During this time, I was very decadent in my studies. I am a sophomore in the experimental class, but I am at the bottom. It is estimated that the third year of high school will go out. I'm anxious.

Phenomenon:

Because you are excellent in junior high school, you have been surpassed by many better students for a long time and ranked ahead of you, which makes you feel humiliated, uninterested in learning, bored and hopeless.

Solution:

You still don't understand, there is a saying: don't compare with others, just compare with yourself. Progress every day is the best state. You must think what I said is a cliche, a cliche and meaningless. But I tell you, one day, you will understand that comparing with others is only a means, and comparing with yourself is the consciousness and purpose that a person should really maintain. Many people can't understand this philosophy. As long as we have our own goals, and move towards them every day, grow a little, learn more, know more than yesterday, and improve the goal completion by (even) 0. 1%, then one day (assuming it takes three years to complete the goal every day) (this goal may be either your annual income is 1 10,000, or you have memorized 4,000 words. Back to your present situation, what you have to do now is to set and improve your own goals, move towards them little by little every day, and only compare with yourself (you always compare with others, which means little, but only push yourself to the lowest level).

1? Learning objectives:

Chinese, mathematics, English, politics, history, geology, biochemistry and other subjects (I don't know if there are any subjects in senior two, assuming that I want to study), I should make a general learning goal, such as making the basic knowledge clear, understanding and memorizing (remember, if there are any difficulties, don't do it first, it will waste your time and energy greatly, just like sprinting.1 Don't waste precious time in the way, we should do it strategically. First, understand all the easy-to-understand concepts, formulas, theorems and examples in books. These are the most basic things that must be understood. After going through the basic things of each subject, you can almost understand and say the principle, and then it is not difficult to find the key content and remember the key points. Because the point is mandatory! ! ! The difficulty lies in opening the score. See clearly the significance of the important and difficult points. There must be a goal in class, make clear what the teacher is going to say in advance, make a plan before class, write down the theme and related knowledge points of this class, and try to understand the knowledge points and principles that the teacher is talking about in class. If you don't understand, ask the teacher after class. Don't be embarrassed. That's his duty. He will never refuse you. No teacher will refuse a studious student, he will only appreciate you more. ! ! Only buy reference books with mind maps and knowledge structure maps. Those books are all words, no maps, no illustrations. Don't send it to you, because those books will only make your brain explode! All human skills and knowledge are based on memory, and the essence of memory is image memory. Words and numbers are symbols. You must visualize knowledge and use knowledge maps and mind maps to sort out knowledge points and the causal relationship between them. You should use a set of notes that you only know (marking symbols and various colors (at least prepare red, blue and black pens or others) to mark various difficulties, concepts, principles and so on. That word is the key word, and so on. Simple and fast arithmetic in mathematics must be learned, such as 99*56, and you can get the answer immediately: 5544, like 1 1*23564, and you can get the answer immediately: 259204. Another example is 23*27, and I can get the answer immediately: 62 1, but these are not me. ! ! You should also learn mnemonics, especially associative mnemonics. You have Baidu, and there are many tutorials. Write more and practice more! Now the college entrance examination language and beautiful writing can add up to 10. Think about it, even if you add 5 points, you can beat hundreds of thousands of candidates across the country! ! ! Let me tell you the four rules of beautiful and neat writing. If it is done, it can ensure the beauty and neatness of writing: 1 positive: horizontal and vertical, and the same kind of strokes are equidistant (multiple horizontal and vertical and multiple left points are equidistant); 2. Even number: symmetrical characters with up-and-down structure. The strokes are symmetrically distributed around the vertical center line (i.e. the center of gravity) of the grid, and the main pen should be prominent. 3, tighten the palace: where the words intersect, write tightly, not loose. 4, in order: almost all words with left and right structures will use this rule, and the left and right parts will avoid interleaving and the strokes will remain harmonious. ! ! Remember, writing a composition in Chinese is actually very simple. If you use one of the eight basic forms of mind map: circle map, you can disperse your thinking around the theme (composition topic), write related keywords, and then circle two or three key keywords, whether it is to write a narrative, explain or debate proceedings around the key points, use rhetorical devices such as metaphor, personification, parallelism, correct rhetorical questions in the middle, etc. (at least use three different figures of speech) and write at least one epigram or two-part allegorical sayings or famous sayings. Only in this way can we ensure that even if the content is not very exciting, we can get 60%-80% of the composition score (assuming 30 points, at least 20 points, believe it or not). Because the marking teacher didn't look at the papers you wrote, but at your language organization and application ability, he didn't have time to look at the scenery and stories you wrote. Just look at how your basic knowledge of Chinese is expressed and played. In this way, you only need to show your basic knowledge of Chinese with writing routines, and nothing else needs to be thought about. It's useless to think about it! One thing to pay attention to, don't use spoken and online languages, don't use a word! ! ! For example: Fuck, cool, bad, Chen Duxiu, etc. Remember! !

