Will rural people be laughed at by their neighbors without boys? Isn't it good to have two daughters? You didn't eat at his house?

Personally, I think whether rural people without boys will be laughed at by their neighbors depends on their quality. If neighbors are of high quality, no boys will laugh at others. If neighbors are poor in quality, they are likely to laugh at others for not having boys.

I study the issues concerning agriculture, countryside and farmers, and often go to the countryside for research. I found in the countryside that the feudal traditional concept of rural people was serious in the past. I think there are three kinds of unfilial, farmers must have boys, and only when they have boys can they carry on the family line. Therefore, at that time, farmers' preference for boys was very serious. However, with the development of the times, the concept of rural people has changed. Nowadays, in many rural areas, the concept of son preference is very weak. In the minds of many farmers, boys and girls are the same. Some farmers even want to have girls. Because they think it's a heavy burden to have a boy in the future. For example, when a boy goes to college, he must buy a house and get married after graduation. It costs a lot to buy a house and get married, and some villagers simply can't afford the cost of buying a house and getting married for boys.

Once I was investigating in a village and asked several old people in the village whether their son was good to you or their daughter was good to you. As a result, several old people told me that my daughter was very kind to him. An old man told me that his son was good to him when he was unmarried and bad to him after he got married. He thought that the reason for his son's deterioration was his daughter-in-law.

Personally, I think that if a farmer has two daughters, then the farmer is blessed. When the daughter grows up and marries, the farmers will enjoy the happiness. As for the dowry, he gives more if he has more money, and less if he has less money. After his daughter gave birth to a child, he basically didn't have to worry about it because her daughter had in-laws. Under normal circumstances, a daughter's children are taken care of by her in-laws.

However, if a farmer gives birth to two sons, his life may not be easy. If both sons have graduated from college, where will the money for buying a house and getting married come from? If farmers only earn money by farming and working, it is unrealistic to buy a house for their two sons. To say the least, the two sons stayed in their hometown in the countryside even if they didn't go to college. Then after the two sons get married and have children in the future, the farmer will take care of their children. Once he has to take care of the children of his two sons, he can't go out to work to make money, so he must ask his two sons for money. If the two sons have good economic conditions, they can give more money. If the economic conditions of the two sons are not good, then the money given will not be much, which will easily lead to contradictions.

For example, my sister married to a village in Guangzhou. The first child gave birth to a daughter, but the husband couldn't lift his head. He always said that his daughter was good and his second child gave birth to a son. Now his voice is so loud that no one talks about him behind his back. But I just gave birth to two daughters. Where the hell have I been? Especially my relatives always say when the third child will give birth to a son. This is a gift from God, and sons and daughters have no choice. Why emphasize the son?

At least not in my hometown.

My family is from the countryside, two sisters. Growing up, I have never heard anyone say that I look down on us girls.

My sister is 75 and I am 80.

My parents didn't say that.

Neither did grandma.

No neighbors.

In the past, there was no fence between my house and my neighbor on the left, forming a big yard.

Our three families are all daughters, and they are all only daughters.

Neighbors only have daughters.

There are only daughters in the two houses behind my house.

Our group, just our group, has a daughter born after 40. After 50, nine families only have daughters. After 60, 8 families have only daughters. After 70, seven families only have daughters.

Not after 80.

How many families are there in a group? Who makes fun of who? Everyone has long been used to it.

Moreover, the status of girls in Sichuan has always been very high.

My mother told me that my father never said that he must have a boy. My father never told us that we were girls when he was a child, let alone complained in front of my mother that we only had daughters.

His ideas represent those of many families in our neighborhood.

I have four uncles, three of whom have only daughters.

My uncle once wanted to have a daughter, so he bought pants for his cousin and girls' pants to go home. Fortunately, they were my age and gave them to me.

Cousin often says he wants to trade with me and doesn't want to be a son at his uncle's house.

Therefore, no boy will be looked down upon and does not exist.

