How to get your girlfriend to kiss or hug you more often

Contents Part 1: Express your love to her 1. Express your love to her. 2. Don’t overdo it. 3. Compliment her when she does something good. Part 2: Be the boy she wants to express her love for 1. Be cute. 2. Be humorous. 3. Develop good hygiene habits. Part 3: Further Actions 1. Give her something special out of the blue. 2. Don’t play “love games” with her. 3. Pamper her. Many men in relationships feel that their partner is not showing enough romantic intimacy. This can be very damaging to a man's self-esteem and happiness in a relationship. The good news is that there are some very simple solutions to this problem that anyone can master. Check out these tips and tricks below!

Part 1: Express your love to her

1. Express your love to her. This method means that if you express love to her, she will express love to you in turn. Do this often, but don't leave her feeling suffocated (see step 2). Try these guidelines: Hold her hand while you two are shopping at the mall, or hold her hand while you watch a movie.

Give her a kiss when you say hello. If she doesn't know you're there, gently walk up behind her and kiss her neck.

Snuggle her on the sofa, hold her in your arms and put your fingers in her hair.

Massage her back, palms, or feet. Girls all like to feel pampered.

2. Don’t overdo it. If your girlfriend tells you that you are too clingy, or she is really not the affectionate type, express your love for her to the extent she feels is reasonable. You have to learn to find such a balance. If she thinks you're too clingy, she won't have the thought of expressing her love for you. She will be disgusted by some of your expressions of love and consider them unnecessary.

Learn to take a step back. If you can do that, respect her feelings and take a step back. Don't stop showing your love to her completely, and don't rush into kissing or hugging her first. Instead, focus more on the things you do for her.

3. Compliment her when she does something good. Don't be hypocritical, don't come prepared with words, just tell her that she makes you happy, she makes you feel lucky, and she makes you feel like you want to have her by your side all the time. If she's wearing a pretty dress, say something like, "Your dress is so pretty and it suits you so well! You're the epitome of summer!"

If you notice she recently had her hair cut, Say this to her: "Did you cut your hair? It just reminds me how beautiful you are! Otherwise, I would almost forget it?"

If she accomplishes something skillfully, or completes it Tell her how much you respect her by doing something difficult and tiring: "I'm so proud of you. I know you're smart/strong/dedicated, but you still make me see a different version of you."< /p>

Simple compliments work best. Saying, "You have such beautiful eyes," or "When I see you smile, my whole body lights up." These always work best. When you compliment a girl, remember these tips:

Don't compliment her breasts or butt. Keep complimenting her eyes, hair, smile, or her outfit.

Avoid cheesy compliments. "You are the sweetest sugar cookie I have ever tasted" is cheesy (albeit sweet). But "I'm lucky to have you" isn't so obvious.

Give her compliments with a smile and a sweet tone of voice. Show sincerity. Girls often pay attention not to what you say, but how you say it.

Part 2: Be the boy she wants to express her love for

1. Be cute. Make her want to be by your side. Face her in a good mood, don't complain about the trivial things that bother you in front of her, and be interested in the things around you. If you are a cute boy, she will feel that no amount of expressing her love for you is enough. Be calm and collected. Surround yourself with happy people, do fun things, and don't sweat every little thing! Girls like boys who are calm.

2. Be humorous. Girls are easily attracted to humorous boys. This means you need to develop a habit of always being funny and happy around her. Be silly together. Impersonate a celebrity, or act out a scene from a day you experienced together, or challenge authority in a clever way.

Do whatever makes her happy being with you.

Make harmless jokes. If she doesn't like the joke, comfort her or make fun of someone else.

Tell jokes. Find jokes on the Internet or make up your own. It's better to make jokes that only the two of you will understand. The upshot is that if you make her laugh, she'll want to show you more affection.

3. Develop good hygiene habits. This includes doing laundry, brushing, flossing, and mouthwash (no one wants to kiss a smelly mouth). Wear a nice-smelling cologne and shave off any stubble. She will love being in your face. Many women find certain smells unpleasant, so avoid wearing that cologne if she complains. When you wear perfume, make sure you don't overdo it; women hate it when men wear a lot of cologne. And men often squirt too much.

