Don’t say random things and don’t make random jokes.

After receiving a harassing phone call from Hunan during lunch break today, a female colleague Xiaolan (pseudonym) jokingly said to another female colleague by name: "Chen Xiaoyu (pseudonym) Are you Hunanese sick?"

Xiaoyu replied: "I am not sick, you are sick. You can say that someone in Hunan is sick, but you cannot say that Hunan people are sick. It means that all Hunan people are sick.”

I want to give Xiaoyu a thumbs up. This sentence is very good. It not only answered the unfriendly question of the colleague but also answered it.

But this Xiaolan didn’t realize there was anything wrong with the question she asked. After receiving Xiaoyu’s rebuttal, she continued to say with a smile on her face: “You Hunan people are really sick. !"

So the two started arguing, and another female colleague Xiaoxiang said to them in a vicious tone: "You are all sick!"

< p>It's better now. Xiaolan and Xiaoyu angrily yelled at Xiaoxiang at the same time: "You are the one who is sick!" In an instant, the duel turned into a group fight.

You see, the three people who usually have a good relationship have started a quarrel because of a joke that was not carefully worded, and the relationship has reached a deadlock.

As the saying goes, "three women, one drama", where there are more women, there is more right and wrong.

Maybe it doesn’t hurt if we all just joke around and relax.

But it is worth noting that women are fickle, emotionally complex animals, and sometimes they can change their minds faster than turning the pages of a book.

Maybe one day I am in a bad mood and I am irritable, and suddenly something someone else says will ignite and explode.

This little incident also reminds me of another little incident last year

There is a female colleague in our department. After joining the company, she went to the cafeteria to eat a few times and then never went there again. After eating in the cafeteria, I either ordered takeout, made cereal or had some snacks.

One day, a senior sister asked her: "Why don't you always go to eat?"

She stared at the elder sister and said lazily: "That's for people to eat. "?"

The eldest sister hesitated for a while and said "It's okay" and then walked away.

While eating, the eldest sister sat next to me and started complaining to me.

She said angrily: "Does she mean that those of us who eat in the cafeteria are not human beings? Look at the chairman, general manager, and department heads, they all eat every day, where can we?" Doesn’t it taste good? I’ve been eating it for more than ten years without any problems. The food in our company’s cafeteria is pretty good. I’m so speechless.”

This is another offending sentence. Everyone’s case

Have you ever thought that maybe something you said inadvertently hurt someone else. Because the speaker has no intention, but the listener has intention.

Before speaking, filter it in your mind for three seconds and think about whether saying this sentence will make others uncomfortable.