What is admirable about Kong Rong? Why? Ask god for help

Kong Rong let the story of pear spread for thousands of years, and his modesty is regarded as the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation. This story is not strong, but it is very instructive. When I was a child, I didn't understand, so I listened. Now I have a daughter who is a story fan. Once I read this story to her, the more I thought about it, the less interesting it became. Instead, it became an education for her daughter not to let pears. I haven't carefully read the original source of the story of Kong Rong Jean Pear. Please give me some advice. Textual research is not my intention. However, according to what Kong Rong did later, it fits Kong Rong's character. (Chen Shou in Kong Rong didn't write much, only left a name. It is not unreasonable to say that one year old looks down on small and three years old looks down on big. The story of Kong Rong making pears is worth pondering. First of all, does Kong Rong really want to eat small pears? There is a joke: A school made an investigation about why Kong Rong let pears, and the answers were: This is a bad pear. Kong Rong can't eat it because of his stomach upset, and wants to be famous. In addition to the above reasons, Kong Rong definitely wants to eat big pears, but why did he choose small pears? Of course, we can't know what he thinks, and the reason given by Kong Rong isn't because he can't snack on pears. The fact is that he did not choose according to his true wishes, but made a "correct" choice from the moral level, and the result of this choice was that Kong Rong's father was very happy; Secondly, Kong Rong gave the big pear to his younger brother. Kong Rong was four years old (actually only three years old according to the current algorithm). How old is Kong Rong's brother? I don't know if such a small person can eat such a big pear. As for whether it fell off after eating, it is even more impossible to know whether it is diarrhea (pear is cold and cold, and overeating hurts the spleen and stomach). Let's analyze it, and we can see why I said this story is in line with Kong Rong's character. First of all, Kong Rong didn't really want a small pear, but was required to do so by morality. What did Kong Rong do when he was a magistrate of Beihai? "Worship learning-show Confucianism" "The country has no descendants, and the dead in all directions are buried as coffins". And why did Kong Rong offend Cao Cao, causing this "Han thief" to turn against him? "Nature again? Cool, quite pushing the meaning of life, humiliating Mao. On the day when Mao banned wine making, he melted into Zhao: "People come for wine virtue, and Yao can't be a saint without drinking for thousands of minutes." ".When Kong Rong was in Beihai, the world was in chaos, the Han Dynasty declined, and wars at home and abroad continued. There is nothing wrong with Kong Rong's ambition not to dominate the world, but at least your old man has made his people live a peaceful life, while Kong Rong has not. He is busy setting an example and telling everyone that to be a virtuous person, it is important for the living to clean up the dead before leaving, regardless of whether there is food in their stomachs or whether their lives are guaranteed. There is a tendency that "starvation is a trivial matter, but dishonor is a major matter". Why did Kong Rong take refuge in Cao Cao in the first year of Jian 'an? First, of course, it is also acclimatized and has nowhere to live; Second, of course, it is aimed at Han Xiandi. You see, I'm still thinking about morality In the end, Kong Rong was still dishonest in Cao Cao's hands, especially when Kong Rong knew that the hope of the revival of the Han Dynasty could not be in Cao Cao's hands, so he simply had a hard time with Cao Cao. In the 12th year of Jian 'an, Cao Cao banned alcohol in order to cope with food shortage, but Kong Rong said a lot. In short, wine is not a problem, but talent is a problem. Cao Cao had not completely turned against him at that time, and even wrote back. The sense of compulsory morality gave Kong Rong a large number of followers, but it also left Kong Rong with nowhere to live and was finally beheaded. Secondly, giving my younger brother a big pear, whether he eats it or not shows that this person can't judge the situation and manage it. "The people he hired who were curious and took differences were ignorant of talents." He was in the county for eight years, and he was only exempt from the body. ""It was at the beginning of the world, when Cao and Yuan did not share power, they were well informed and knew nothing about current affairs. " It can be said that Kong Rong can't write in Chinese, and neither can martial arts. Such people, in peacetime, write poems and essays, which can be regarded as a good person to entertain the public, but when the world is in chaos, they really have nowhere to live. When Cao Cao was not fully established, he certainly needed people like Kong Rong to put on a show, but when he was "carefree", he began to show his true colors. Let's take a look at Kong Rong in Cao Cao's Seeking Talented Persons. Of course, Cao Cao attaches importance to morality, but he also needs to have both ability and political integrity, otherwise he would rather have talented people than virtuous people. This man is always interfering in government decrees and gossiping every day. It's unbearable. So, waiting for Kong Rong to only die, and die in disgrace, and knocking on the "immoral" toilet for this most moral person, really pisses me off. In fact, even if Kong Rong has been speaking out against Cao Cao, it is impossible for Kong Rong's talent to cause any disturbance. If Cao Cao kills him, he really doesn't see any benefit except showing his virtue. Kong Rong's status is equivalent to that of a free intellectual, and his fate is the most pitiful, as always. I said a lot to make the consequences of pears look good at the time, but they looked bad later. It is very uncomfortable for a child not to make an honest choice first, and then to deliberately please others. Perhaps humility is not a virtue, but honesty is the most important virtue.