The first time I went home with my boyfriend to meet my future in-laws, I decided to return the 10000 red envelope after hearing their conversation. Why?

I went to my boyfriend's house for the first time. After the rest in the evening, the family sat in the living room and began to talk about me. And according to my boyfriend's parents, I'm not too satisfied with my future daughter-in-law.

My boyfriend is allowed to take me home and treat me according to the etiquette of the guests because of their son's face.

After hearing this, I couldn't sleep that night, and I still didn't want to climb such a family.

I originally planned a three-day trip, but I found an excuse to leave early the next morning, and then I returned the 1000 yuan red envelope that his mother gave me through my boyfriend.

Sincerely, it is not suitable for all couples. In the eyes of outsiders, I don't know if I am lucky or not, and I refused a marriage that should be good. However, the reason may only be understood and understood by me as a party.

The first time I went home with my boyfriend of five years, I overheard the conversation between her boyfriend and her in-laws. Although I didn't fully understand the content of their chat, I also understood a 7788.

From the time we fell in love in college, I learned from my boyfriend that his parents didn't agree with us being together.

On the one hand, the reason is that they think their son is excellent and both parents have fixed jobs. I feel that my rural background is not worthy of their children, and family conditions will also drag down their children.

On the other hand, the reason is that we belong to a long-distance relationship, and the two families are thousands of miles apart. Such a distance made my boyfriend's parents reluctant to let him take me home for a long time.

Many times I want to give up this relationship, although my feelings are fine. But being caught in the middle by her boyfriend, her feelings have not been recognized by her parents for many years. I am very lost in my heart.

Every time I talk to my boyfriend, he will comfort me and tell me that he has been doing his parents' work. When they see our true feelings, they will slowly let go.

I also blame myself for not being firm inside. Every time I make up my mind, I quickly compromise under the persuasion of my boyfriend.

And I always believe in my heart that my relationship with my boyfriend will one day impress my future parents-in-law and make them recognize me.

In this way, they stayed together for five years, and finally "flowers bloom and flowers fall to see the moon" and were successfully invited to their home.

The first time I went to my boyfriend's house, I overheard an embarrassing chat, and his parents had a bad impression of me before, so I was a little uneasy.

After asking her boyfriend about the preferences of the two old people, she also "cut meat" for half a month and prepared gifts for the two old people.

After arriving in the city where his home is located, he bought fruits, some nutrients and vegetables from the supermarket and went to his boyfriend's house.

When I got home, my boyfriend's parents were very enthusiastic, which made me begin to fantasize about the family living together after marriage.

Although his parents wouldn't let me work, they rushed to do a lot of work in order to impress their parents.

Before going to bed at night, his mother came to the room and gave me a big red envelope.

It all looks so beautiful. If I hadn't heard their family chatting, I think I might have been so happy all the time!

Because I was too excited and idealistic, I stayed in bed for an hour and still didn't feel sleepy.

Calm down and vaguely hear the conversation outside. Maybe I don't understand their dialect, or maybe I fell asleep outside, so I didn't hesitate to say me. I am still sleeping in the next room.

After five years with my boyfriend, I can understand their dialect, but I can probably understand seven or eight points.

Listening to his parents, I have some dissatisfaction with my daughter-in-law. My hospitality at home, in many places, does not match their living habits at home.

After dinner, I picked up some dishes that should have been dumped, thinking that the next meal could be eaten while it was hot.

However, at home, they don't seem to like eating leftovers. Especially the dishes served to guests, many people will throw them away directly after moving chopsticks.

And I put these dishes away, which is tantamount to destroying the living habits of their family. Maybe I was worried that I would do the same when I got married, and I started talking about me behind my back.

I made up my mind to return the red envelope. Thinking of my parents' entrustment before I went to visit my boyfriend made me feel that my parents' education was right.

A lot of leftovers are directly dumped. This kind of behavior is impossible in my hometown. If my elders see it, they will definitely scold it.

Listening to what they said about me, my family was very unhappy because of my boyfriend's unhappiness, and the chat topic ended with the change of atmosphere.

Also this time, I came to you, which made me pick up the determination to separate again. We originally agreed to go out to play together the next day and see where my boyfriend grew up.

Finally, because of this situation, I canceled my plan to play. After dinner the next morning, I said that the company had something urgent to deal with and asked me to go back.

When my boyfriend came back, I had a heart-to-heart chat with him for a long time, and finally felt that they were not suitable and did not accept his retention.

Before we parted, I returned the red envelope that his mother gave me to my boyfriend intact and asked him to take me back to menstruation's home.

It's really important to get married. I quit my job and went back to the provincial capital city where my hometown is located. In order to cut off contact with my boyfriend, I changed my mobile phone number.

In my opinion, there is nothing wrong with people coming out of our countryside, and of course there is nothing wrong with people in the city.

The difference between the two is only that the family environment and conditions are different, and the corresponding living habits are also different.

There are still some difficulties and gaps between these two classes if they want to live together for a long time.

In order to avoid the embarrassment of married life and the contradictions at that time, I chose to escape and give up to pursue a new life that suits me.