How can a full-time treasure mother settle her baby by cooking and washing dishes?

And bamboo baskets.

The baby went out for vaccination three months ago, just me. I didn't know where to put the baby when I went to the toilet, and then I used a strap.

Let go of the fence

Even in the bucket of the pulsator washing machine.

Later, I found out that I told my children what I had done quietly and calmly, and even showed him. He grabbed the food and put it on his head. ...

I found that I would always play with him as long as it was safe, and then I would take him to clean up.

Anyway, I always take my baby to play, so I take housework as a game. Although tired, but to ensure safety, not addicted to electronic equipment.

As long as I am anxious to finish my work and impatient, the baby will hug my leg. The more I talk, the tighter I get. The more I want to get rid of him, the faster I finish my work. My baby is so nervous that I am at a loss. The more I cling to you, the more annoying I get. -running around, the baby cried, and I made trouble. No peace. I dropped my cell phone once.

Just pay attention to his safety, and be careful when he scratches with a knife or fire.

Let him experience the feeling of cutting on the back of the knife and the heat of the fire, and he will hide himself, so the chance of scratching is much less.

Knocking over several shovels and spilling some food is also a life experience.

This question mainly depends on how old the baby is. If the baby is over 2 years old and has a basic sense of safety, then put him in a safety fence, with enough safe and rich toys, so that adults can rest assured to do housework and let them look after him every once in a while; If the baby can't walk, put him in a baby chair or a comfortable trolley. Chairs and trolleys should be within their sight. On the one hand, the baby sees that the mother feels safe, on the other hand, the baby is within the controllable line of sight, and the mother will be relieved to do things.

I have a deep understanding of this problem! Because I've met it, too

I have been carrying a baby since I was born, and I became a full-time mother after maternity leave. At that time, my husband had to go to work, and sometimes he couldn't come back for two days. I'm the only one taking care of the children.

Children are better when they are young. He can't walk or climb. When cooking, I put him in the fence and gave him some toys to play with. When I was older, I put him on the dining chair, facing the kitchen, so that he could see me and be quiet for a while.

But there are times when I can't help it. I cry so badly that I have to hold it. I'm cooking at this time, and it's not unheard of to hold the baby in one hand and cook in the other.

When he could walk, all these things failed, so I bought a snack. I tried to prepare food while the child was still sleeping. While waiting for dinner, I opened a small meal for my child to listen to songs and watch cartoons. Because the meals are prepared in advance, I don't have to spend too much time cooking. I try to wait until the children fall asleep after dinner. It can be said that during that time, I basically used a small amount to comfort my child, but I didn't show it to him every time. I'll coax them with food or play first, and only show them when they really can't.

And anyway, it's just mother and son having a meal, so try to be simple, prepare in advance, and take a short time. For children over one year old, it is a time of curiosity and hyperactivity. At this time, I am mainly concerned about the safety of children! It's hard! It will be fine when the child is older!

Why not put a BB chair and let the baby watch you do things? You have no idea how interested she is in these things. The baby is over two years old, so he moved a small stool to watch me work. Occasionally give her a chance to pull a spatula twice and play with a little bubble [snickering].

Play with her when she is one to two years old, cook some dishes for her and make a bowl for each family. Two to three years old, two children don't have to play by themselves, and none of them want to play an cartoon. After the age of three, I basically don't have to play by myself.

This question is equivalent to whether the living will be suffocated by urine.

In fact, this problem has been bothering me for a long time.

It is easy to take care of children every day. As long as I cook and do housework, I am in a hurry. I have to take care of the children when I am busy in the kitchen. The child is angry, let me hug him. Children knock things over while playing, and children shit. I wish I had three heads and six arms at this time!

Before the baby is one year old, he can only crawl or walk a few steps. At that time, I packed all the dangerous things he could touch at home and put a crawling mat on it. When I cook and do housework, the children crawl around and play without crying or making trouble, which is more worry-free.

Later, the baby was over one year old and could walk, but it was unstable. This stage is the most tiring, especially when cooking.

At first, the baby cried and carried it with a strap. Although I stopped crying, my back ached several times. This method gave up decisively.