On the contrary, there is a family with two sons in our group, but they are laughed at. Because he is a close relative, both sons are crazy. Once his youngest son almost strangled him.

His eldest son disappeared more than 20 years ago.

It is said that in other counties and cities, he got sick and molested women and was thrown into the river.

He didn't ask either.

He has two sons. Is he proud? He is not proud at all.

In the end, he relied on his daughter to support his family, and her daughter married at home.

Everyone says it's a good thing to have his daughter.

People can only be looked down upon by themselves, not by outsiders. Many people are very concerned about others' preference for boys, but in fact they are very concerned.

Therefore, people who advocate "it is good to have a daughter" are actually patriarchal, fearing that others will think that she misses her son. They subconsciously feel that the burden of raising their daughters is light and they don't have to buy a house or a car.

I really don't think it's good to raise a daughter.

My dad is a real man who doesn't value boys over girls. That's why he never said it's good to raise his daughter in front of us. He will only love me and my sister with practical actions.

So when asked why many people want to have sons, they will say, "Having sons will not be looked down upon."

Dear, in today's society, people who have no money will look down on you. I don't see you trying to make money. If you don't have a degree, you will be looked down upon. I haven't seen you study hard.

There is a family in our village, all sons, who are feuds with us. I once quarreled with my sister, who had just given birth to a baby and was a daughter. The old man said that all our families are girls.

My sister replied directly: "There are many girls in my family, but at least there are men. There are no women in your family, only monks. "

The wife died, the eldest son divorced, the second son divorced, the eldest son gave birth to a son, and the younger son gave birth to a son.

During the Spring Festival dinner, several men sat around a table.

He was ashamed.

What about the pride of having a son?

I'm Ye Yuqian. Whether to have a son or not depends mainly on your own wishes. Whether you prefer boys to girls is the most important thing.

On the other hand, people live a long life now. Even if your generation has a son, you still think you can stand up. What about the next generation? Can you guarantee that your next generation will be children and grandchildren? Then won't you be more annoyed? Maybe you will regret finding your son for nothing!

And those who laugh at you, can they guarantee that their sons will have sons?

Let nature take its course and let others talk.

Really can't. I'll teach you a few tricks to swear.

Don't swear.

There were no boys in the countryside before. Not only did others laugh, but they also felt inferior to others. Traditionally, there is no boy who cannot carry on the family line, so he is called an orphan. Rural people are particularly concerned about this. In recent years, young people's attitudes have changed, and they all feel that it doesn't matter whether they have boys or girls or provide for the elderly. It doesn't matter anymore, and there will be no jokes.

I have seen many people say that if a boy is not born in the countryside, he will be bullied and looked down upon. It's hard for me to understand. I also grew up in the countryside. I have never seen anyone discriminate against others because of having a daughter. At this age, rural people are making progress in their thinking. Many families in our village have only one daughter, not one. Moreover, they do what they want and care what others say.

In our local cities and rural areas, there are relatively few people who prefer boys to girls, especially in rural areas. Some have a second child, and some don't. Now, people with two daughters feel that they are making big profits and benefiting a lot.

My country classmate lives in a remote place. There are three students and two babies, all of whom are daughters. Among them: two are neighbors, living in front of and behind the house. Students who live in front, two daughters, a college student and a graduate student. The eldest daughter got married, and the couple each opened an appliance store in Liaoning, a neighboring city. I bought urban social security for my father in the country, and my classmates also bought social security for my wife. I also pay 6000 yuan of commercial insurance every year. I don't farm, I only grow ginseng. The second daughter graduated from graduate school this year and her job has been signed in Shandong. There is still money at home ... this is the envy of neighbors.

There are two daughters in the backyard. The eldest daughter has a good business in Qingdao, and the second daughter also goes to the elder sister's house to help. My classmate is almost 60, and it is too far to learn driving in the countryside. Her eldest daughter gave him 200 thousand to buy a car.

