What are the skills of chatting with girls?

How to chat with girls, WeChat chat also needs to master skills. Good chat skills can fully show themselves and leave a deep impression on each other, so they become good friends or lovers. But many people don't know how to chat. Here are some ways to chat with girls.

How to chat with girls 1

1, trying to attract each other's attention.

What is playing hard to get? When you talk to a girl, you secretly buy something for her. When she needed you most, you suddenly disappeared and hid. What will she miss you for at night? What are you doing? In fact, many brothers will not make girls happy, will not please girls, will only be silly to treat girls well, spend money for her, and some will kneel down directly and eventually become her spare tire. If you want to turn Gan Kun around, you might as well come to the official WeChat account-Dongye Wen Ze Love Me, to teach you to be as happy as a bad boy, to make girls happy, to make girls like you, to let you master the bad boy's love strategy, to let you know girls through chatting, to make girls happy and even to make them happy.

The career in his heart panicked. When she misses you, it means that she has you in her heart, so that her heart will not enter yours. Do you find that this is the same as chasing girls?

Most boys always like to chase after girls who ignore their love. As a result, the other party is more and more resistant, and the more tightly wrapped, the easier it is to break. The correct way should be to keep in touch with girls, pay attention to the communication not to go out of line, constantly, and occasionally take a bubble during contact to let girls know your existence.

2. Don't pester or fight.

The most taboo of chasing girls is to pester them and beat them when they don't know how to be with them. When they don't know what to talk about, they can play a paragraph first. Sister, this period of time should not be too long or too short.

Is to keep fresh, this time you can judge whether girls have feelings for you. Go all out to win each other. Speaking of girls' endless ways, someone asked what was going on here and there, but she still said she was very sad. He just wants you to take care of her and comfort her. There is no right or wrong in chatting, just discussing which is better. Why is the girl's mood gone?

Then I'm going to talk about a method today, spelling. The girl replied to the boy, is there a day when I don't look good? He wants to go back to that girl, no matter how beautiful you are, the girl doesn't want to talk to you, what's more, she hasn't practiced sentence splitting in time. Is to take this sentence apart

3. Learn to find a topic.

Don't we have different topics for different keywords when it's not good-looking, so how long will our topic last? I just think you look particularly good today.

Is it a hypothesis? Girls certainly want you to answer directly. It can be said that you look good in such beautiful clothes. Looking back at girls, you didn't show it to me every day, and the last word "not good-looking" can start the topic.

How to chat with girls Method 2

1. Humor when chatting with girls for the first time

The first is the opening remarks of a diversion.

Send her three words "you are crazy" or you are a bad person, and the other party will definitely feel puzzled and will definitely reply to you. Although you don't know her, it's a good choice to get her attention.

Second, look at the picture and talk about the opening remarks

If your first photo seems to be the legendary xx, or I have been to this place in your first photo, where did you buy that thing in your first photo, and so on. Remember, you must add your own feelings and opinions after you finish.

Third, praise and care about the opening remarks.

Some girls have puppies and kittens and pictures of children. You can praise them appropriately. Your puppy is so cute. It looks so cute. How old is it? Children are so cute. You seem to like children very much. /You look very kind and should be liked by children. Remember, after a compliment, be sure to ask the other person's opinion and opinion. Otherwise, some girls will think that you are deliberately praising her after praising her, and generally skip it without looking.

Fourth, the opening remarks that arouse girls' curiosity

This is very important, such as, er, your head/clothes and so on. This opening sentence is very useful, and ordinary girls will be curious to reply, what happened to my avatar/clothes.

Verb (abbreviation of verb) is shown in the opening remarks of the confession.

Seeing that girls' WeChat Momo is older or younger, such as 50- 100, 1- 18, you can express your surprise and say, Hello, fairy sister! Or how are you? Generally, girls will smile back or ask a question mark, and some will play role-playing with you.

6. Exaggeration and deliberate misinterpretation of the opening remarks

If your bangs were invincible in ancient times. Your skin is so white. I can hardly open my eyes, and so on (this follow-up is not good, it is necessary to test your answering ability). Remember, don't dwell too much on the opening remarks after the chat starts, and cut into the next topic when the time is right.

2. How to find a topic when chatting with girls?

1, talk about the topic related to "emotion".

