Middle-aged man's heart: it took 4 years to understand that marriage is more reliable than money! What do you think?

People all over the world say that money is the most reliable thing in the world. Everyone can betray you, but money can't. But we may have neglected the power of love and the role of marriage.

The other day, Dashu told me a lot behind his wife's back when he was seriously ill. What moved me to tears most was this sentence: It took me 4 years to understand that marriage is actually more secure than money. The reason why he said this sentence is the most obvious to me, but it is the test of human nature and the awakening of conscience.

Dashu, who is 4 years old this year, is my good friend. He has nothing to say about his friends, but he goes too far with his wife. At that time, Dashu was married, and his wife's parents were working together. Because of several brothers who could do business, the whole family was very harmonious and rich. Dashu's parents died and he was an orphan who grew up eating hundreds of meals. When two people were together, outsiders could see that it was good, but they couldn't hold back that they liked each other.

Dashu, who has become a door-to-door son-in-law after marriage, is looked down upon by rampant people, who treat him as a soft persimmon. Dashu would never stand it if it were not for the sake of his wife's face. Everyone is dignified, and no one wants to put his majesty on the ground and everyone despises it. 2

Husband and wife can tolerate love, but after three years of mourning and seven years of itching, Dashu is becoming more and more indifferent to his wife, and he feels that her never dares to put in a good word for him aboveboard.

The tree that strives to become a rich man attracts bees and butterflies everywhere, and is very happy in front of his wife's family. At that time, he felt that no marriage or affection was as real as money. My wife is sad, but she never mentioned divorce.

The weather is unpredictable. On his 4th birthday, Dashu invited his lover to have dinner. On the way to dinner, he received a phone call from his children's teacher, and hurried to drive to school. On the way, he had a car accident and hit his head in a coma. Dashu's wife rushed to the hospital, and the doctor said that he was not sure when Dashu would wake up and prepare his family mentally.

My wife took care of Dashu for half a year, and Dashu finally woke up. When I woke up, I learned that the lovers who said they loved me all day had never been here once, and my wife was in front of the ward all day. Because it also involves losing money, the wife also sold all the houses under her own name to pay back the money for his treatment.

Later, Dashu asked his wife why she was so kind to him. Her wife said that she always remembered his kindness. He covered her feet, warmed her bed and cooked every meal for her. Even after he gradually became indifferent, his wife hoped that one day he would stick to his own opinions. 3

Before the accident, Dashu thought that his wife only recognized money like her family, and ignored the condemnation of conscience to vent her hatred on her, which made her suffer. Only when he saw his wife's behavior during the car accident did he understand the meaning of marriage, and he realized that sometimes money is worthless in front of marriage. Marriage is more practical than money. No one controls it. Money is just a piece of paper. Marriage is different. Marriage can warm and illuminate our whole life.

Every time I tell my friends about Dashu's experience, I can't help feeling at last that we should take the time to love our wives and grasp happiness. Later, my friend told me the story of his parents. Two 7-year-old men, who were as ordinary as children, spent many years from young to old for the house they tried their best to buy. After the house was finally transferred to my friend, it suddenly became clear that their efforts for each other were more precious than the house.

A friend said that his parents were going to buy a house in the city for his convenience in school. When buying a house, the father, as the head of the family, didn't want to write his mother's name. The mother felt embarrassed and unfair. The money for buying a house was earned by two people, so what if two people's names were written? The stubborn father was not willing, but he couldn't help but buy it, and the mother got his father's wish. Later, the two men quarreled over this matter, and later, they never put money together again, learning from young people and starting the AA system. 4

When you tell a joke, you have to pretend to be loving after your predecessors, and you can't let people gossip behind your back. Until they are both old, they spend all day tending flowers and plants together, traveling around, and seeing countless people around who have been ruined by money and their houses, they gradually wake up. In fact, as long as the husband and wife have deep feelings and are not influenced by money, the world will be more pure and wonderful.

A friend said that until today, two clown parents often make fun of the past. When they were young, they all fell into the eyes of money and valued money more than anything else. Fortunately, because they didn't get divorced, they wouldn't be so happy today.

I have heard too many stories about the supremacy of money. Some people do unnatural things because of money, some people lose their precious lives because of money, and some people hurt their loved ones because of money. But after listening to the experiences of these two people, I suddenly feel that money is not so important, but marriage and love bring us more surprises.

people say. Marriage is unreliable. As long as I make money, it is the most important thing to give me a sense of security, but it is not all like this. Many people neglect or don't really understand how important the relationship between husband and wife has been living together for many years. People are alive, and money is dead. Only at the critical moment can we understand that mutual support and dependence in marriage may be more reliable than money.