very young stage, you can't understand this demand. Only when you enter that period will you feel that you really need a partner.