What is the distress of rural neighbors that makes them laugh and cry the most?

I think the most embarrassing thing for rural neighbors overnight is that no children bring their own children and then come out to compare with other people's children. I think this is what people often do in rural areas. Those aunts often compare their children with others and then praise how good their children are, or how good men and women are, but there has been a problem in the countryside for many years.