Shampoo your hair regularly so she can play with it. Girls love playing with their boyfriends' hair. Give her an excuse to play with your soft, clean hair.

Do your best to look clean and well-groomed. Even if you don't look clean, you can still dress appropriately. Girls will tell you when you don't take good care of your appearance.

Part 3: Further Actions

1. Give her some special surprises. When you go to see her one time, bring her something. It doesn’t have to be something big, it could be a candy bar, or a fun card. This is a great way to express how much you like her and how much you want to make her happy. Try taking her out for lunch or dinner out of the blue. It would have been better if she hadn't expected it. Find out what she likes to eat and go eat it with her.

Write her a letter occasionally. Handwritten is best. It doesn’t need to be long or sentimental. Tell her you are thinking of her all the time; tell her why she is so special to you.

Suddenly give her something she wants. Girls usually give guys hints about what they like, like musicians, clothing or accessories. As a man, remember what she likes and then go out shopping and buy her some reasonable items. She will be stunned. #Plan a special date. Special dates work well because they are exciting. She had no idea what was going on and then you showed up and made her fall in love. If this isn't a trick for hugs and kisses, there is no trick!

Plan a movie date, a dinner date, or an activity (such as bowling, ice skating, a cooking class, or a sports game). If she's really interested in something, try adding her interests to the date schedule.

Ask her friends to help you. If you are close to them, try planning a surprise birthday party for her with her friends or family.

2. Don’t play “love games” with her. Don't wait for her to do it first, or wait on principle. Be someone she respects. Remember, if you don't want her to do it to you, don't do it to her.

3. Pamper her. Make her feel like she is the only girl on earth who means anything to you. This will make her feel comfortable, relaxed and happy. If you pamper her, she'll likely let you see how pampered you make her feel. Small things like opening the door and asking for her opinion are often ignored by boys. Be a gentleman.

If you know she is having trouble, such as a homework problem, a long shopping list, or a CD she can't find, find a way to help her. Let her see that you are thinking of her even when you are not together.

Take care of her when she is sick. Bring her hot soup and soda, and bring some movies to watch with her.

Never forget flowers. Almost every moment is a good opportunity to send her flowers. Don't go overboard, but give her some flowers that she likes every now and then. If you stay close to nature you can even pick some flowers for her. Sending flowers is a great way to get her to kiss and hug you.

Tips to make her laugh.

Adapt to her emotions! When she is sad, a more serious and calm, but cheerful attitude is enough to comfort her. When she is happy, be happy too and talk and laugh with her. She will feel that you truly care about her mood and her special needs.

Think of her often when you are alone because it will help when you are with her.

Take her to places she likes or wants to go.

If you've only been with her for a while, get to know her better, but don't do it too quickly.

If your girlfriend is sad and crying, try to cheer her up.

If she shrugs, shrinks, or walks away, she doesn't like it. Kissing the neck is a very private gesture that most girls prefer to do at home. But remember that hunching your shoulders doesn't always mean she doesn't like it. It may also mean that she is nervous.

Girls like boys’ little dominance. If she's lying on the couch, lean down and kiss her. If you're standing too far away to bend down, stick close to her! Put your arms around her legs or waist and pull her closer! If you two are very close, don't be shy about her objecting! But don't be too obvious, be gentle and gentle. Girls will feel very happy.

If it's a first date, take her somewhere where you can actually talk. If you take her to the movies, you won't be able to really talk to each other. You can only sit in silence for hours on end. Take her to a quiet, relaxing place like a coffee shop, the beach, or the mall, or rent some scary movies and invite her for a movie night. These are places where you can talk openly and freely and really enjoy your time together.

If you're nervous about your first kiss, be prepared for her. If she leans forward to kiss you and you turn away without knowing she's about to kiss you, you'll look like a fool. And she gets depressed too.

Don’t be too mysterious and don’t make it too obvious that you are in love.

Warning: Don’t talk about your ex, and don’t talk about your first kiss, unless it was with her.

Don’t do things like touch her breasts in public places. She probably only likes it in private. She might even dislike it at all.

Be prepared for rejection, but don’t be too paranoid to take risks.