What do you want to know about children's education? What parenting experiences or puzzles do you have?

First of all, teaching by example is more important than teaching by example. I hope the children can set an example by themselves.

Parents want their children to read more books and watch less TV, play less mobile phones and play less games, but why can't many children do it? The key is that parents didn't bring their heads. When the child was young, he did his homework and I sat beside him reading or writing. None of us interfere with each other. After children finish their homework, they will also find a book to read. Because I am very busy, I seldom have time to watch TV, but I will accompany my child to watch his favorite programs, such as the cartoon "Sheriff's Black Cat", "Gourd Brothers" and "Spirited Away". Discuss a plot after reading it.

I won't swear anywhere. My children learn some swearing words at school and occasionally come out. I will educate him at once and won't allow this kind of thing to happen again. The child is slowly giving up.

Second, discuss with children more, reprimand them less, and never lecture children in public places.

Children don't have proper limit. If you are naughty regardless of the occasion, you will often embarrass adults. Many adults will directly reprimand or beat and scold their children, which will seriously hurt them and make them more and more skinned. I've been in this situation. I whispered in the child's ear, "Stop it. If I teach you a lesson outside, people will laugh at you. You must make a good impression on others. You are very good. " Then I will hold the child in my arms and tell him that I like you. Are you a reasonable boy? We are good friends, right? The child will be quiet.

Third, don't teach children before meals and before going to bed.

Food is the most important thing for the people. First, teach children to eat, which will make them feel uncomfortable, lose their appetite and affect their stomach. In addition to bad living habits, stomach trouble is also related to mood. If you reprimand your child before going to bed, the child will not sleep well, which will affect the quality of sleep and even be frightened at night.

Fourth, use a magnifying glass to discover the advantages of children, often praise children, and let children have confidence.

Everyone has advantages, depending on whether you focus on the advantages of others or always focus on the disadvantages. Always mention the advantages of children, children are very confident in front of people. Try to overcome the advantages of other children and compare them with the disadvantages of their own children. Pay attention to your child's shortcomings and the way you speak. For example, if a child is lazy, he can say, "If you overcome laziness, you will be even more amazing." When he does one thing, he asks, Yes, he is diligent. Children will work hard, and adults love to boast, especially children.

Fifth, take more children to participate in social activities, so that children can learn to get along with each other in activities.

Take more children to participate in social welfare activities, so that children can learn to share, care for others and get along with others from an early age. My child was a member of the Red Cross when he was a child and would take part in some public welfare activities. Later, he joined a volunteer organization. In these activities, you can get in touch with many people who need help and make their hearts softer.

6. Parents should pretend to be weak in front of their children and let them make more decisions.

I often pretend that I don't read much in front of my children. I need my children to help me. My children think that every time I help me solve a problem, I succeed. I will ask him some questions, what should I do, and let him make suggestions. Once again, someone called me online and said that they would cooperate on my official WeChat account. He wants to advertise, but I really don't understand. I told my children about it. How old is the child? After listening, he thought for a moment and told me, "Just ask him, how do you cooperate? How much are you going to give me? " Letting children make suggestions is to train children to think more.