Why don’t some women learn a lesson after being cheated?

1. People who are defrauded of money are often greedy for petty gains, and end up "gathering sesame seeds and losing watermelon".

Do you often hear that people have been cheated, especially the elderly? When someone yells at a liar, don’t ask yourself why you were deceived?

I once wrote a joke: a very serious and responsible security administrator discovered that a liar had come to the community, and he had a history of cheating before. And he also saw the liar approaching a fool, who was not thinking clearly and could not speak clearly. The security guard was very anxious. He ran over and said loudly to the liar, "Don't bully a fool. He is so pitiful. How can you be so vicious." The liar smiled and said, "I have been cheating all my life and I have never deceived a fool, because They are not greedy and don’t want anything I give them.”

Looking at the old people who were deceived, most of them were organized by the scammers and told everyone that they could give out gifts. Well, everyone took the gifts. , I was very happy, but then things gradually changed. The old man’s heart was led by the liar, and the money slowly flowed into the liar’s pocket. Maybe it was a gift of a few cents that cost the old man hundreds of dollars. This is not a joke, it is reality.

Therefore, most of the people who are deceived are greedy people who think they can "make money", but in fact they have set a trap for themselves, getting in and unable to get out.

2. Some women who have been deeply hurt by love are often greedy for petty gains because "sweet words" are too tempting.

Sentiment is always hurt by ruthlessness. I always think that women who are deceived are very pitiful. In fact, many women are not careful. When love comes, you are overwhelmed by happiness. With a few "kind words" from a man, the woman is coaxed into thinking that she has easily met a "high-quality man", and she can't tell the difference between east, west and north.

Those who are in charge are confused, but those who watch are clear. Others have told women that a man is not sincere towards you. He just gives you some small things to coax you. He has no real plans to marry you, nor will he buy a house. He shows very few acts of love. But "good advice is offensive to the ears" and women don't listen.

Because women covet the good sounds of "sweet words" and feel the elation of happiness, they believe it to be true. However, they do not know that love is proven by actions. Those men who are sincere are mostly clumsy-tongued, or speak straightforwardly, and are too real, which causes women to dislike them.

Educate yourself and gain wisdom. Many women only understand after being hurt that they should cherish the person who is angry with you, the person who doesn't say nice things to you, the person who is jealous of you... Anyway, he is not a person who "all talks and does not do anything" .

3. People who take advantage of others will not make a big fortune in the end, and will suffer retribution if they over-calculate.

A gentleman carries his wealth with kindness. If you are not kind and always plot against others, even if you get some small favors, you will not become a great person. You must know that if you do something that goes against your conscience, you will be punished.

Man’s calculations are not as good as God’s calculations. Whoever you plan against, you will never be able to figure out God’s calculations. Everything you do must be carefully scrutinized by the law and may bring you jail time, and you will eventually be repaid with interest.

I remember watching a short video that told a story that made people think deeply. A driver had two bills under his tires but pretended not to know. A passerby saw the money and his eyes widened when he saw it, so he negotiated with the driver and asked the driver to go to the neighborhood to find his friend, and described his friend's appearance very realistically. So the driver collected a few yuan for the fare and drove off. The passers-by thought that the car drove away and left the two pieces of money. They exchanged the small money for the big money and made a profit. Little did they know that "the truth is as high as the devil", so the two pieces of money were firmly stuck to the tires and drove away with the car.

We are all familiar with the stories of "stealing chicken but losing rice" and "not eating the mutton and causing a mess". They are about people who are greedy for petty gains and ends up being fooled by "themselves" .

Remember: people have many calculations, but God only has one calculation. If you are greedy for petty gains, you will suffer big losses. If you take advantage of your friends, they will distance themselves from you; if you are wishful thinking for yourself, no matter how much you love you, the people who love you will feel cold; if you buy things cheaply, you will probably not get good products; if you cheat on your relatives, you will also cut off the relationship.

When you scheme against others, what you get is just a small profit, but what you lose is your character and morality; what you covet may not be needed, and getting it is also a burden.

The human heart is like a steelyard. It is clear what is right and what is wrong. Don’t be greedy for petty advantages. Why bother harming others and yourself?