1987, Xiaohua found Gong Li's love letter in Zhang Yimou's clothes. What does it say?

The most impressive scene when watching Mo Wen West East is the memory of Xu Bochang and Liu Shufen playing the piano and singing when they were young.

They once loved each other with equal vision, knowledge and status.

For an uncertain future, Liu Shufen is willing to work for Xu Bo to go to college.

However, after Xu Bochang finished college and became a teacher, he was unwilling to fulfill his original promise.

With the growth of his vision, his love is no longer limited to ordinary worker Liu Shufen, but he can stay where he is, but he can't wake up. Her world is still only Xu Bochang when she was young.

Finally, another tragedy ended in Liu Shufen's suicide by jumping into a well.

A similar love tragedy happened in film and television works?

As the saying goes, "drama is like life, and life is like drama." Realistic scripts are probably more exaggerated than plays.

The hero we are going to talk about today is a sad woman with Liu Shufen's plays, Zhang Yimou's ex-wife, Xiao Hua.

0 1、

Xiao Hua was born in a good family, and his parents are intellectuals, who work in government agencies. In contrast, Zhang Yimou, who was born in a bad family, always felt particularly inferior when he was young.

1968 educated youth went to the countryside to publicize the special fire, and Zhang Yimou invited Xiao Hua to go to the countryside to jump the queue with her. Although Xiao Hua could feel the affection between them, he was afraid of the unknown rural life and even more afraid of being abandoned by Zhang Yimou in a strange country, so he wrote a cruel letter and refused him.

Unexpectedly, Zhang Yimou, who is mature and steady, showed a strong degree in this matter, which Xiao Hua did not expect. He complained in his letter,

"The pain in my heart can't be expressed with a pen! All this, how I hope to get your understanding and friendship! "

The spirit expressed in this letter directly hits the softest place in Xiaohua's heart. Xiao Hua of "Seeds of Love" was moved by this letter, with tears streaming down her face and sobbing, so she ran desperately to Zhang Yimou's house and agreed to his request.

02、

Life in the countryside is not as poetic as advertised, but it is not as miserable as written in educated youth novels. For Xiao Hua, this is just another way of real life. During this period, her relationship with Zhang Yimou developed rapidly.

Xiaohua tried to distance herself from Zhang Yimou, but she fell in love involuntarily. Here, they cook, work, wash clothes and raise dogs together. ......

At that time, Zhang Yimou's dirty clothes were washed by Xiao Hualai, and they had to be mended if they were broken. Whenever she sews socks for Zhang Yimou with her neck crooked, classmate Li Guangping will laugh at her. She was sad, but not because she was laughed at, but because she was distressed that Zhang Yimou was wearing these shabby and uncomfortable socks.

On one occasion, Xiao Hua bought him a pair of men's nylon stockings, and Zhang Yimou was moved for a long time without saying anything. Finally, he just said, "This sock feels really smooth and shiny, and it's really comfortable to wear ..."

Xiaohua began to cry as soon as she heard it, and her heart was trembling. She thought to herself, "You are too bitter. You must be wearing nylon stockings for the first time, otherwise you won't feel so meticulous. I will take good care of you and love you. "

Perhaps a simple woman's love for a man is always a little "sympathy" and "motherhood". It is in this complex mood that Xiao Hua gradually fell into this heavy emotion, getting deeper and deeper.

03、

1970, Xiaohua's health is getting worse and worse, and she has hepatitis. Zhang Yimou not only earnestly advised her to see a doctor, but also accompanied her back to Xi 'an for examination, taking care of her very carefully.

At this time, Zhang Yimou made a careful machine. He brought back many injections from the hospital and gave Xiaohua injections regularly. When someone is in the room, he slaps his arm, and when no one is in the room, he spanks. He also deliberately enlightened Xiao Hua, saying, "The buttock muscle area is large, which is well absorbed and takes effect quickly. In the hospital, men, women and children are spanking in order to cure diseases. "

When they were in the country, they had a good relationship. The only time Zhang Yimou fought with anyone was for Xiao Hua. Because his companion said something about Xiao Hua behind his back, Zhang Yimou couldn't help it. Xiaohua is very sad, but also deeply moved.

As for Xiao Hua's meticulous care for Zhang Yimou, the family gives her 10 yuan of nutrition every month, which she seldom uses. She always used it on Zhang Yimou in different ways, trying not to hurt Zhang Yimou's self-esteem.

Lovers who love each other are always immersed in a beautiful world and willing to pay for each other. However, when this feeling is silent, the contradictions and waves hidden under the abyss will be pulled out one by one.

04、

Zhang Yimou fell in love with photography. Xiao Hua borrowed many books related to photography from teachers and college students he knew, and together with him, he saved money for more than two years to buy him his first camera.

She always unreservedly supports Zhang Yimou in pursuing the career she loves, but puts her ideal in the second place.

