Why is it more difficult for women to get promoted than men?

As a woman, if she wants to gain a foothold in society and start her own career, she must pay a lot. The reason is the spread of China's traditional idea that men are the masters outside and women are the masters inside. Many families will do their best to provide education for their sons, but let their daughters give up their studies. Therefore, men are knowledgeable and women are timid. Think about what is going on now, one child at a time, and the daughter finally gets the same status and rights as the son, which lays the foundation that in the 2 1 century, women will guide the country like men. But looking around, in any enterprise, there are still very few leading cadres above the white-collar level. It is often said that a man's success is the success of his career, and behind every successful man there is a perfect woman. A woman's success must be her career and family, but often behind a successful woman is a broken family. Why? First of all, let's talk about the reasons why it is difficult for women to be promoted in the company: 1. Women lack long-term goals and persistence. Usually, an ordinary woman will put her career second. Because women still have the mentality that "a wife is more valuable than her husband", as long as my husband can do well and succeed, isn't that my success? My responsibility is to be a good wife and mother, so that my husband has no worries. I just need to get by in my career and work. It is difficult to work overtime and travel, and I often take time off because of something at home. Often a woman can't give up the role of maternal love; Maybe the child is still nursing, maybe the child needs to make up lessons at school, or maybe the elderly at home are unwell and need to be taken care of. The role of wife may also make a woman have to give up many opportunities under the pressure of her husband. I don't know what to do with overtime and housework. How to arrange it? If you have to socialize, go out to dress up and go home as drunk as a fiddler, you may get angry at home. I don't know my limit. Compared with men, women's understanding of themselves is often higher than the actual level, and they don't know where their shortcomings are. It is difficult for women to accept other people's advice because it is unpleasant. So in order to cater to others, they may give us praise and praise, making them feel that I am a very good person. Therefore, we often inadvertently reveal our sense of superiority, say something we shouldn't say and do something we shouldn't do. It is also very likely that we have offended people before we know it. It is easy to bring personal and family problems to the workplace. If no one takes the children on vacation, they may go to work with their mother. I quarreled with my husband last night, so I may find some better colleagues to cry at work. Because of lovelorn, my boyfriend will come to the company and affect the office. Needless to say, leaders need to comfort and make peace softly. I also met a colleague, because of stock trading at home, who transferred money around the company with a phone during the day. You still can't stop her, or she will cry and ask you for money. 5, good gossip "gossip" is a good thing to describe women. There is also a saying, "the life of three women." Watch the fun. Women are kind by nature, like to compare and gossip, and more like to pry into other people's privacy. Coupled with their rich imagination and self-righteousness, they embellish everything and become a hobby. If it is not stopped and guided, the working atmosphere can be imagined. 6. Women who are afraid of taking risks often dare not take on heavy responsibilities, because they are afraid of losing their jobs, making mistakes, losing face and becoming the laughing stock of others. At a critical moment, people are often confused and at a loss. 7. I won't stick to my ideas. Many people say that girls are stubborn. No matter to my boyfriend or husband, I will stick to it and never give in. However, when facing outsiders, business affairs, especially important company meetings, women often give up their opinions and listen to others' ideas. Even if you don't agree with me, you will keep your manners at the meeting, but when you leave the meeting room, you will criticize and complain. 8. Women who are not good at communication are cautious, but they are easy to be arrogant, sharp and mean. They often set off other people's scars and constantly sprinkle salt. Otherwise, I am too shy to express my opinion. These are deadly killers in communication. 9. Women attack and destroy each other. In fact, a woman's greatest enemy is a woman. I have seen many TV movies and novels, and there are many such things. Men's attacks on women can be felt, while women's attacks on women are silent and choppy. I really don't understand why women can see Mr. Renhe's success, but they are still upset about the people who are women with them. ! Maybe this is the so-called "jealousy"! Wow! Look at these nine counts and judge that we women are so unworthy. But if you think back, is there a similar scene around you? Let's study how to face this problem together.