Ask for an answer! How to handle the relationship with your best friend without hurting your feelings! Please analyze ~ ~ and add points when you are free! !

Friendship is mutual and equal. No one always gives what the other takes, and such friendship is not so sweet!

According to your description, your girlfriend really doesn't have much cuteness, except being mean, comparing with others, calculating friends and killing acquaintances. I don't know what else you miss. She seized your weakness and reluctance, used her friendship for more than ten years as a bargaining chip, and asked you again and again whether you want this or that.

You're right. Ten years of friendship is not short, but do these ten years of time and feelings mean the same to you as to her? You think this is wealth, you should cherish it, and even please and coax her again and again in order to maintain this so-called friendship, but what about her? She just wants to get some benefits from you, such as being labeled as "godmother" for no reason, and then she has another person who can help her share the financial burden of raising children. Why not?

I think this can also explain why she has no other female friends except you. Everyone should learn something from their feelings. I have paid for your feelings, and I need you to pay for me. I cherish you, and I need you to cherish me! I think this is the true meaning of being a friend, and only in this way can a friend relationship be as stable and long as a balance!

If you can't bear to part with her, you can be an ordinary friend with her. All you have to do is alienate her, and don't let her habitually haunt you like a vampire, or she will suck up all your nutrients and energy. There is nothing wrong with paying for friendship, but pay for those who are worth it, so don't be silly.