When Xiao Hua had the chance to go to college, Zhang Yimou felt very heavy and depressed. Because of his background, Zhang Yimou always feels particularly inferior in front of Xiao Hua. He said angrily:

"Why do you want to go to school, now the school, what can you learn? After studying for three years, what will it be like after three years. By then, our relationship will definitely be over. "

Xiaohua was very angry with Zhang Yimou's statement, but when he saw his painful appearance, he couldn't help but relent. Seeing that Zhang Yimou was afraid of her leaving and was sad, Xiao Hua suddenly felt a little moved and secretly defended him. "Don't be too sad, I won't marry any university, and I won't mention it again."

After the college entrance examination system was restored, Xiaohua's idea of going to school surged again, but as long as she thought of Zhang Yimou's painful voice, she once again dismissed this enthusiasm and expectation.

No matter how passionate you are, you should not give up your life because of the other half. Unfortunately, Xiao Hua, who was still young at that time, didn't understand this truth.

05、

In fact, there were other boys pursuing Xiao Hua at that time, but Xiao Hua betrayed his parents regardless of their parents' opposition and insisted on staying with Zhang Yimou. To some extent, it is not too much to say that he "married".

Persuaded by her sister and brother-in-law, Xiaohua's parents finally accepted Zhang Yimou. And with the help of Xiao Hua's brother-in-law, Zhang Yimou was admitted to the Beijing Film Academy.

But what happened later, inevitably fell on me. Zhang Yimou's talent was gradually discovered, but Xiao Hua became a yellow-faced woman who lived in the countryside for a long time. Zhang Yimou's male chauvinism began to appear one by one.

Originally, the husband and wife have been living in their parents-in-law's house, and Xiaohua's parents help to look after the children, and they are also very supportive of Zhang Yimou's career. However, Zhang Yimou deliberately said in the factory that she was unhappy in her parents-in-law's house and often quarreled, demanding a house immediately.

After moving into the new house, Zhang Yimou found that Xiao Hua still kept the letters when he was in love, so he urged Xiao Hua to burn all the letters and take back the bloody book he wrote that year. But Xiaohua doesn't want to give it up. He only burned the letters from the countryside and the factory period, and kept the letter that Zhang Yimou went to school for four years.

At that time, after Xiaohua had an abortion operation, Zhang Yimou only took care of it for one day and went out to work, leaving Xiaohua who had just had an abortion. She has to take care of herself and her little daughter, which is very sad.

But these frictions in life did not completely destroy Xiao Hua. What really broke her down was a letter from a woman.

06、

1987, Xiao Hua habitually washed Zhang Yimou's clothes, but took out a letter from his pocket, which read:

"You left and took my heart ... I want to get married and hope to get a reply. When we are together, you are so cute in my arms! We have endless words and things together. Haha, do you know what we can't finish? "

To this, Zhang Yimou directly admitted, and said in a calm tone, "this matter didn't want to hide from you. It happened several times after arriving in Ningxia. "

Zhang Yimou was afraid that his career would be ruined by this scandal, and his mood was extremely decadent. Xiao Hua, who was originally a victim, felt sorry for him again, and actively advised him to go to bed early and not to compete with his body.

If this letter started the tragedy, then a strange phone call a few days later will completely puncture the illusion of plain life and expose the dense lice under the robe of gorgeous marriage.

Xiaohua received a phone call from Gong Li's ex-boyfriend Yang.

"Did you know that Zhang Yimou came back from Hawaii?"

"I know."

"Zhang Yimou went to see her as soon as he came back, and they were not seen for two days. He bought her a lot of cosmetics and jewels. When you meet Zhang Yimou, ask him. I heard that your lover is very good. Do you deserve her? Zhang Yimou said that you and he jumped the queue in the countryside completely misunderstood ... "

Although Xiaohua didn't mean to hear Zhang Yimou's good words from him, this sentence still stung her heart, and she suffered from angina pectoris for several days.

It turns out that the beautiful years and sincere feelings of those three years in the countryside were just a misunderstanding in Zhang Yimou's eyes. Those memories that you think are precious, only you are deeply involved.

Finally, Xiao Hua agreed to Zhang Yimou's divorce request, and a once happy marriage came to an end, leaving only scars.

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A good relationship must be that two people go hand in hand, hand in hand, not that one side gives in unconditionally and the other side accepts without a bottom line.

So, what gender knowledge can we learn from this failed marriage as ordinary people? Let's discuss it together.

First, marriage is essentially a transaction.

As Ma Yili said, "Love is easy, but marriage is not. Do it and cherish it. " It is always easy to be carried away by love when you are in love, but since you choose to enter the marriage hall, you must take a long-term view. If you lengthen the timeline, the person in front of you will be evenly matched with you. Can you join hands with you for life?

Second, love yourself first and never give up self-growth.

As the online buzzword says, "The establishment of marriage relationship between two people includes lifelong companionship, continuous growth and mutual pursuit from beginning to end. This is a constant state of constant change. " When the other person asks you to give up growth for him, you should be alert: this feeling has faded away from the dizziness of love, what is left?