2? Entertainment goals:

The combination of work and rest is not blown out by blowing water. This is an objective law. If you don't study according to the combination of work and rest, you will get less in the same time (you could have learned 100 knowledge points, but if you don't study according to the combination of work and rest, you may only learn 60 knowledge points a day and your brain will explode. After learning a subject, I will take a ten-minute break and play crossword puzzles. Classical music is the best, and light music is very good. Lying on the stage seems to be sleeping, but in fact it is resting and listening to music. Don't worry about your classmates, no one is looking for you, and you are not looking for anyone. Concentrate on being yourself, don't think about the junk that no one values you and no one asks you to play with, and so on. You have only one goal, and you can learn step by step under the goal. Of course, it's good to have someone to chat with you. ! ! ). Entertainment is actually a lot of interesting things, such as watching jokes, listening to stories (just buy a portable MP3 player), chatting, and playing magic (there are many online games, so go to Tik Tok volcano to find some simple methodology, and show it off in class when you have time, so that you will be instantly charming and kill those boring Gao Shuai tycoons and schoolmasters! Remember, beautiful skin is the same, and interesting soul is one in a million. You must be an interesting person. There are many ways to learn and accumulate slowly, to make yourself humorous and interesting, and to make life more "interesting". Handmade is also a good entertainment, all kinds of simple handicrafts, such as plant stickers, paper-cutting, origami and so on. , easy to obtain, simple to make and full of fun.

3? Sports health:

After school, you must go to exercise. You must go to the playground or sports ground to exercise. You must run, jump, push-ups, jump rope, badminton, basketball and so on. Aboveboard, at least 30 minutes. If you spend less than 30 minutes, don't go, there will be no exercise effect. You must take a hot bath to dredge blood vessels, and the refreshing effect is never comparable to that of a cold bath. You must not be picky about food when eating, because the nutrition is the same. The brain's ability to accept will be reduced. Don't eat fried and spicy snacks. Sleep at least 7-8 hours a day. Don't be hard on yourself, keep studying hard. Health is the capital of revolution. If you don't understand this sentence, go to the people's hospital lobby for ten minutes on Saturday and Sunday. Look at the patients and their families who are waiting in long lines to register, run the department and run around. No one can frown in the face of death. Health is 1. With health, the more zeros behind, the better (10000 ..., knowledge, work, money, family, affection, entertainment, etc. It's all zeros. With health, the last zeros are meaningful, otherwise they are all zeros. ! ! ! )

3? Interpersonal goals:

The first thing we must do is to be polite to the teacher. The teachers we often see at ordinary times should try their best to get their own names anyway, and when they meet the call, they will take the initiative to smile gently: hello teacher Chen, hello teacher Li and so on. Don't be shy, look at him (her) bravely and say it! ! ! If you do, the teacher will only give you extra points, like you more and recognize you more, without exception, unless the teacher is mentally ill, those are not counted.

Be polite to your classmates. If you are not friendly at ordinary times, just smile and pass by. If you are friendly to you instead of looking for you, you should take the initiative to call him (her) and ask him (her) where to go. When you see someone in trouble, take the initiative to help, and don't think about other strange ideas. You should know that you are taking active actions, helping others and helping others. If you don't think about those things, you are positive energy, don't care what others think, and do things that are generally recognized by society with great probability, and don't think about and care about other things. Be brave and focus on yourself and realize your beliefs and values! !

Do the above mentioned well, basically you are an excellent student, without exception! ! ! Trust me. Of course, you can't break the law, such as fighting, going to internet cafes and watching small movies.

The second is depression and great pressure.

Reason: I care too much about what others think of you!

Solution:

You just need to remember one thing: you work hard in action (study and think) and make progress in thought. It is natural and understandable that you live legally and reasonably in this world, and no one wants to accuse you of anything. You can live with peace of mind and face anyone and anything (of course, you don't have to care about other people's eyes or words, this is the major premise). So you can feel at ease. Eat you? So you can't survive? So you can't study? Make you unhappy? Let you break your hands and feet? Why, you say, why do they look down on you and influence you? Do you live on their money? Don't! Do you have to rely on their help to eat, sleep, walk, read and study? Don't! Can't you live without them? Not really! At best, you are a little lonely, that's all. But this is back to the starting point. As I said, a truly powerful person is responsible for his words and deeds, firm, brave, persistent and regretless. He can get along with others or live alone. So what you should pay attention to is not other people's opinions and words, but your ideals and goals. These are your values and your life. Use your actions and plans, be strong and firm, and use your methods and concentration to achieve your goals. Finally, "professional face-slapping"-let those who look down on you and are unfriendly to you look up to you in confusion under your progress and achievements. ! ! That's what you should do. Maybe you don't understand, but I'm sure you do. Look at your history books. Did the great men who succeeded become stronger in comfort, panic and helplessness? Don't! They fought the enemy since childhood, fought with themselves and bravely did their own thing! ! !

Having said that, if you still can't break through yourself and don't take action to change your thinking and learning lifestyle, then you have failed my enthusiastic help. You might as well print out what I wrote, show it to your parents, ask them for help, and ask them if I'm right! ! ! Hide these words in the deepest part of your schoolbag and read them at night and in the morning. Then, start a beautiful sleep or start a day of study and life with peace of mind. You can do it! Great! Meeting is fate. I sincerely wish you good health, progress in study, concentration, firmness, courage and successful completion of your goals! It's over ~!

-A passerby in Guangdong.