Have you ever been urged to get married by your elders?

When young people nowadays face elders urging them to get married, they should just do Tai Chi, hide when they can, and try not to confront them head-on. Because today's elders are really terrible. If you say something that makes them unhappy, there may be many things they will say to you. And because they are your elders, you can't say too harsh words. It's really hard to hold back your anger, so many people choose to hide when they can. If they can't afford to offend, they can hide.

Actually, to be honest, there are many elderly people who really like to interfere in other people's affairs. In this life, I think it is enough to be able to take care of your own affairs. There is no need to worry about other people's affairs, because it has nothing to do with you at all. Naturally, everyone has their own reasons for not getting married. It may be because they have not met the right person, or it may be because they want to play for a few more years. But in the eyes of some elders, this may be a heinous thing.

If you reach the right age and don't choose to get married, they will think that you can't get married or can't find a suitable partner. I like to gossip, and what I say is particularly unpleasant. Some people may really care about you, but some people may really just care about you. Anyway, under normal circumstances, I just avoid those people at home. I don't give them any chance to attack me, nor do I give them a chance to speak, because only in this way will they not whisper in my ears.

Some people may really care about me, but I really don’t have the idea of ??getting married yet. I think it’s fine to be alone, so why do I have to care about what others think? Maybe when I get older, I will naturally want to find someone to get married, but it's really not the time now, so I resent people rushing me. I can't offend them, nor can I say harsh words to them, so the only thing I can do is stay away from them.