Why do people say, "Never help others when they are in trouble"?

Many people may have encountered lending money to friends in trouble, but these people in trouble actually take their friends' help for granted, ungrateful and not paying back. Maybe we were all friends before borrowing money, but we became strangers after borrowing money, even worse than strangers.

2. The other party may never be able to repay.

Many times, when others are in trouble, they give some financial help, but they are either rich or expensive, or they are short of money. In this case, we have to consider whether to lend a helping hand. As the saying goes, "thirty years in Hedong, thirty years in Hexi", you may be dragged down yourself.

After the accident, the other party was devastated.

Some people don't want to make progress after becoming victims, so they immerse themselves in the pain of their own failure, cherish the scenery in front of them, lament all day, don't look for the reasons why they became victims, don't look for opportunities to succeed again, and even blame their victims on others and society. Such people don't need help.