What should I do with my straightforward friends?

People who speak bluntly are easy to get along with. Although you don't like some words, what he said may be true and others can't hear him. Besides, people who speak bluntly are generally not bad and have no bad intentions. Such people are easy to make friends. When he says something you don't like to hear, you just try not to take it to heart.

In the process of communication, we will always meet such a person who speaks bluntly. Everyone is bragging about the beautiful clothes you bought. When I threw cold water on it, I told you that you were too fat. You can see the meat in this skirt, which is round and ugly. Everyone is coloring him, but he still tells you what he saw without any hypocrisy, although it can save some money, or it is a waste to buy this skirt and not like it.

Going to a restaurant for dinner, this dish is salty, this dish is light and this dish is tasteless. This restaurant is really bad. If you hear him say that the restaurant is delicious and affordable, you must try it. It must be good, because he will evaluate it with his heart, but it is not expensive, the environment is better, the dishes are bigger and the sanitary conditions are good. Every time I go to the place he recommends, I can't go wrong. Tell the truth.

So this may be how we make friends. We can't be perfect, but we must make friends with everyone. The secret of getting along with others is to think more about the advantages of others, not always about their shortcomings. If you always follow his shortcomings, you can't make friends. I'll listen to what he says well, pass it if I can, accept it if I can, and agree if I can't. Isn't it great!