Eight years of marriage is a joke.

Although what has been advocated now is to listen to your wife's words at home, listening to your wife's words seems very good, but in fact, there are great hidden dangers in the long run.

A family should not have only one person in charge, because one person in charge will be very tired, really tired and worried a lot.

The wife also wants someone to share. The best result is that the wife is responsible for the small things at home and the husband participates in the big things. As for the big things, my wife has the final say.

Because the wife's indecision is a big deal, you need to appear at this time. When she asks your opinion, don't say it casually, just do it at your discretion, and I don't care.

When everything is discussed, the family will be more and more harmonious. If you let her handle everything by herself, she will certainly be confused, wronged and lose her temper.

Especially in the face of really uncertain things, I am afraid that I have made a wrong decision and someone will blame her in the future, so I will definitely discuss it with you. Say it again, and the grievances will erupt.

All negative emotions of adults will eventually turn into temper. You don't understand when she cries, even a little fuse will make her lose her temper.

So in your eyes, she is becoming more and more demanding, unreasonable and angry.

But the other person is human, and she will certainly have all kinds of temper, injustice, sadness and anger. It has become a temper in your eyes, so come on.

Especially after eight years of marriage, it is not easy. They are so familiar with each other. You know her temper, and she knows your temper.

Why is her temper getting bigger and bigger, but you don't know it? Isn't that a little funny?

My bedside person, the person I know best, doesn't know why she has changed.

In a word, she is too tired and has too many worries. As long as she has money, leisure, goals, ideals and her own pursuits, you may not even care about her temper.

Any woman who wants to live as an old lady wants to live as a beautiful little princess. My sister's children just can talk, they can't even say their names, ages, heights and weights, and they don't even know their weight.

But if you ask her, are you beautiful? She will react directly and say that she is the most beautiful fairy.

A child who can't even speak clearly knows that she is the most beautiful fairy, let alone an adult woman. Who wants to see their old age rejected?

An eight-year marriage must have a period of burnout. The direct manifestation of burnout is that you love her, so what can she do to get your attention? What can you do except lose your temper and make you listen?

After a long time, although some tacit understanding has increased, I really can't manage that much. I've only been married for three years now, and my husband sometimes doesn't listen to me.

But I have a better way than losing my temper, but some wives just can't find a better way and can only lose their temper.

Give the simplest example. When visiting relatives, she asked them what to bring, but she didn't quite understand your relatives.

Whatever you say is up to you. We take whatever others take, without special treatment.

How does she know what others have taken? Then we'll just have to ask around. I asked around and found nothing. I'll ask you when I get back. Just say it. Don't bother me. I'm busy.

Are you angry to see this? If I were you, I would ruin my home for you. Don't say I have a bad temper. Actually, I hate it when people say, whatever, it's up to you. I can say that.

If you can't make up your mind to eat, if you can't make up your mind to dress, if you can't make up your mind to solve things at home, it's a matter of ability.

A wife can live with a man with ability problems for 8 years. Be content. Don't think she has a bad temper, but think about the reasons from her own body.

Every fairy is forced to be a bitch.

If you really want to solve this problem, you should listen carefully when your wife talks to you in the future. When your wife asks for your advice, give her two or three choices. Look, you are sure to get a gentle and lovely wife.

How high can women expect from marriage? Actually, it's not high at all, saying that you will hurt people or something. In fact, I don't want you to send flowers and money on any holiday. It is enough to listen carefully when you speak, and just answer carefully when you ask questions, especially if your marriage life is long enough.

The harmony that two people want to get along with is reflected in small things, and there is no such thing as big or small.

Little things see true chapters.