Later, because my baby loves to eat and do his own thing. He cooks and does housework. First, give him a snack or fruit (not too much, of course). Eating in the mouth distracted my attention and my brain stopped crying. What he eats is called incense!

As the baby grows, he eats faster and faster. The biscuits given to him were finished in less than five minutes, and he always cried after eating. Moreover, after eating too many snacks and not having finished eating, this method is becoming more and more useless.

In this way, in the next few days, the baby cried and held her in one hand to do housework. Suddenly one day, I was preparing to cook in the kitchen. Of course, the child came again without any suspense. I thought he would hug her again. As a result, he was very interested in beating eggs. I suddenly realized that there is no conflict between cooking and doing housework and taking care of children. We can totally involve the baby and do something we can, such as beating eggs, choosing vegetables, throwing garbage and cleaning the table together.

Only then did I understand that the child's crying was not without reason. They want adults to stay with them all the time and never want to be ignored.

From that day on, I do some urgent housework every day after my baby sleeps and play with him when he wakes up. When cooking and doing housework, I patiently explained to him that my mother can't cook, and he seemed to understand, sitting in a small chair and waiting (by the way, cultivating the ability to wait). We do all the housework such as cleaning after meals, making children happy and adults relaxed.

Baby's mind is simple, so I think we should give the child enough time to accompany him with high quality, and consciously cultivate patience and waiting ability, fully understand the baby, treat the child as an adult who has not grown up, and properly let the baby participate in housework, so that the baby will not cry. We can do these things at the same time. it wont hurt you to try it

My son is ten months old now, and he can't do anything when he sleeps, because I have to be beside him when he sleeps. I must wake up after leaving him for five minutes. So everything was done when he just woke up and was not hungry or in a good mood. Give me a toy first, or I won't make takeout. I'll put him in the baby chair and help him cook. Once I put him on the mat and climbed into the kitchen to find me. I didn't do any housework.

Tell me about my experience for Ma Bao's reference.

When the child was more than two months old, I bought a baby rocking chair and put her on it in the dining room. She can see me when she lies on it. I was busy coming to Doby for a while. I bought the simplest one at that time, about 60 yuan. But it is very practical. It took about 1 1 month. I cook and do housework in the middle. Anyway, I can hardly hold her, and she relies on this rocking chair to help when she is awake.

A treasure of this rocking chair has been searched a lot, and the picture is like this:

Later 1 1 month later, she began to learn to walk. When she didn't want to lie down in the rocking chair, I bought a baby walker, which I remember cost about 60 yuan. I bought the one with a round top and bottom and adjustable height. The wheels of the stroller are so flexible that they won't fall off when walking back and forth. When cooking and doing housework, I can't hold her and put her in the walker. She will walk around. At that time, the walker was particularly suitable. It happened that the width of the walker was a little larger than the bathroom door and the kitchen door, so she could only walk back and forth in the living room and room, but could not enter the bathroom and kitchen. I threw away everything that could be thrown in the living room and room at that time, making it particularly spacious, so that I was not afraid that she would fall when walking back and forth. I'll feel more at ease when she walks around. You can do your own thing. You don't have to stare at her. But because our kitchen connects the dining room and the living room, she plays in the living room. She can see me, and I can see her when I'm cooking in the kitchen, which is better.

The walker at that time was like this.

/kloc-after 0/3 months, she learned to walk, but when she still couldn't walk steadily, I still put her in the walker when I was busy. She will get a toy like a bell to play with.

But no matter how I used the tools, I didn't put her aside for long. At noon, we usually cook very simple noodles or steamed vegetables, which only takes ten minutes. I don't wash dishes. At night, when my husband comes back from work, or when he comes back to look after the children, I will wash them. In any case, the safety of children comes first. Housework can't delay the nanny.

Babies over one year old can usually just walk, but they can't walk well, so they are curious. It is suggested that Ma Bao put safety first. Home layout should consider the safety of the baby. Things with potential safety hazards, such as sharp objects, stools that fall easily, hot water, or other things that you think may cause danger, should not be placed where the baby can reach them. Keep your home layout as simple as possible, which can also reduce your housework.

Give her toys to play with. I didn't buy a walker. In fact, it will be much easier for you to pick vegetables while he is asleep and get ready.