Another female classmate, two daughters, is even worse. She has been studying, and one has gone abroad to study. Their husband and wife started early and ran for n years by bus. Now raising ginseng, planting trees, and logging licenses make a lot of money every year. The eldest daughter is in Chongqing ICBC and the second daughter is in Qingdao Commercial Bank. Now she is stationed in Japan. ...

Last time I went, my classmates were still chatting on the hot kang. They said that their neighbors have six daughters, and now they all give money, and the old people are getting older every day. ...

My parents always attached great importance to teaching, because they were sent to the countryside. At that time, some students rode bicycles and walked dozens of miles to school. I go to junior high school in the countryside, and my classmates are in Liaoning. Our classmates were all born in 58-65. Some students worked in the fields for several years and then went back to school. Therefore, my rural classmates finished junior high school and senior high school. Admitted to technical secondary school and junior college.

My rural classmates are now able to scientifically farm and raise ginseng, asarum, Fritillaria, raspberry and so on. And they are hard-working and their children fly out of the ravine because of heavy education. There is a male classmate who wants to have a child. It is a boy. He graduated from the military academy and got married last year. He is responsible for his food, shelter and children. ...

Those who didn't go to college also chose vocational schools, some even repaired their watches, went to the rural market to bake egg cakes, and opened online stores, but only a few. The northeast is so good, I'll provide it to you wherever you can read it. That's what my parents said. I am the eldest daughter of my family. When I was a child, I went to school. My mother won't let me work except to see my brothers and sisters. I don't even have to cook, so I just learned to steam steamed bread now ...

Prefer boys to girls in rural areas, by region. A few years ago, I heard that a foreigner collected and picked up waste products. She said that she was 42 years old and didn't study all day. She can't write her own name, and she needs her husband to accompany her every time she comes to the Northeast. Because they live in my mother's old bungalow. Really surprised. ...

Gone are the days when neighbors talked about everything. In winter, students play cards and mahjong in the chess club. They say the gathering place of rare things: the barber shop in the country. More than a dozen students in my country often get together, help each other, fish and kill pigs, and sometimes call me …

As long as you are rich, no one laughs at you if you have children, but laziness and poverty make people laugh. ...

Make your own decisions, and nothing others say will affect your lifestyle.

Only recently did I know that some people think that having a boy at home is a face.

However, now a boy is born in the countryside, and all kinds of things, big and small, have to be done, all of which cost money, from birth to school to marriage and having children.

On our side, I don't know how many people envy other people's two daughters. They are very considerate and don't have to worry about the bride price of the house and car.

Besides, it doesn't matter much whether the child is good or not. You know whether the child is good or not.

In the face of those who can't eat grapes and say that grapes are sour, we can laugh it off the first time, ignore it the second time and choke back the third time.

Just like I have two dogs at home. People always say that my mother has nothing to do with raising so many dogs when she is full. Although my mother was persecuted by me.

But she still told me, "I just can't listen to what others say, I haven't eaten his food, and I haven't sinned against him." Although I think dogs are bad, I just can't listen to what others say. " I'll scold her next time. "

How about us, live high? Where do you need comments? We are most afraid of living for ourselves, but living in other people's voices has become a "standard" in others' mouths.

Hello, I'm glad to answer your question. Will rural people be laughed at by their neighbors without boys? It's not good to have two girls, and you didn't eat his food? Although I don't prefer boys to girls, I do prefer boys to girls in our countryside. If you don't have boys, you will be looked down upon and bullied by others. Rural people are too realistic.

My husband's grandmother just gave birth to three daughters, but no boys. Fortunately, they are all married very close. One daughter is in town and the other is in town. My grandmother is in the next village. But I have been unable to lift my head in the village. If there are no boys, I always feel that I don't want to go back to my family. I feel inferior and people are busy going back to my parents' home. If there are no boys, I feel very sad, and the old man is very poor.