Such as childhood memories, future ambitions, or her hobbies. Such a topic can open the floodgates of her emotions.

A girl likes a man who has the ability to control her.

Control the topic when talking to girls. Don't wait for her to tell you what to talk about

3. Pay attention to the nonverbal cues that girls give you.

If you stand close to her, spit, or otherwise make her feel uncomfortable, she will give you a hint. Pay attention to these tips.

4. Remember this proverb: "Humorous but not funny."

Girls will be attracted to men who make them happy. Don't just tell the funniest jokes, spend more time showing them the most exciting and interesting things.

5. tease her.

The easiest way to make a conversation ambiguous and interesting is to flirt with girls. Think back to how I played with girls on the school playground. The method of attracting girls at that time is completely applicable to dating now.

6. Talk about some personal topics.

Girls will be attracted to men who dare to take the conversation to a personal level.

7. Use "cold reading" to infer their psychology of attracting women.

Girls like to hear what others say about them. Tell her what she looks like in your eyes.

8. Don't flatter girls too much.

Men who look "hungry" will turn girls off. Excessive compliments to a girl will make her think that you are trying to attract her attention, and the effect will only be counterproductive.

9. Avoid interview topics.

If you want to know how to talk to girls so that they don't feel bored, then avoid asking too many "interview" questions and state your views on things.

10, remember: there are more statements than questions.

Instead of asking, "Where did you grow up?" Come on, say, "You don't look like you grew up in this place." It would be better this way. So you can evaluate her and show your personality.

How to chat with girls method 3

1. How to find a topic to chat with girls?

Let's talk about ourselves first

When there is no in-depth contact, girls will be wary of approaching boys. At this time, it is important to talk more about your own topic. Let the other person know himself from his own topic.

For example, which school or unit you are from, what major you study, what occupation you are engaged in, and what work you usually do. It's best to mix some interesting stories, which will not only let her know you as soon as possible, but also make her know you to a certain extent, so as not to be as boring as taking a statement.

28 principles

Unless they are extroverted girls, most girls are introverted, especially when they are not very familiar. As a pursuer, we should prepare more content. In the process of preparation, we must adhere to the principle of "you are 82", so that interaction can deepen our impression and understanding of each other.

laugh at

Love behavior suggests that you might as well make more jokes and make the other person laugh. It can be an adaptation of online humor. At first, I said something about myself seriously to get her attention, and then I had surprise humor. When she thought of happy things, the first thing she thought of was you.

Do what you are interested in and talk about topics of interest.

Everyone has his own hobbies, for example, some people like to eat, while others like to play. No matter what she likes, as a suitor, you should master and execute it, participate with her and create the same topic. But don't do anything that scares her. For example, people are very, very afraid of haunted houses and drag them to haunted houses. Unless you know each other well, you will be left out in the cold.

2. Chatting skills with girls

Some people say that it is really difficult for boys and it is not easy to chase girls. But my feeling is that this phenomenon is inseparable from the social role orientation of men and women. From a physiological and social point of view, women are always passive. If, on the other hand, men are ashamed and women are brave, the world will be in a mess! Women's shyness is always beautiful ~ I always hear that a brave man overcame many difficulties and finally won the heart of a beautiful woman. There are few examples to the contrary.

Some boys are afraid that others will say that they are dead and pester them to fight, leaving a bad reputation. But I think boys pursue the girl they like and continue to be nice to this girl after encountering some setbacks, which shows that people really like it and are sincere. If it doesn't work, there's nothing to regret. It's nothing. Who makes people like it? I hate people blindly following me, and I hate boys who have no opinions and care too much about what others think of them. They deserve not to find a girlfriend.

If you are a man, be brave. Girls are emotional and easily immersed in love. Although you work hard, once your heart touches her, you will get more and more love. Such examples abound around us. Girls are gentle and considerate to their boyfriends. What was the sweetness of the original hard work? And most good girls are devoted and single-minded.

Therefore, it is suggested that some boys be brave and pursue the girls they like, instead of being so timid. One is that people think you are unmanly, and the other is that you feel uncomfortable. But, most importantly, you get nothing in the end. Happiness is always earned by yourself, don't expect others to give it to you!

By the way, I think it's good to take the initiative, because your goal is what you really like. Girls are often passive and can only choose to accept and refuse, so I would rather take the initiative and love what I love without regrets!