What should I do if my boyfriend doesn't give gifts on Tanabata?

I watch others celebrate Valentine's Day every year. Since we got married, my husband has been consistent and never gave anything. Moreover, he will mend the knife: all the money is yours, and you are married. How can you be so picky? Although you are telling the truth, which woman doesn't like romance, right?

A few days before Tanabata, my circle of friends began to remind me that I was afraid I wouldn't remember. Haha, I'm joking, but I always feel that there is a strange phenomenon that I don't quite understand. It seems that everyone has accepted a rule: Valentine's Day is a festival for men and women, and men should create romance and surprises for their girlfriends, wives and admirers. However, since it is Valentine's Day and men and women are lovers, shouldn't we give each other gifts?

I think it's better to send each other. First of all, everyone is mortal, and human nature wants to get the attention and attention of others. Secondly, husband and wife and lovers are equal, and neither of them has been giving, while the other one accepts this love with a clear conscience. In the long run, the payer will definitely have some small emotions. You can imagine that even if you occasionally prepare such a small gift for your boyfriend's husband, he will probably fly happily.

The love between you and me is more romantic and longer. Gifts don't care about dignity, just express your mind. Even if the woman responds with kisses and hugs, the boyfriend may make the husband feel that everything is worth it.

In the west, it goes without saying that the origin of Valentine's Day has nothing to do with lovers. Later, it evolved into Valentine's Day, when lovers exchanged gifts to express their understanding and love. But it did go bad after it spread to China.

It's not just Valentine's Day that goes bad. Basically, many festivals in China have gone bad. Valentine's day needs gifts; On Christmas Eve, add apples as gifts; Christmas, want gifts; Coupled with the shameless hype of businessmen and the fact that many young people in China don't know right from wrong, this deterioration is getting worse. But what can we do?

Before falling in love, I told my girlfriend that Valentine's Day and my mother's birthday were the same day, so I would celebrate my mother's birthday, and then we would spend Tanabata together. She was very happy at that time and said that I was filial, but when I saw that the roses in my circle of friends were pricking my eyes, I forgot what we said before and began to complain that I didn't give her a gift. No way, I can understand her, a little girl, who is easily lost in colorful things. I also want to find someone with the same values, but there are few people around me.

Most women are like that. You reason with her, she tells you that everyone else does. Why not? When you tell her that everyone is like this, she will talk to you about herself. Most of the time, she just wants to be your little career, but she just doesn't listen ... Ah, of course, if there is a girl around you who doesn't want a car, pays back the loan and pays the down payment on average, you can try another one. I'm still slowly transforming the object through three views. It took me three years to see the results, but there is still a long way to go ... I was encouraged by you.

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