The wife bought a New Year's dress, and the husband thundered: You changed all the clothes my mother wore. Do you want to be ashamed?

Falling in love is not the same as getting married. Love is pure. Two people can't get along as long as they have feelings. As long as you break up, the cost of breaking up is also very low.

But marriage is bad. Emotions in marriage account for only a small part. It is more realistic than falling in love, mixed with many interests and contracts, and the cost of divorce will be much higher. We can't treat marriage as romantic as falling in love, and expect it to be as hot as falling in love.

Many people have said that before marriage, I thought it was a joke to be suitable for each other. Only after marriage did I know that it was a truth to pay attention to being suitable for each other. Marriage really needs to pay attention to collocation, which is not a traditional pedantic concept. The matching here is not only the matching of family conditions, but also the matching of two people's ideas, experiences, knowledge and hobbies.

Leah and her husband Dong Jun have been married for three years. When they first fell in love, Leah's father strongly opposed their being together, because Leah's family was well-off, her parents were corporate executives, and there were several suites at home. Dong Jun is just a poor boy from the countryside, and his parents are farmers. Leah's father thinks that Dong Jun is not good enough for Leah, and he doesn't agree with them. At the beginning, his father said to Leah, "You are looking at him everywhere now, and getting married is not that simple. I'm not saying that I want to ruin your happiness, but I'm worried that you and he have different family environment and different life concepts. I'm afraid you will be wronged in the future. You are the darling of your parents, you are bullied, you and me. At that time, Leah was still very naive and felt that as long as two people really loved each other, there would be no obstacles.

My daughter insisted on getting married, and my parents couldn't stop her. They finally agreed to the marriage of Leah and Dong Jun. They can only hope that Dong Jun can treat Leah well and not let Leah be wronged. So Leah and Dong Jun got married. After marriage, the couple lived in the wedding room prepared by Leah's parents for them, and the couple lived a loving life.

At first, the couple's life was really good. Usually they are busy with their work. On weekends, they punch in to the places they want to go nearby and eat delicious food. They lived a colorful life and never had any conflicts. Leah is very proud. She succeeded in proving to her father that she was different from Dong Jun.

After more than a year of marriage, Dong Jun offered to take her parents home. His parents' house in their hometown was in disrepair and the roof collapsed. It leaks when it rains, so his parents have no place to live. He wants to live with his parents. Leah agreed.

Life began to change after my parents-in-law moved here. My parents-in-law have been frugal since childhood, saving everything. My home soon became a garbage dump. Leah was very confused. Why does she eat leftovers every day? Why do you have to keep plastic bags? Why do parents-in-law have to turn over garbage in the community and take it home?

For this matter, Leah talked to Dong Jun a lot. Every time Dong Jun asks her parents for help, she hopes Leah can understand them more. Leah can't understand. She felt that her parents-in-law had worked hard to turn their home into a garbage dump and didn't make much money.

What makes Leah more headache is that she earns a lot of money in a month. In the past, she bought whatever she liked and received express delivery every day. Since my parents-in-law came and saw Leah receiving the courier, her mother-in-law couldn't help but say that she was a prodigal family and didn't know how to be frugal. Leah threw away the expired cosmetics and unwanted clothes, and her mother-in-law picked them up for her own use, which embarrassed Leah.

China New Year is coming. Leah bought herself a red dress to celebrate. She is trying on clothes in the room. Dong Jun came home from work and saw Leah trying on clothes. He casually asked, "Did you buy new clothes again?" Leah excitedly shared with her husband, "Yes, it's just New Year's Eve. I want to buy a holiday suit and keep it for the New Year. Do you think my suit looks good? " "It's beautiful. How much did you spend? " "Not expensive, more than 4,000 will do."

After hearing this figure, Dong Jun suddenly became angry. He asked Leah loudly, "This is not expensive. Look at how many clothes you bought this year. The wardrobe is almost full. My mother's clothes are all left over from you. Do you want to face you? " It's not good to have this money to do anything else. You always spend money to dress up. Who are you dressing up for? "Dong Jun's words made Leah angry and wronged. She slapped Dong Jun hard and said to him, "I have money. What's wrong with me spending some money? "I spend my own money. I can buy whatever I want. I have long wanted to spit on you. Usually when I buy things, you all say that I lost my home and spent your money? I didn't make your mother wear it. Those clothes are unnecessary, but she has to find something from the garbage. "

Leah has had enough of this life for a long time. She ran away from home in a rage and went back to her parents' house. No matter how Dong Jun coaxed her, she refused to come back.

When we are in love, we are often attracted by the differences in each other's lives. It's a novel experience to touch things that have never been touched, but if you want to live together for a long time, too many differences will affect the feelings between husband and wife.

You still have to find a suitable person to get married. If two people have different family environments, their living habits and money concepts will be different. Children from poor families will pay special attention to money and be more careful when spending money, while children from rich families will not care too much about money and will pay more attention to enjoyment. If these two people live together, they will definitely quarrel about spending money, and finally all their feelings and love will be consumed in the quarrel.

When you get married, you should be with people of your own class, so that two people will have more similarities and can live according to their own inner thoughts. Matching the right family is not something that must be considered when getting married. People from two different classes can also get married. No matter what the marital status is, both husband and wife should find a place suitable for each other in the running-in, so that the marriage will last for a long time.