The Love of Parents finds out why even if Mrding marries Angie, he can't live like Jiang Defu.

First of all, there is serious male chauvinism in Mrding. In Mrding's eyes, it is a shame that a big man is in the charge of a woman every day.

An Jie asked Jiang Defu to wash his face, brush his teeth and wash his feet every night. Mrding joked that Jiang Defu was a "three-washed husband", which led other comrades to laugh at Jiang Defu. Then Angie gave birth to a baby. Jiang Defu went to the yard to wash diapers at Anjie's request and was met by Mrding. Mrding smiled again.

On the one hand, Lao Ding envies Anjie's educated wife, but on the other hand, she thinks that women should do laundry and cook and watch their children wait on their husbands.

After morning exercise, Jiang Defu went home to see Angie who was pregnant. Mrding thought that Jiang Defu reported early and asked for instructions late. Jiang Defu said that his wife was pregnant, and if she didn't go home to see her, she wouldn't be at ease. The first child was born more than ten days in advance, so this child should pay attention.

Turn it over and look at Wang Xiue. Wang Xiue gave birth to a child at home and gave birth to herself. She died in childbirth. If Mrding can remember his wife's pregnancy and premature birth like Jiang Defu, he can go home early and take Wang Xiue to the hospital early, maybe Wang Xiue will not die. Wang Xiue's death is more due to Mrding's negligence.

Mrding's male chauvinism doomed him to be unhappy even if he had a daughter-in-law like Anjie.

Second, Mrding's selfishness Mrding is very selfish. He is a shrewd egoist. At that time, Jiang Defu originally stayed in school after graduating from artillery school, but he gave Mrding the qualification to stay in school, so that Mrding could continue to develop in Qingdao and go to an isolated island.

Both Mrding and Anjie thought it was too painful to go to Songshan Island, but Jiang Defu was not afraid. He thinks that he should work hard and make contributions to the country and the cause. He ignored everything and went to Songshan Island by himself.

Later, I married Ge because of Wang's words. He dare not give up everything he has now for Ge, nor dare he lose his official position and go back to his hometown to farm. He gave up Ge Xiamei.

Imagine that many years ago, Jiang Defu would rather go back to his hometown to farm than marry Anjie, but Mrding couldn't.

Mrding is a selfish man. He finally chose Dehua. In Jiang Defu's words, Dehua has always been Mrding's spare tire, and he has been taking advantage of Dehua's feelings for him.

Third, Mrding's EQ is too low. Angie's nephew was ill, so Jiang Defu sent for a doctor.

Mrding immediately told Jiang Defu that this was an excuse for Angie and Jiang Defu to get back together, but Jiang Defu said that he was nothing and deserved to be put in his nephew's life.

When Jiang Defu was ready to tell Angie the news of his marriage, Mrding suggested that raw rice be cooked before telling him, but Jiang Defu disagreed, thinking that he should be honest and Angie had the right to know the truth.

From beginning to end, Mrding always thinks from his own point of view and never considers the feelings of others.

Any problem, Mrding's first thought is himself. He will reserve his own interests before talking about others, instead of considering others' feelings first and thinking from others' perspective.

Finally, the difference between Mrding and Jiang Defu is not an angel, but a pattern, but emotional intelligence, that is, the correct three views.

Mrding was a staff officer after graduating from artillery school, and he was still a staff officer when he retired, while Jiang Defu was promoted to multiple levels and became the commander of Songshan Island.